After marriage, should my husband's salary be paid? Let's talk about it.

Whether to pay wages depends mainly on the situation of each family, and the concept of husband and wife varies from person to person. Not paying wages is only a small part of all kinds of family problems. To put it simply, whether to pay or not depends on whether it promotes the harmony of your family or enhances family conflicts. If it's the former, then hand it in, no doubt. If it is the latter, then don't lay the foundation and save more trouble.

Who is in charge of the money and what impact it has on a family mainly has several aspects, which are suitable for paying wages. Generally I can think of the following two.

First, my wife is good at managing money. After all, after getting married, many expenses are family expenses, and everyone uses them. Housework is very important. If you have a wife who is good at managing money, congratulations and hand it in quickly. Your money will continue to appreciate under her control. You worked hard to earn a dollar, maybe it's still a dollar in your pocket, and it can be two dollars in your wife's pocket.

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Second, the wife is even more insecure. Don't call me tacky, and it's not my reality, because that's the truth. Money is not everything, but it does give people a sense of security. It is very important to compare the economic foundation. This is really a good way to express your love for your wife who is suffering losses. Although she doesn't necessarily want your money, giving her money will make her very practical and naturally positive for your feelings and husband-wife relationship. Although it is not good for the country and the people, it is also good for the family.

Of course, if your wife is vain, greedy and likes to spend money indiscriminately, then don't give it to her, it will spoil her. In fact, there are advantages and disadvantages in not paying wages, which will always solve some problems, but at the same time it will also breed new contradictions. Personally, I agree with the economic independence of husband and wife. Two people can work together, work hard together, support their families together and buy whatever they like. They can also give the other half a long-awaited gift at the festival, without counting on others. This is the real equality between men and women, the real love. Even couples with good feelings need independent time and space, so does the economy.

Ideas belong to ideas, but as a newly married woman, it is coquetry to let the other half pay. If he doesn't pay me, what can I expect in the future? Hee hee. I think paying wages is not only a matter of money and financial independence, but also can explain some problems to a certain extent, such as whether a man cares enough about you to tolerate you, so I have to take care of the money for a period of time, and I really can't understand it before I pay it back, haha.