How to treat the people in the dormitory who take it as their duty to bring him food?

After all, this human nature is base. Many people slap him every day. If you stop hitting him, he will appreciate you. If you give him an apple every day and don't give it to him every day, he will think it is you and you are sorry for him. Some of the best people are so shameless. Just like the man you met, he deserves to be brought food every day. There are some ways to deal with him. Let me give you some advice.

First, learn to refuse. This kind of person just ignores him. What you need to understand is that you don't owe him anything. What you want him to realize is that it is human nature for you to help him, and it is natural not to help him. Don't be embarrassed. As soon as he opens his mouth, he is embarrassed to refuse. If he is cheeky, don't be with him.

Second, the economy is clear. This kind of person is someone who wants to take advantage of others in his bones. Every time he asks you to help with something, you can ask him to pay first, saying that you have no money on you and you can't help him pay. A few more times like this, he will find that he can't take advantage of anything, and slowly he won't let you bring it.

Third, if you are unhappy, just say so. Some people have low emotional intelligence and can't consider many other problems. When he bothers you for a long time and makes you feel embarrassed, you can explain the situation directly to him and make him realize the inconvenience caused by his request. Don't say yes to your face. You have to sulk when you get down. This is the most uneconomical thing. No big deal. There is no need to sacrifice yourself to help others.

Finally, deal with him as he deals with you, and let him help you when you need him, and see how he will react. The most important thing is not to tear your face easily with others anyway.