The most terrible thing for a family is not poverty.

The most terrible thing for a family is not poverty, but parents crying for poverty!

0 1, crying poor parents will bring great pressure to children!

Parents buy expensive things for their children, don't forget to tell them how expensive they are, and they will buy them for you if they have no money. Although children have these expensive things, they are also under great pressure, which will make them feel guilty and even think they would rather not have them.

Over time, this kind of crying behavior of parents will cause children to never ask for anything from you again and will be very worried about spending money. If you ask him what he wants, he wants nothing.

You think he is sensible, but in fact he just can't bear the pressure of his parents crying about poverty and chooses to suppress his real needs.

02. Diligence can't be achieved by crying poor!

Some families are not really poor. They cry because they don't want to buy anything for their children, or because they want their children to learn to be frugal.

Diligence is not achieved by crying poor. It is most important for children to set an example by themselves.

Therefore, when the child wants to buy something again, don't tell the child that it is expensive and it is not easy for parents. Instead, tell the child: "We have a budget every month. This thing is beyond our budget. We can consider buying it next month.

If the child is older, parents can directly express the reasons for not buying, or let the child talk about the reasons for wanting to buy, and solve it through good communication and discussion.

03, crying poor parents are easy to raise poor children!

Poverty is not terrible, poverty is terrible. Material enrichment can be done according to one's ability, but spiritual enrichment is to give children confidence and self-confidence.

We often say that "people have endless ambitions", and material deficiencies can be made up by hard work, but spiritual deficiencies and fear of poverty will accompany children for life.

If parents always cry poor, they plant a seed of "poor thoughts" in their children's hearts. This seed germinates and grows, constantly restricting the development of the child's brain and affecting his vision and pattern, then he will become a poor person in the future.

04. Crying poor with your child will make your child worry!

Parents always tell their children how difficult it is to make money, how much it costs to study and how much it costs to live. Can children still study with peace of mind?

At this age when money shouldn't bother him, let him worry and worry about money, and let the children worry about poverty.

Material is limited, but love is infinite. What we should let our children feel is our love and support.

Even if there is only a handful of rice, cook a pot of fragrant white rice porridge. Our love, children can taste it.

05, parents cry poor, will directly affect the children's view of money!

Crying poor parents will make their children only look at money and worship blindly. When he grows up, only the money in his wallet and more and more "0" in his passbook can make him practical.

In life, we often see some people only measure everything by money when their lives have changed greatly. For example, if some people fail in marriage, the first consideration is not how to save the family and take care of the children, but how to divide the property.

We should set a correct view of money for our children, set an example and tell him that family friendship is far more important than money.

06. Crying poor parents will make children feel inferior!

Poor, have no money, can't afford it, and it's hard to make money. These words are translated by children into my fault, my uselessness and my unworthiness.

Parents constantly instill the concept of poverty in their children, and children will engrave poverty in their bones and think that they don't deserve good things. Spending money has become a very painful thing. When spending money, there will be many strange ideas, such as I don't deserve it.

Children who meet people with higher consumption levels than themselves will also think that they don't deserve to get along with him, so they dare not contact him.

This sense of inferiority caused by poverty, even if children grow up and have high-paying jobs, it is difficult to eradicate the idea that they do not deserve a precious life.

07. Crying poor parents often raise complaining children!

Parents crying about poverty will not only directly lead to a tense and gloomy family atmosphere, but also subtly affect the way children look at problems.

Parents and children complain about the poverty of life every day, and children have become complaining children. As long as you encounter a little problem, you will blindly blame others and find various "objective reasons", that is, you will not find reasons from yourself.

Parents' attitude towards the world directly affects children's attitude towards the world.