Why do first loves fail? Let's talk about it

I hope you can step aside and look at the problem no matter what happens. If you always regard yourself as the protagonist of this story, I think you will never be able to see the essence of the matter clearly. It’s even less possible to see a solution to the problem. The authorities are obsessed, but the bystanders are clear. If you can step away from your story and sit in the audience to read your own story, I think you will definitely understand more things! I must also know that you are now What should be done.

In fact, love is a kind of fate that is even more chaotic than it can be cleaned up. In your own love, only you know the ins and outs of things best, and other people’s answers can only be regarded as your own. For reference, the final decision is yours to make. You must not use other people’s answers as the standard for solving your own problems, because who knows your own affairs better than you? If you choose to fall in love, that is the same choice. In addition to the ups and downs of love, there may be a day when we break up. Since we have chosen a process from the beginning to the end, we have to face the process of love head-on. Breaking up is not difficult to face, because Two people are together for happiness. If separation is to give each other more space to find their own happiness, then what else do we have to be sad about? Being happy is a day, being unhappy is also a day. We don’t have the courage to escape from this world. We We still need to live every day, so since we choose to live it, why not live every day well? How about living every day happily? When you have not planned to truly love others, please be kind to yourself. Love yourself for once! Think about it, how much have you loved yourself? No?

Facing everything that happens around you with a calm mind, you will find a way to live calmly in the world. Road!