What is the psychology of people who never send friends or look at friends? What kind of person?

My old man just doesn't send friends, doesn't add anyone's WeChat, just me and my daughter, doesn't make friends, doesn't get together, and is very popular. Where do you think he is tired?

I just never send friends, and I hardly look at people in my circle of friends.

Why not send a circle of friends? I basically don't recognize what self-discipline is said on the Internet. For other reasons, according to my own experience and that of my friends around me, I summarized several aspects.

1, the older people are, the less likely they are to make friends. Even if they make friends, they will forward some chicken soup for the soul, life insights and ways to keep healthy. Or a photo of his grandson (daughter), the third generation children of his grandson (daughter), and some details of his growth.

2. Busy people have no time and energy to send out unimportant things.

I don't think it is necessary to tell others about my thoughts and life.

4, the general organs, institutions, personnel is not easy to casual.

5, the true sense of sublimity, the world is drunk and I wake up alone, they have their own spiritual world, disdain to share with others.

6. WeChat users have a small number of elderly people who have not fully mastered the chat function, and will not send it or don't know how to send it.

Of course, there are various reasons. Some people just feel that there is nothing to send if they don't want to send it, and they may not want to send it occasionally. There are work needs, some need to be forwarded before they can be opened, and some have touched themselves and want to touch people around them.

But in any case, the circle of friends is a window for everyone to know you, and it is also a channel for basic information to be leaked. Everyone has different choices, as long as they like it.

I don't watch friends for several reasons:

1, other people's business has nothing to do with me. I don't need to know what others do and what I do.

2. The information forwarded by the circle of friends can be obtained through other channel platforms, and some contents cannot be generated * * *.

3. Wechat business is rampant, and friends circle is full of all kinds of marketing. They think it is unnecessary and worth buying.

4, think that the circle of friends sent by others is showing off what he lacks in disguise and showing his best side to everyone, very good! But that's only an occasional act. If you do this every day, your daily life will be like this. There is no need to be angry, not jealous but disdainful.

5, don't look at and don't believe the photos sent, they are too fake and distorted. Here, I want to talk about my personal views. Taking photos with mobile phones can record our lives, which is really convenient, practical and convenient. But the beauty of mobile phones will make our future memories false and unreal. We can turn off the filter properly, turn off the beauty, don't wear makeup, don't take pictures, and leave the truest self in that beautiful moment.

It is true that in this pluralistic era, you can tolerate any individual's choice, and you can do anything you like as long as it does not affect others.

This is an interesting question. What is a circle of friends? Baidu Encyclopedia explains this: "Friends circle generally refers to a social function on Tencent WeChat. Users can post words and pictures through friends circle, and share articles or music to friends circle through other software. Users can "comment" or "like" friends' new photos, while other users can only see the comments or likes of the same friends. " This shows that the circle of friends is a sharing platform, and everyone can interact through it. Then the question is coming. Does everyone send friends? The answer is no, let's talk about who doesn't send friends.

The first category: people who only use WeChat as a communication tool, the main purpose of using WeChat is to communicate with relatives and friends at the same time, similar to calling and sending text messages.

The second category: people who live a regular life. Such people have a full schedule every day, and have no extra time to run their business, browse their circle of friends and do fixed things at fixed times.

The third category: people with narrow social circles. There are always twenty or thirty friends in WeChat, and they are all relatives and customers. The circle of friends has not been updated for three or five days, and such people will not send and browse the circle of friends.

The fourth category: people who are tired of friends. Every time I open a circle of friends, it's either advertising or purchasing. Every time I look at a circle of friends, there is nothing worth paying attention to. Over time, I got into the habit of not seeing my friends and not sending them.

In fact, you might as well ask yourself, why do you care so much about others not making friends and not seeing your friends?

Are you worried and anxious because others don't send or read it? Or other emotions?

Whether to publish social media or not, whether to watch social media or not, is a personal choice. Maybe the other party already has its own fixed audience, so there is no need to post it to attract others' attention.

I may want to enjoy the fresh life like Tao Yuanming, or I may be busy.

I used to brush my circle of friends for half an hour. In fact, there is nothing new, just itchy hands, I want to see it.

Later, I learned that I can't muddle along day by day. After jumping out of the comfort zone, I stepped up all kinds of studies, and I didn't have time to see my circle of friends or make friends.

What I have learned from all walks of life is also very substantial. I don't think there is anything missing because of my circle of friends.

But in the future, I will read it when I am not particularly busy, and I will send some.

Generally speaking, it's hard for me to understand if I don't make friends at all, because people my parents' age will watch it.

I never send friends, and I don't look at friends. There are four types of people:

1, a person with particularly strong psychology

People with strong psychology don't need other people's recognition and praise, and they don't care about other people's lives. They have their own way of dealing with the world, calmly deal with things, enjoy themselves in prosperity and live a natural and unrestrained life!

2. People who are particularly vulnerable psychologically

People with particularly fragile psychology don't want to see other people's negative comments on themselves, and they don't want to see the spring breeze of others to support their incompetence and fragility. Because of gains and losses, we are always shaken by other people's views and get deeper and deeper.

3. Very busy people

996 and 907 can't express their busyness, and they can't even eat or sleep. How can they have time to visit their friends?

4. People who can't use WeChat

Is there anyone who can't use WeChat these days? China has not got rid of illiteracy! What about people who don't even have cell phones? There must be! How to send a circle of friends without a mobile phone, how to see a circle of friends?

Nothing more than: heavy work pressure, no time, introverted reluctance, shy and embarrassed personality, special occupation should be kept secret, officials should consider hair bands, low education is afraid of shame, hair bands are not visible, depressed and unwilling to send them, timid and afraid of being judged, poor and afraid of spending more money ...

When the circle of friends first emerged, out of novelty, everyone felt that old classmates and friends had known each other for many years, so they were all in the group, and each group was very lively.

With the passing of fresh energy. The circle of friends in the past has become more and more deserted. There are fewer and fewer people talking, and even the people mentioned above never talk in the circle of friends, but they are not willing to quit the circle of friends. What kind of psychology is this? I guess/guess.

1, I think the circle of friends is a chicken rib, but it is a pity to abandon it. After all, there are classmates or old friends in it. At the beginning, everyone's feelings gathered together. Now? The students have nothing to say. But he didn't have the courage to say goodbye to these people, because quitting the circle of friends is equivalent to saying goodbye to these old classmates and friends, so he doesn't have to say anything, but he didn't quit the circle of friends either.

2, there are many scruples about speaking in a circle of friends. This situation has happened to me myself. An old classmate sent me a message, and I forgot what it was. I looked at it at that time and didn't think much. This seems to be a message about someone and what knowledge. Then I sent a message again, saying that this message should not be sent to a circle of friends because so-and-so will see it. It's not good to know that we are also in contact.

I'm confused. You should worry about this when sending messages, the relationship between friends. This is too complicated. If you have scruples, you will no longer make friends.

3, I feel that my circle of friends has nothing to say.

When the friendship between your classmates and friends is long over, because they don't know each other very well and there are not many people who speak the same language, they feel bored and quit for fear of offending people, so they stay there and don't talk.

What's more, I don't feel comfortable seeing those people who often bask in happiness.

There are fewer and fewer people who send friends circle now. I don't know if it will disappear, maybe.

I'm Mr. Ning, focusing on the education of children and adolescents. Welcome attention.

Hello, everyone. I'm glad to answer this question. There are people around me who never send friends or look at friends. I will talk about my views according to my understanding of them.

People who never send friends or watch friends can be divided into the following categories:

First, people who are busy with work and have no free time. Nowadays, most young people are under great work pressure, and overtime is a common occurrence. They are busy almost every day and have no time to make friends and meet friends. In addition, some people have to face trivial matters at home after work, such as going home to look after their children, helping them with their lessons, cooking and doing housework. How can they have so much time to pay attention to their circle of friends?

Second, people who have their own hobbies or hobbies. Once such people have a little time, they are busy with their hobbies. Some people are addicted to playing games, some people like watching dramas, some people like shopping, some people like reading books and so on, and spend their spare time on their hobbies.

Third, more conservative people are reluctant to reveal their lives to others too much. Some people don't like others to know too much about themselves and are sensitive to other people's comments and opinions, so they simply don't make friends.

Fourth, some elderly people who can't use WeChat, or some middle-aged and elderly people in rural areas. My hometown is also in the countryside. When I came home for the New Year, I found that many people were not good at using WeChat, sending messages by hand and using Pinyin. Some people don't know how to find the payment on WeChat, and they don't want to learn. And there is nothing to send in the circle of friends.

Fifth, people who don't sell. I don't know when, there are more and more advertisements in the circle of friends, especially many people who do WeChat business are always swiping the screen, so many people are bored and don't look at the circle of friends. At the same time, I don't do sales, there is no advertising demand, and I don't need to send a circle of friends to promote it.

Whether there is such a person, the answer is yes. But are they the same? The answer is no, I know some such people, including myself. Let me take a deeper look at who these people are.

There are such people who have a successful career, but they are low-key. I don't like others to know my life, and I don't want to pry into others' lives.

This kind of friends circle strives for perfection. If there is a flaw, they don't want others to know. My wife is such a person. She sent a circle of friends and had to shoot it countless times. Finally, she may see a flaw and stop sending it.

It is normal for such people not to make friends. When I am old, I feel that these are boring lives, and I just want to do my own thing well.

In a word, these people don't want to expose their lives, and sometimes they don't want others to know their whereabouts. Every time I send a circle of friends, someone asks me to send it. I can't get rid of it. I only send them, and some of them are deleted soon after they are finished. This is my heart.

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