Why are so many people basking in the circle of friends? What is good for them?

which is better, those who bask in babies in friends circle or those who don't bask in babies?

q: I also sunbathe babies in my circle of friends. Generally, I have 1-3 pictures, a long paragraph, a certain detail, a certain parenting point of view, or a funny paragraph, with a rhythm of 1-3 times a week. Yes, I just never send more pictures, and many times the pictures are irrelevant.

Then I found two kinds of people. One is 9 pictures, videos, and more than N high frequencies a day. It's cute to bask in your baby. Less words.

the other one, never sent, for various reasons.

My question is, what kind of people love their children more? In other words, which behavior is more helpful for children's growth? Or, it doesn't matter?

A:

After reading this question, I think it's three questions. The first question is, who loves children more, those who bask in their babies in a circle of friends or those who don't? The second question is, is it helpful for children to bask in the circle of friends? The third question, how to sun children in a circle of friends is better? This third question is expressed according to her previous language.

first of all, before we talk about all the questions, let's talk about sunbathing in a circle of friends. In a flash, WeChat has been out for eight years. In fact, in the first few years, many people may regard WeChat's circle of friends as their own diary and send messages there. For a while, friends disliked each other and thought I didn't care about your information. Why do you send so many messages a day?

So several situations began to appear. One situation was that I began to stop sending friends circle, and the other situation was that I sent friends circle for me to see when I was old. It's none of your business, not for you, so I continued to send it my way. There is another situation, that is, I need to let my friends know my situation. Maybe I have children, and I feel particularly cute. I hope to get everyone's praise, and I also hope to get everyone's praise, so no matter whether others want to see it or not, I will send it anyway. What other advertisements in Wechat business and chicken soup for the soul are screened? Not to mention these, they are two different things from us.

after talking about making friends and drying babies, let's talk about the first question of loving children. Whether you love children or not and whether you bask in children in a circle of friends are completely different. You may especially like children to be around them all day and have a lot of heart for her, but you don't necessarily send friends. It is possible that you usually have little interaction with children, but in order to show that you have interaction with children and show your fatherly love or maternal love, you send a circle of friends to show off. Of course, there must be. Mom likes it very much, so she can't hold back her excitement and must share her circle of friends.

But generally speaking, whether you can send a circle of friends does not conflict with whether you love children or not.

second question, is it helpful for children to have a baby in the circle of friends?

I don't know if when I saw this question, did a friend think that he made a circle of friends and the child didn't read his own WeChat at all, which would help the child?

However, from a commemorative point of view, the circle of friends is still helpful. We began to say that some friends regard the circle of friends as their own place to record things, so you have recorded all the naughty and cute moments of children. Everyone's memory time is limited, and maybe many small things will be forgotten over time. But when you look through the circle of friends unintentionally in a few years, you will find that there are so many naughty and cute moments when children are young.

But the circle of friends is a software after all. Just because it exists now doesn't mean that it will still exist in ten or twenty years, so I have several ways to record children's affairs for my parents.

1. Use a special notebook to record your child, which makes you feel distressed, cute and naughty, so that the child can share his growing experience with him when he grows up.

2. Make a photo album for children every year and keep it, so that you can recall things when you see photos, and children can have a more vivid experience. In the future, when children grow up, they can have friends to play at home, or they can show others their childhood photos, or when we are parents, we can look through these photos. Where can I sit for photo album books? At a treasure, of course.

3. If parents have the habit of keeping a diary or making some records, they can record some children's affairs and their own affairs, and then they can know what happened when they look back later. When looking for something about yourself, you can also find many things about children that have been forgotten.

the third question, how to better bask in the baby in the circle of friends?

It goes without saying that parents love their children, but your love doesn't mean that you have to brush the screen in the circle of friends, which will make your friends feel helpless when they look at the circle of friends. Just because you like your children and see how cute their children are doesn't mean that friends want to see them when they see their circle of friends.

So it's best to control one day, only brush one message of children in the circle of friends, and it's best to explain the pictures. If you can convey some funny or some experiences to your friends, they will feel very useful and they will be happier. Because the circle of friends is not a private circle after all, but a circle for all friends, then when you send something in this circle, you have to consider the feelings of friends who look at these photos.

I'm glad to help you answer your questions. I hope you can ask more questions.