What if my boyfriend doesn't coax me?

Emotional things are not that simple, they can be solved in a few words. Maybe many people in Zhihu will tell you that he won't coax you, and you can find someone else or divide it directly, but I think this is a rough solution.

Love is a matter of two people, and it needs two people to work together. Get1+1>; The effect of 2. We cannot control others, but we can be ourselves.

What I want to say is how to avoid or be less angry: 1. Will reduce the demand for each other. Don't compare others with boyfriends. There is no harm without comparison. Adjust yourself slowly.

2. Fully respect each other. First of all, they are both independent individuals. Don't try to change each other. Or if he doesn't do what you want, you will be unhappy. In fact, men's thinking is very simple. Because men are also in the process of mature growth, they also need to learn and accumulate love experience. If you want to get more, you must first learn to give. Because every girl dreams of beautiful love. Then when you hold your head high and accuse each other, you should think about whether the relationship between two people is equal. Of course, you are willing to pay, not get in return, which will cause you a great imbalance.

4. Give each other enough space and don't stick to each other all day. In fact, we also have our own hobbies and friends. Don't push each other too hard, so you will have enough comfort and the communication between the two sides will be more natural. 5. If you have anything unhappy, you can say it in a coquettish way, instead of blaming it, not to mention going to the cold war when you are embarrassed. If you cherish this relationship, give yourself some time to adjust and find a rational time to communicate with each other.

6. Be yourself and turn your attention to yourself. If you have less trust and dependence on the other person, you will feel less uncomfortable psychologically, because the other person's every move is too easy to affect your nerves. Actually, the relationship between you two is not equal. In a relationship, girls must be less enthusiastic than boys in order to be stable for a long time. 7. Think from the other person's perspective. In fact, normal people will feel that they already know each other very well, and the other party rarely thinks for themselves, just suggesting. Look at the problem from multiple angles, instead of directly thinking that it is his fault that the other person does not coax you.

Let's say he didn't coax you:

1. The thinking between men and women is different. Men are rational and women are emotional. Women may see something. Will directly lead to their own perceptual thinking, think that the other party doesn't care about themselves, the other party also thinks that the other party doesn't care about themselves at all, so they think too much, especially when they see some chicken soup for the soul on Zhihu or Tik Tok, which will be even more out of control. Then you should have your own opinions and ideas, instead of blindly listening to other people's opinions and looking for inspiration in other people's stories. This is completely wrong. Mature boys are afraid of their girlfriends and angry, so even if they have a good relationship, they will fall into a vicious circle. Therefore, you should fully and calmly think about whether you can drive each other to grow together, instead of restraining each other on the way to growth.

It's really his fault that I didn't kid you. Think about what you really want. I want to be with him, but I still can't stand the way he treats you. Do what should be done with results as the guide. If you want to be together, just calm down and talk to each other and point out the problems. I think I can't stand being treated like this, and the other person isn't worth it, so let's stay together and separate.