Tell me about hitting the child, it hurts.

Should I hit the child? After the fight, I regretted it and felt very distressed. . . . . .

Say to yourself every time, be patient, be patient. . . My daughter will be 2 years old in a month, and I have been taking care of her since she was born. Now she's getting impatient. She was so angry. She kept saying 1 not 2. No matter how coaxed she is, she won't listen to you. Take off your shoes and go barefoot when you enter the house. If you put it on her, don't wear it. You can't wear them You finally put it on her. You turn around ... every time you say to yourself, be patient, be patient. . . My daughter will be 2 years old in a month, and I have been taking care of her since she was born. Now she's getting impatient. She was so angry. She kept saying 1 not 2. No matter how coaxed she is, she won't listen to you. Take off your shoes and go barefoot when you enter the house. If you put them on her, you can't wear them. If you finally put it on her, she will take it off when you turn around. I can't get a small thing, and I want to cry. She is more angry than you. Go to the streets to ask for this and that, don't buy it, don't go, cry; Running around the house eating, eating all over the floor. . . . I think I spend every day in anger. If giving her a little softness doesn't work, I'll scare her into hitting her with a small hanger, and I regret it very much after I finish. Now my daughter always says, mom, stop fighting, and the baby is obedient. . . . . Alas. . . . I can't find any way to get along with children. . . . . . launch

In fact, the baby's temper and personality are closely related to the parents' education methods. Maybe you don't know, but it's true. Usually, I will only get angry or say some meaningless soft words, but doing something wrong will never give my baby any substantial punishment, and I have never thought about discussing my baby as an equal friend. You said that you were coaxing, and the coaxing method is nothing more than "be good, let's put on our shoes, so that we won't get cold or get sick". When the baby is fooling around, you start playing, but later you find that playing doesn't work. It is normal for a baby to be naughty. If it's something trivial, such as taking off his shoes when he comes in, it's fine, as long as he's not sick. Walking barefoot is good for the baby's health, as long as he can persuade the baby to put on shoes outside. If he doesn't wear them outside, he will have to be punished. If you don't let him wear it, let him go like this. I'm sure he won't put up with it for long. When shopping in the street, you can clearly tell your baby that you can only choose one thing. If you want everything, you don't buy anything. Your baby is very smart and can't get anything. Usually, you only choose one of them. Slowly, a rule is formed. As long as you go shopping, you can let him do this multiple-choice question, which is also to exercise your baby's autonomy. If the baby eats all over the floor, it only means that the baby is not hungry at all. You can stop eating for a while. When the baby is hungry, he will run to your side to eat. You can feed it again at this time. Don't worry, not only will you not run around, I'm afraid staring at the bowl will only make you feed slowly. In addition, babies who are almost two weeks old can exercise to eat by themselves. Don't spoil your children too much, or they will become harmful.

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In fact, you can consider reasoning with your child. This will make him have an unhappy childhood when she is still young. Children should be taught slowly, not for a day or two. I suggest you give yourself more patience, talk to your child more, and let her grow up slowly. This kind of education is the best way. Beating children won't solve the problem. Actually, it broke my parents' hearts. Long-term beating and cursing have done harm to children's body and mind. Parents are also having a hard time. Try to relax and reason with your child. Children are so difficult when they are young. You are very good and obedient. Try to think from the child's point of view ~

How's this? Are you satisfied?