Young people, don't be melodramatic, whose growth is not stumbling.

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Young people, don't be melodramatic, whose growth is not stumbling.

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If those books have a profound influence on me, American writer m? Scott. The road that few people take is one of them. This book makes me really understand the meaning of pain to life, and makes me more calm and brave in the face of pain.

The author says that life is full of hardships, which is one of the greatest truths in the world. Its greatness lies in that once it is figured out, it can realize the transcendence of life. When we truly understand that life is difficult, we will not suffer for it any more.

Young people, don't be melodramatic, whose growth is not stumbling.

I often receive messages from readers saying that I don't like my current major and my current job. Friends who know me know that I study statistics and my major is advanced mathematics. When I was a freshman and a sophomore, I was not interested in my major and felt very painful. But now, I have a little love.

I also asked this question when I was chatting with Teacher Yang the other day. His answer made me feel ashamed. He said: You said you didn't like your present major. What major do you like?

I was speechless at the moment and didn't know how to reply. I thought about it and squeezed out a sentence: Is it related to words? I like it. ?

Teacher Yang asked:? Sure, since you said you like this major, what achievements have you made? How much did you pay for this?

There's nothing to say. Keep saying that you like something, but when people ask you how much you have paid for it and what achievements you have made, you suddenly lose confidence. This kind of love is too inferior.

Of course, hobbies are largely to cultivate one's own sentiments, and have nothing to do with the theme mentioned in this article. However, for college students and friends who have just entered the workplace, your favorite major and ideal job are what we rely on to make a living. The survival rule of enterprises is simple, that is, how much value you can create for them. As long as you have outstanding ability, gold will always shine, which is old-fashioned, but absolutely out of date.

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Sister Huimin is the first big coffee I met in the growing community. Looking at the growth process of Huimin's sister, it can be said that the classical teacher said: it is simply wonderful! Of course, the exotic flowers and plants here are outstanding and unusual.

For the sake of the family, Sister Hui Min has delivered her own caesarean section from pregnancy to childbirth, taking her children for vaccination and seeing a doctor. Sleeping at night will be awakened by the child's countless cries (nursing the child).

You think this is bitter? On a hot summer day, Sister Hui Min moved into the construction site with her children. There is no water and no socket. The only electrical appliance is a light bulb, and even she is too tired to open the mineral water bottle. 2 1 day She lost weight 10 kg.

In just two years, the community run by Sister Hui Min has become an excellent community in China, with more than 100 operators. Sister Huimin said modestly that she changed because she met the noble uncle Akiba, but no one would say so if she didn't work hard.

Everyone's success is hard-won, and those sentimental words just leave themselves a way out. People who really work hard have no time to complain!

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Life itself is a tortuous process, and people instinctively like pleasure. It can be said that learning itself is an anti-human thing.

Most people don't know their major at all, and they rely on their own fantasies. Afterwards, they suddenly found that the fact was quite different from the fantasy, and immediately regretted it, playing the banner of disinterest to cover up their failure.

Many things on the road of life do not wait for us to fully understand before making choices. Our so-called interest is only superficial. What we need to cultivate is the ability of self-study!

Interest can be our guide, but it is hard to be the driving force at present. Don't overestimate the impact of interest on people, and don't underestimate the upcoming challenges.

? Core competitiveness? This is the word I have heard the most recently. I've been thinking, next summer vacation, when I graduate from college, what will I really bring besides my diploma? What have you really learned?

Uncle Ye Qiu was in the group yesterday? Scold? A recent graduate student. Call him little k for now. Xiao K asked Uncle how to build a personal brand quickly, and Uncle poured a pot of cold water on Xiao K unceremoniously.

Uncle said that young people nowadays are too anxious and always say that they want to build their own personal brand. What they have achieved now is decades of struggle. Just graduated, I am eager to market myself without a few real skills. How can success be so simple?

Indeed, it is difficult to succeed overnight, which requires us to be steady and steady, and the road to success is far more difficult than we thought. Being quick for quick success and instant benefit may achieve something in the short term, but in the long run, it is really the bottom line.

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Tell another story that happened two days ago. The hero of the story is a senior three student. In order to get into an ideal university, it is common practice to teach yourself for a period of time after school.

But this friend in senior three was very upset, saying that he wanted to sleep as soon as he studied, so he left a message asking me what to do. You just learned it recently? Visual method? I suggested that he might as well try the method of target inversion.

Think about the university you want to enter, whether it can be realized in this state, and then think about whether you can bear the consequences if you fail. Usually we can make ourselves full of fighting spirit by imagining failure, but unfortunately, this is not suitable for everyone.

This classmate just, very dissatisfied with the answer:? I just want to sleep as soon as I study! ? Well, then I can only persuade him to sleep well, ensure enough sleep and improve his learning efficiency. Because this is the answer he wants.

As the grandfather of You Jie grocery store said, many friends who come to ask questions come with the expected answers, just to get another person's affirmation.

Learning itself is a very painful thing. If you want to get a better life, you must make more efforts. If you want to be different in front of others, you will suffer in the future!

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Back to the above question, what can I bring with me when I graduate? In addition to the diploma, I think I should also take away the ability of self-study and the transfer skills of ability. Any skill will not be isolated, interlaced like a mountain, separated by industry information, but skills can be migrated in different industries.

For example, in the growth camp these days, I learned the reading method taught by Uncle Akiba, the writing method taught by Teacher Tang Xiaoxiao, the speech method taught by Teacher Qi Zeming and the marketing method taught by Teacher Kun Long. It seems irrelevant, but it is actually interlocking. As for how to use it, we need to practice hard and integrate our own experience, and finally form a methodology that suits us.

Finally, a word for you from MadamOwl: What is confusion? Confusion is probably similar to walking in the fog, vaguely seeing the lights in the distance, but I don't know if I will step on the road and fall into the sewer without a cover. So follow the trend and measure repeatedly; Or simply take the road to the sky and leave.

Friend, don't be melodramatic. Everyone's success is hard-won, and the road to growth is doomed to be bumpy. All we have to do, all we can do is accept it and challenge it! May you and I both become better selves. Good wishes.