My daughter-in-law is very diligent and filial to her elders, but she just doesn’t like dressing up and won’t listen to her. What should I do?

You should think about whether the problem lies with you, whether your demands on her are too high or a bit unrealistic.

Then take your wife to go shopping, buy her some beautiful clothes, and then go to a hairdresser or beauty salon to dress her up.

Her beauty,

The effect is obvious and immediate, and you are guaranteed to be satisfied!

Gradually, dressing up has become a habit for her, which runs throughout.

Actually,

It’s not that she really doesn’t like to dress up, but that dressing up also requires expenses.

With your salary, the cosmetics, perfumes, lipsticks, etc. she spends every month to dress up are worth a lot of money!

She is reluctant to spend money to buy them. The purpose is to consider your family.

Try to reduce unnecessary expenses, lower requirements, be diligent and thrifty, and use money wisely so that the family can live a better life in the future!

Take good care of your family. Some are old and some are young.

The result is,

Everyone in your family is well dressed and well fed, but she is not particular and does not like to dress herself up. He's even a little bit old-fashioned, and you despise me.

Actually it’s not!

Your wife is diligent and must have done all the dirty and tiring work in order to keep the house in good order.

She is also filial to the elderly, serving tea and water, eating, drinking, and defecating. She is responsible for all the unavoidable things!

Let me ask,

How can such a daughter-in-law be at home? Is it useful to dress yourself up and show it to anyone?

Even outside, she will not mess with women. Let you rest assured!

As long as she dresses cleanly, neatly, appropriately, and comfortably, that will be enough.

What are you talking about!

So,

you should stop having so many opinions, it is most true to be yourself.

People are really good.

Live at home,

As long as the family is worry-free and lives a happy life!

Everything else is just a cloud.

My daughter-in-law is very diligent and filial to the elderly, but she just doesn’t like to dress herself up and won’t listen to her. What should I do?

You should start with yourself and set an example for her.

Dress yourself up first, then dress her up.

Let her keep up with your rhythm and be inseparable.

In this way,

you will be satisfied with her and be happy!

I wish you a long life together and all your dreams come true.

This is the traditional virtue of women in China, and it is also a woman who was disciplined under the patriarchy of feudal society. Just have fun secretly, what else do you want to do?

History Today, the status of women has been greatly improved. From marrying a chicken to following a chicken, following the three obediences and the four virtues, it is not an easy task for women to get out of the servility of men. And your daughter-in-law seems to have a natural personality that fully meets the aesthetic requirements of most Chinese men. Of course, this is only for your own wife.

Some people say that no matter how beautiful a woman is, it is all to attract the attention of men, so if you don’t want your daughter-in-law to cause trouble, then she is really an ideal family wife, not to mention a woman who is filial to her parents. .

Love is selfish. No matter how society develops, this is an inherent concept of the Chinese people. As your daughter-in-law, will you still appreciate her beauty that is far from her true nature? If this is the case, then you are really not worthy of a good and innocent woman like your wife, because your heart seems to be a little spent.

Of course, everyone loves beauty. Perhaps your wife thinks that is her most beautiful true self. Is she wrong?

I am just such a sixty-year-old woman. I have been struggling for a living for decades. I press the gourd and the ladle floats, as if I can’t catch up even if I step on a hot wheel and run. Even with eight hands, it’s not too fast. Deal with emergencies and put out fires like a firefighter everywhere.

Not only my family, but also my parents-in-law, my parents-in-law and my seven aunts and eight aunts. After this battle, I have become a man, as strong as an iron body that is invulnerable to bullets.

I can complete the task and serve everyone. So what if I am dirty and tired and don’t dress up? Will the man divorce me? If so, I will be free.

Men will die for those who please themselves, and women will live for those who please themselves. As the descendants of workers, we all started working in the 1970s. In the 1980s, they fell in love and got married. My daughter-in-law is beautiful, and I have met and dated more than a dozen people in a year, all of whom were neither good nor bad. I was disheartened and stopped doing it. One evening, the family was enjoying the cool air in the courtyard. An aunt came over. My mother offered me a seat. The aunt refused to sit down and said she wanted to talk to my mother about something. My mother followed my aunt out of the hospital. After a while, my mother came back and told me that we would meet again tomorrow night. I said forget it and talk about it later. My mother hurriedly said, "Don't, they are interested in you, so ask your colleagues to ask if you are done with it!" Listening to my mother, we will meet at the gate of Beining Park at seven o'clock tomorrow evening. With that said, he left the yard. Just like that, I have a daughter-in-law. After I got married, I learned that she rarely put on cream, and only applied some Yu Meijing in winter. Later, when her son got married, she never touched the cosmetic box or imported cosmetics given by her daughter-in-law. I saw the beautiful daughter-in-law had fine lines at the corners of her eyes, so I told her, haven’t you heard that the older you get, the more you have to look at your eyebrows and slap your face into a glamorous appearance? Come on, I'll do your makeup. After saying it a few times, she got used to putting something on it. Her makeup is really more beautiful in less than a minute! I am also very proud, I am too vain!

Everyone has a love for beauty. Have you ever thought that just because she has to be busy with so many things every day, her hard work is recognized by all of you! You all deserve to enjoy everything that her hard work has brought to you, and she also feels that she should do it

She feels that she has to do so many things every day, and after dressing up for a while, she gets dirty again. Nice dress, do some housework. Dirty! She has beautiful nails and washes them off every day, but I'm still here because she is busy with so many things every day and doesn't have time to go out. Then who is she dressing up for?

For example, when I do housework, I change into normal home clothes. Change your skirt before going out. If I don't go out for a day or two, I don't want to dress myself up [Ma Sichun's smile]

So I think you can buy her some gifts to make her beautiful. Share more household chores with her and take her out for more walks. Life requires a sense of ritual, not just muddle along with three meals a day all year round. Personal opinion [Handshake]

It’s hard to find a wife like this , people who live their lives don’t need to dress up every day, let her do what she likes to do, don’t force her, just like you, she always asks you to do things you don’t like to do. You will do the same. If you are not happy, just change your perspective and look at everything! Whether you are a man or a woman, just be casual at home, dress appropriately and neatly when going out, and that’s it! There is no need to deliberately change yourself, that would be uncomfortable. My wife never wears makeup. She doesn’t like the clothes I buy for her, so he wants to buy them himself. Later, I just stopped buying them. I bought whatever she liked and she wore it herself. Just be comfortable! So now that she is 40 years old, she is like a child and is happy every day. Sometimes what you think is good may not be suitable for her! Only you know how to feel comfortable! Mutual understanding and mutual respect will lead to lasting happiness. I wish you happiness

Your wife knows how to live a good life, but she cares about money! You have to work hard and don't worry about the money. If you have money, she might dress up. In addition, you usually have to look handsome, and talk about the women in the village, who look at you with zhi, flowers, emeralds, orchids, and seem to be interested and fond of you. This will add some sense of crisis to the daughter-in-law, and her attitude will change.

What a simple daughter-in-law! You are so lucky! Do you know why she doesn't dress up? The money you gave her was still small, just enough for food and clothing. The money you gave her exceeded her expectations, so she naturally went to buy clothes, cosmetics, and make faces! If you get really busy, the cost is still very affordable. If that doesn't work, take her shopping, it's a woman's nature, and then buy as long as she likes it, it will definitely be fine! After going shopping once, your relationship deepens to a deeper level, and the process of spending money is still very happy!

If she likes to dress up, she is often not so diligent and filial to the elderly. Some people don't pay attention to dressing up and are used to being popular. What's wrong with that? You should be proud of having such a good wife!