Four bottles, four cards, four cars and four beds to accompany life.

Recently, I saw four pictures on Weibo. They are four bottles, four certificates, four cars and four beds that accompany our whole life. At this point, interested friends can guess what they are. Maybe our life is not only accompanied by these things, but after all, they are the most representative things that appear in different stages of our lives. Life is so short, Kimi's death even makes people feel that they don't know which will come first, tomorrow or accident. These things that accompany us seem to be the engine of memories, which will launch an emotional run at any time.

from the moment we were born, we lived in the expectation of others. From babbling to toddlers, we are in our own world, and others don't know what we are thinking or what the world is like in our eyes. We live in our own world, eating, drinking and giggling. When I was a child, I lived a wonderful life. I don't care whether my clothes look good or not, and I won't be jealous that my neighbor's children's toys are more fun. Lying in the crib, listening to lullabies sung by grandparents. Sitting in a stroller pushed by grandparents, holding toys and watching flowers and plants in the park. Riding on my father's head and lying in my mother's arms is the safest and happiest moment. We just look at the world, silly smile, quietly watching you pretend, watching you make me laugh. Until that moment, I learned to walk ... until that day, I carried my schoolbag on my back ... until that day, my hand left yours ...

In the morning, I got out of bed early, but I didn't seem to have time to eat breakfast. It was probably the happiest time in our lives to grab bread and milk and ride a bike to school with my good friends. At that time, we didn't have to bear too many dreams and hopes, and we didn't have to care about the eyes and opinions of others, let alone worry about life and living. In the carefree campus, I listen to every class in a daze, look up to every schoolmaster in the class, and secretly copy my homework, just to steal a little leisure between classes. During lunch break, there will always be boys releasing their youthful hormones on the court in the sun. And the girls are willing to shout "Come on" loudly for their idols beside the stadium, or sit quietly and stare blankly with paper towels and drink bottles in their hands, just so that they can be the first to appear next to him after the game. In those youthful years, falling in love seemed so easy. A bottle of drink and a hamburger was a companionship and a love. Of course, there will always be times when the music ends. Happy or lost, the world is noisy during the day, and when I return to my room at night, I am only accompanied by a desk lamp and a lonely single bed. However, in the mood for love, I'm afraid I don't know what it's like to be alone.

We are studying hard and writing hard. It's really only for those diplomas. Of course, some people are trying to realize their ideals. From middle school to university, even graduate students and doctors. Wearing a bachelor's hat and receiving the diploma from the professor, I believe that no one can help feeling that he graduated, which is really amazing. Give yourself a compliment. Facing the future, we are always ambitious, as if we are ready to give the society a blow and show the world what we can do. But who knows, the world is so big, how many people can go and see it.

Facing a piece of paper covered with red stamps, ask yourself, what have I experienced in these years?

Time seems to have suddenly slowed down at this stage. Coming from the busy past, it is the loneliness that the world gives you that is difficult to adapt to. At such an age, we suddenly have a lot of roles. We are parents' children, parents of children, and lovers of another partner. Perhaps, you are a successful person in the eyes of your friends, or a useless loser in the eyes of others. The fact is that we are really more and more afraid of other people's comments, and we are no longer the courageous and purposeful young man. We will wonder what we are fighting for and who we are paying for. Do you still remember your original dream? I probably don't remember what it is. What you feel detached in confusion is to drink to your friends and get drunk. Maybe that is the most relaxed and self-centered moment of your day. It's just that after waking up, we have to get up from the double bed after all. It's just that what you hold in your hand is no longer bread and milk, but life. On the way to drive, you may be proud, have a successful career and a happy family. However, I have to admit that you are still lonely. This is the most unique charm that life has given this age. Is it to enjoy or endure, should it be enjoyed or endured?

You said that you know the end of life, so I did this to show you. You said that no matter how lively it is, it will eventually be separated, so I have done it with you all my life; You said that you know yourself well, so I made this winter flower Xia Xue to watch with you; You said you were in love with the good old days, so I made this Ukiyo-e painting to show you. You said you should worry about being too cold at the top, so I handed over the mountains and rivers to please you.

Birth, old age, illness and death are a necessary journey for everyone. When we retire gloriously and become old people, I hope that when we look back on our past lives, we can have a smile on our faces, not regret or regret in our hearts. What can't be solved when you are young? Never wait until you are old and empty. Have no expectation for the future. You can finally be content with the status quo and finally have a rest. It's just that when you should enjoy family happiness, is it gratifying or distressing to see your children and grandchildren go through similar life stages? Close your eyes and live like a dream.

we will experience it when we are young, but if we want to understand it, why wait until that age? Are you concerned about the white-haired people who are far away from home? We have to admit that this is a nation that is not good at expressing and can't express love, but do we have to say "I love you" to them with tears? Do we have to see them when they are lying in a hospital bed and can only live on infusion bottles or walk in wheelchairs? That kind of companionship may be mixed with regret, and it is no longer pure. Everyone has everyone's ideals. It is not wrong to leave home, to walk far away, and to need companionship and love.

if this is a person's life, it is so short, how can we talk about a quiet life? Just stay and cherish. Eat carefully, work hard and enjoy yourself. Do what makes you happy bravely, don't wait until you are in a wheelchair bed to think about your unhappiness. Don't be afraid of tomorrow and accidents, because we should try our best to be happy people and do happy things, so that people who see you will be happy.