People who know psychology are coming. Boyfriends always say things that hurt feelings intentionally or unintentionally.

In my opinion, you both have problems. Remember that all problems should be found by yourself first, and then viewed objectively.

In view of your situation, let me analyze the following points: 1. You really care about him. You want to know everything he thinks, knows and says thoroughly. 2, you have a good memory, the so-called speaker has no intention to listen, but too much "intention" will push things to extremes. I can see that you are also a person with conditions and background. But doing things is either too hasty or too hard. Lack of care and shyness as a female role. 4, too impetuous, you said that I feel that you have a purpose, but what is the purpose, I know, you can not say here, you know. Analyze your problem above, and then talk about his problem.

Men have a strong side, a weak side and a dull side, just like life. If you think he is arrogant, you should seize his arrogant side and let him save that arrogant face. Because you love him, you should tolerate the arrogance of the person you love. But you should pay attention to the fact that there is nothing wrong with arrogance, and getting carried away is the crime. He thinks you have no taste, maybe you just pay lip service. If you really have no taste, try to make yourself tasteful. Taste is not cosmetics, not AV bags, not fashion. Many times, taste is a belief, an unruly character and a positive attitude towards life. You can sublimate your thoughts and make him feel that you are a thoughtful and knowledgeable woman, so that he can keep his heart on you. I dare not say anything else, but I think you can buy an astronomical telescope and look at the stars on a clear night. There are many things in it, remember one sentence; What I see is not the stars, but loneliness, life, fantasy from the distant horizon, and a deep and hazy past. It can make you feel calm. I don't know if you understand what I'm saying. I don't have science here. )

As for his disrespect for your friend, it shows that he is indeed a little arrogant. But remember, smart women should learn to resolve misunderstandings and crises, and stupid women will only add fuel to the fire. I understand your situation, but I sincerely hope you can mediate from it. Sometimes a white lie is also a sign of being responsible for life. Don't complain like other women, always turn yourself into a victim to win the sympathy of your friends, but kick another person from other people's impressions to another world. If you are smart, then you know. )

There is nothing wrong with going abroad, and going abroad may not necessarily have seen the world. You should let him know what the world is. Literally refers to various social occasions. But the real world should be an inclusive attitude. I can see that he is not secular enough, but he has a pathological condition in the west called arrogance. Since the meeting, he felt lost, helpless, helpless and so small. The more powerful people are, the more fragile they are, and the more arrogant people are. Because this is a natural self-protection. )

Men often say over and over again that it's nothing, but you don't believe in what constellations are like what Pisces. Actually, I think it's just how you look at his words and deeds. Remember, "the fisherman hides and ignores, but drowns and doesn't collect." It means that all fishermen know that if the buoy moves a little, there will be no fish, but if it moves too hard, it will not be closed, or it will be broken. You are just like him, you can say whatever he says, and everything can only be done slowly.

There is a perfect person in everyone's heart, but there is often no such person. Don't be disappointed when he compares you, you should be happy, because at least he has you in his heart, just hiding. It doesn't matter. People compared with you are just empty fantasies.

If you are smart enough, I believe you can capture his heart and change him. If not, I can only give you the last sentence: there is nothing wrong with getting married, but to be happy, I would rather choose the one who loves me than the one I love. This is the tragedy of love and life. . .

I hope I can help you. I'd appreciate some points. Please forgive me if there is anything wrong. After all, it's just my personal opinion. If there is similarity, it is plagiarism. )