What a married daughter must not do when she goes back to her mother's house.

1. The married daughter can't go home for the New Year. For farmers, the Chinese New Year is the biggest festival, and it is also a culture that the Chinese nation has inherited for thousands of years. In such an important festival, family reunion, eating New Year's Eve together and watching the Spring Festival Gala have become a consciousness of farmers. However, a married daughter is not allowed to spend the New Year in her home. Old people say that because their daughters are married, belong to other people's families, and the Chinese New Year is a reunion of their own families, married daughters are easy to come back for the New Year and bring bad luck, so they are not allowed to come back for the New Year. The married daughter can't sleep in the countryside with her husband when she returns home. Things between men and women are filthy and private. Only in your own home, in other people's homes will break the fate of other people's homes. Therefore, when the daughter and son-in-law return to their parents' home, they will sleep in separate rooms. Even if you go to relatives and friends' homes, you will sleep in separate rooms, which is highly valued in rural areas. What a married daughter must not do when she goes back to her mother's house 2 1 After the death of the rural elderly, the married daughter cannot be buried. Sometimes, a married daughter is not allowed to accompany her to an old man's funeral, so she has to wait at home. This statement has a long history. It is taboo to say that a daughter's funeral for the elderly will destroy the geomantic omen of our family. You can't have children in the countryside. Children used to be delivered by midwives, but it takes a lot of luck to give birth to a child. Our family's luck was originally reserved for grandchildren, so we won't let our married daughter have children in our family. In rural areas, this is called rushing to the god of wealth. Some places will say that an old tree in the yard was killed when the child was born, indicating that the child was born with luck. But now I don't care much about this, because no matter whether I give birth at my parents' home or in my husband's family, I basically go to the hospital to give birth, and I won't give birth at home anymore, so I don't care much. There are many traditional customs in rural areas, many of which have been handed down from generation to generation, and some of which were produced in the specific living environment at that time, and now they are no longer applicable, but most of the elderly still have such customs. Whether it is good or bad depends on different people's different views.