The Analects of Confucius Making Friends

?I recently read the Analects of Confucius. There is a section in the Analects about making friends. I don’t know how the friends who read my article usually make friends. You can talk about it when commenting. Confucius said that there are three kinds of friendly friends. Friends are straightforward, friends are forgiving, and friends are knowledgeable. It means looking for friends who are upright, trustworthy and honest and do not cheat, are knowledgeable and knowledgeable. Friends are beneficial, and there are three types of friends that are harmful, namely, friends who are friendly, friendly and soft, friends who are sycophants, which means people who are flattering, and people who are soft on the surface and treacherous and smooth-talking on the inside are harmful.

?After reading Confucius’s remarks, I also have my own opinions. I used to like people who spoke softly to communicate with each other, and I didn’t like people who were straightforward. As I grow older, I have different views on people with a straight temper. They are really straightforward. People who don’t do harm to others are actually people who are gentle on the surface and may be more thoughtful, haha?