Our status is that we are lazy in daily life and have dreams for nothing.

In the past few days, my friend suddenly told me that he can no longer survive in China and wants to study abroad, but his family has no money and his parents cannot bear to spend their hard-earned money. What should I do? ?

Actually, I really don’t know how to solve this problem. At first I asked him to work to make money, but he said the salary was too little and time was tight; I asked him to study hard and apply for government-funded study abroad, but he said it was impossible; I asked him to take a loan to study abroad, but he said he couldn't afford it... So in the end I asked him to go to school abroad. You gave up the idea of ??going abroad, and he said it was a pity. So I always want to ask him, if he can't pass the second degree at home, is he planning to go abroad to study at Harvard? I wonder if you have any other good suggestions?

Some people say that if each of China’s 1.3 billion people gives me 1 yuan, I can become a billionaire. Or if Ma Yun just gives me one ten millionth of his money, I will have enough food and clothing, but to Ma Yun it is only a drop in the bucket. But have you ever thought about why people give you money?

There are always people in this world who want to get something for nothing. In fact, this is a kind of nature. You can see it everywhere. Those girls who don’t want to work and just want to be taken care of, those who buy lottery tickets every day and dream of winning the jackpot, hope to have a A young man with a rich father is someone who deliberately takes advantage of loopholes to defraud people of money and is unwilling to do serious things. These people are everywhere, and they are all people who have no ability but want to make a fortune.

Do you know why grabbing red envelopes on WeChat is so popular? Because this makes people think that money is easy to come by and they can get something for nothing. Too many people use the festival as an excuse to send mass messages on WeChat to ask for red envelopes. Although the amount is not large, the number is frequent. In order to get red envelopes, they will do anything. In this world, it's lucky if someone suddenly gives you a red envelope, and it's normal if no one gives it to you. Don't think that everyone owes you. After a long time, you owe it to yourself.

Perhaps it is influenced by many TV series. Everyone never tires of watching those TV series about domineering CEOs saying they love you and becoming rich from scratch. But few people realize how they succeeded. The right time, the right place and the right people are indispensable.

Sometimes, I always hear newcomers or interns who have just entered the workplace complain that their leaders are not strong enough, they don’t care about themselves at all, and they can’t learn anything. Complaints like this always happen to students who are in the transition period between school and the workplace, and they seem confident that they have been wronged by their boss.

Without the teacher’s instructions, parents’ control, classmates’ selfless help, and the school’s maximum protection, have we learned to actively search for and fight for what we want when we enter society? In fact, there is really nothing for nothing in the workplace. No one should teach us anything, even our seniors or leaders. The workplace is not a school, and there are no teaching tasks. Moreover, we didn’t pay any money, and the company gave us money.

We are all adults. We are at least 22 years old after graduation. Do we need someone to watch over and bring ready-made meals to our mouths before we are willing to eat them? Therefore, those young people who are very active right after graduation are always said by many people to be thieves. Generally speaking, they are very proactive people. They take the initiative to find things to do, help order meals, and take the initiative to ask questions. Say hello, take the initiative to go to work early, and observe carefully, is that right?

The only thing in the world that can be gained for nothing is poverty, and the only thing that can be made out of nothing is dreams. Nothing can be achieved without taking action.