Should I pay100000 loan fee?

Yesterday, my sister suddenly contacted me and said that her best friend's son had not been admitted to our No.1 Middle School and provincial key high school this year. If he wants to study, he has to pay a borrowing fee of 10.8 million. What do I think of asking this question?

We can't generalize. I think it depends on the family situation first, and then on the children.

If the family has money, this180,000 is not bad. Since you have the money to go to a key high school, for the sake of your children and not to leave regrets for yourself, don't hesitate to go to school. After all, the learning atmosphere of key high schools and the teachers there are definitely much better than ordinary schools.

If there is no extra money at home, all the borrowing costs come from borrowing, so we must consider the issue of cost performance, so we must combine the second item, the child's own situation.

If the child's grades have been good at ordinary times, this exam is only temporarily not played well, only ten or twenty minutes away from the score line of key high schools, combined with the child's own wishes. Parents can borrow money to send their children to better schools. After all, the return on investment in education is still good.

However, if the children's qualifications are average, their grades are not outstanding, that is, the grades of ordinary high schools and their family conditions are not good, then they must borrow this 10 million yuan to let their children go to key high schools, not to mention the low return on investment. How heavy is their children's ideological burden? What kind of mood will parents treat if they fail to enter the ideal university in the future?

Now some parents compare their children's grades, compare their children's schools in high school, and compare their children's colleges when they are admitted to college ... Sometimes they stop and think, do parents need what their children need? Is it important to respect your choice or to respect your child's choice?

Again, there is no only answer, and what suits you is the best choice.

Finally, talk about my sister's best friend's house. First of all, this child is the child of her and her ex-husband. The child has always been with her, and the father of the child has never given the child money. And she has never had a job, and she has a daughter after her second marriage. Now her husband earns only enough money for a family of four to stutter. The reason why she wants her son to attend a key high school is that she wants her father to give her money. Her father used to be a businessman. It can be said that he used to have some money, but he has been losing money in recent years. It is said that he still owes a lot of foreign debts, and now he has a bad reputation, and his relatives and friends are reluctant to lend him money. However, the grandfather of the child still said that he would give up this old face and borrow money to let the child go to a key high school.

I can only sigh.