The cooling-off period for divorce has been liberalized. Will a "cooling" marriage be happy?

The new civil code puts forward the concept of divorce cooling-off period. Specifically, the husband and wife who agree to divorce apply to the marriage registration office, and the government forces both parties to calm down for one month before making a decision on whether to divorce. The purpose of putting forward the cooling-off period of divorce is to reduce the probability of impulsive divorce.

Of course, there are also many people who oppose this cooling-off period for divorce. Those who really want a divorce will still want a divorce after a month of calm. Let me talk about it. Can a "calm" marriage still be happy?

Nowadays, the divorce rate is increasing year by year. On the contrary, the marriage rate is decreasing year by year. I don't know when marriage is no longer a necessity for us. Some young people have a casual attitude towards marriage. When two people like it, they get married immediately. Two people quarrel, have a conflict, and leave at once. These young people really need to be calm about their attitude towards marriage.

Two people from different families, from acquaintance, knowing each other, falling in love, to entering the marriage hall. After two people * * * live together, it is inevitable to stumble, resulting in some contradictions and frictions. It's normal. Some people talk about divorce when they quarrel. Young people are always impulsive. When one party talks about divorce, the other party will definitely say that he wants to leave. Then two people may actually go through the divorce formalities. But in fact, there is no substantive problem between them, just angry. After divorce, they will find it difficult to find a better partner after remarriage. The cooling-off period of divorce is to prevent this kind of divorce.

However, if there are irreconcilable contradictions between husband and wife, the two sides have deep grievances and are not pleasing to the eye everywhere. They just want to separate as soon as possible. Therefore, for this kind of divorce, the cooling-off period of divorce may not have any effect, let alone a cooling-off period of one month, even a cooling-off period of one year, they will still leave if they want to divorce.

So, can a "peaceful" marriage be happy? For everyone, the answer is different. Perhaps after cooling down, the two people got back together and regained happiness. They may also be extremely disappointed in this marriage. If they want to get the happiness of marriage, they can only look forward to the next marriage.