What if my girlfriend thinks I'm too clingy?

I have heard a saying: the saddest thing is not to lose the person you love the most, but to lose yourself when you love someone. There are many reasons for sticking to people, which may be insecurity, lack of hobbies, too fond of losing her and afraid of sticking for a moment, and many other possibilities.

But people have reached the point of "doubt", so you should distinguish whether you really don't like them or talk about them.

If you really don't like it, then your behavior is already uncomfortable. If you want a long-term relationship, two people must communicate well, make efforts to adjust and find their most comfortable way to get along. Neither side can give in or compromise. One day, I will not be able to stretch.

Maybe everyone treats feelings in different ways, not that they don't love if they don't stick.

Discussion on the reasons why my girlfriend thinks I am too clingy.

1. cold personality, don't like others to interfere in their own lives. (in a few cases)

But I have a female friend, and the same is true. No matter how people around her stick to her, she will not be unhappy, because she is sincere to us and will tolerate our shortcomings. Unless you have something, you will tell us that everyone is reasonable and won't understand. But she won't take the initiative to find you too much.

2. Not enough love (in most cases)

Some people who have been in love many times have little demand for love. Besides, you are no different from your predecessor and nothing new. It's all for your convenience, so she loves herself more because she has already met her.

Some people who have been in love several times don't know how to express their love, but they don't like it very much. They think more about their own feelings.

Love is tolerant. If we talk to you, we must recognize your shortcomings and try to be tolerant, otherwise we will break up. Unless you go too far, don't do business as a whole, stick to others for 10 hours a day, make video calls or chat, and disturb others' normal life and work. Otherwise, it is not enough love.

We talked for half a year, and now we stick to people just because you haven't been together long, and you will get married for a long time. Now it's time to get to know each other, so I don't insist, so this person didn't think much about you.