What are we talking about when we swear?

From an early age, we were taught to use civilized language and be polite to everyone. However, in our real life, we still often hear people say dirty words, such as, what is your lung, fuck you, and so on. Some people don't swear and are unhappy. Because I am used to it, I often use three dirty words, so it always gives people a very vulgar feeling. So, what are we talking about when we swear?

In fact, the main purpose of swearing is not to swear, but to vent one's emotions and dissatisfaction with the existing situation or someone. One of my colleagues once told me that she had some problems with another colleague at work, so she jumped out, damn it. Then, my colleague suddenly flew into a rage and said, who are you cursing? She said, did I scold you again! This dispelled a controversy. Haha, I think everyone has a bad day. When you are depressed, you might as well say it, and your mood will be much better. That's why many people shout when they get to the top of the mountain. Because I just yelled twice, I vented all my grievances. The next time you climb a mountain, go to the top of the mountain and shout at the foot of the mountain: fuck you! I wonder, will your mood get better soon?

To be honest, this is also a way to relieve stress. When we are under too much pressure, verbal catharsis is actually one of the main ways to relieve stress. In high school, a friend of mine told me that she felt good when she swore. Because it's much more comfortable for me to vent my unhappiness than to keep everything in my heart, and it's more comfortable for me. After listening to this, I can't help feeling that a lady like her can swear. It's really hard to judge a book by its cover.

In addition, in fact, I think swearing is very grounded, and sometimes it will inadvertently bring you closer to him. For example, a former friend of mine said that his boss sometimes said "fuck" (with a smiling face) when joking. How can you suddenly feel that he doesn't look like a leader and suddenly becomes approachable and particularly friendly, just because what he said is so grounded! Can use the language of our common people, haha.

For another example, a friend of mine said that he had a mock exam when he took his driver's license test, and his legs shook badly, and then he was particularly nervous. As a result, the coach sat next to him and said that there was no exam yet. What are you talking about? Looking at her smiling face telling stories, I suddenly thought of how funny the scene was at that time! What a tense atmosphere it was, which was suddenly relaxed by the coach's words.

In fact, words used between people who are really close are rarely too polite, such as thank you, I'm sorry. Because you use these words, people will feel that you are deliberately distancing yourself from him. I remember watching TV series (half-life fate). When Man Zhen and Shi Jun were in conflict, Man Zhen became particularly polite to him, which made Shi Jun feel particularly identified. So, I think language really hides too much knowledge.

Of course, you don't have to swear all the time. If you are upset or stressed occasionally, maybe saying a few dirty words can make you feel much better! But try not to conflict with others!