A talk about perfunctory

A word about perfunctory

1. A person’s heart must be clean and sincere. The face can be made up, but the soul cannot be disguised; hypocrisy can be deceiving for a while, but sincerity can win a lifetime. Like dewdrops, only when they are clear can they reflect the most beautiful light; like sunshine, only when they are magnanimous can they face the world. Only by being true to people can you win truth; only by being true to love can you gain sincerity. No one is willing to exchange enthusiasm for perfunctory; no one is willing to exchange sincerity for sadness. Being a human being with no shame for others and no regrets for yourself is the best gift and the truest confession you can give to the world.

2. In my opinion, no one is born to belong to anyone. Anyone who comes to you and is willing to stop for you is a thing worth cherishing. There is everything in this world. There is no better way to preserve the shelf life than to be grateful, so in the future on the journey of love, I hope that each of us can understand that love is attentive, not perfunctory.

3. The game of guessing girlfriend’s cosmetics is very popular among straight men recently. After dinner yesterday, I took out a bunch of my baby bumps and tried it with my brother. I thought he would get bored. I was perfunctory, but later I found out that he could do serious research, such as looking at what was inside and what was written in English. Although some of his guesses were a little unreliable, but seeing him seriously playing around with me, I suddenly felt very happy. , warm.

4. A woman must be able to withstand lies, endure perfunctory, forget her promises and say goodbye to the past in order to welcome a better future

5. I think we have passed it At a serious age, you should understand some things. Taking the initiative may not necessarily get you what you want. If all the enthusiasm is exchanged for perfunctory, be it love or friendship. < /p>

7. Throw away the so-called perfunctory, and there is a world when the mind is calm.

8. One of the funniest jokes I heard today was Xu Weizhou perfunctory fans hahahahahaha!

9. Do you know what it means to love so much that you are helpless? The more I want to get closer to you, the more I want to care for you. You accepted it perfunctorily but hinted at the limit. I am in a dilemma, like a slap in the face to myself. I know that I will never dare to do this again. .

10. Whether it is a lie or a perfunctory statement, I am willing to believe it.

11. Loneliness is a required course! In fact, you can feel who is being perfunctory and who is sincere! But we can't be cold-hearted, because no one has the responsibility to be sincere to you! Instead of relying on others to enrich yourself, it is better to do more fulfilling things yourself to make your life more meaningful!

12. I actually think there are benefits to talking less. My mother likes me to talk less. If I speak, it’s best to follow her way, otherwise she will find fault with me, make me complain, blame me, and my father always likes to deal with me in a nonchalant manner, as if he is not having a conversation with me. I feel that there is no difference between me and a mute, but I think that maybe having less language is a good thing and has advantages. As the saying goes, everything has two sides.

13. Your choice is decisive, and my choice is just right. I can't keep those who should go, even though I know the reasons you gave me are perfunctory! Farewell, my youth, farewell to the people who have accompanied me through this wonderful time!

14. I don’t really hate the ninth month of this issue, although it has fast forwarded a bit. I have no feelings for Fukuyama. The new little girl looks very much like a small animal, and her appearance has been criticized a lot, but I think it's okay. The performance is okay for a newcomer, and the singing is also good. I was very dissatisfied with the first episode of Series 9. It turns out that two unrelated cases are put together in one episode. Isn't it too perfunctory?

15. Sincerity is nature; kindness is nature. When you meet anyone, sincerity can enter your heart; when you encounter anything, kindness will never expire. A sincere heart moves people; kind actions convince people. Not being pretentious, perfunctory, and unsophisticated is a person's authenticity; knowing tolerance, respect, and concession is a person's kindness.

Don’t lose your roots, don’t forget your original intention; be kind to others, and you will eventually be rewarded!

16. Maybe sometimes your ideas are too simple, but you live in a world that is not simple! Sigh! Some are greedy, some are persistent, and some are stupid! My only hope is that you can face everything more maturely. Who can explain clearly the misunderstandings others have about you? Just like when others treat you hypocritically, you accept it! Stupidly stubborn! Hope everything goes as planned for you.

17. There were times when I absent-mindedly told the truth in an extremely perfunctory manner.

18. I really don’t know who else to trust, and I don’t want to be treated like this all the time.

19. I give all my heart to my friends, because people’s hearts can change people’s hearts. I give my whole heart to my feelings because hypocrisy will lose to earnestness. I hate calculations between people because I am never cunning. I despise the perfunctory between hearts because I am never false.

20. Spend less time with people who make you angry, less time with people who make you cry, less time with people who have too much to do, less time with people who are ungrateful, less time with people who don’t know how to be grateful. Stay with people who treat you poorly, avoid people who tell lies, and let yourself live a few more years!

21. Improve your own abilities and charm instead of expressing anger at others' perfunctory behavior! Otherwise, your grievances will look like a joke to outsiders. Feel it and encourage yourself.

22. Stay with whomever you feel comfortable with, including friends and relatives. When you are tired, stay away. Pleasing others is far inferior to cultivating yourself! Those who can enter my heart, I will treat them sincerely; those who do not enter my heart, I will not bother to deal with them. The gaps between the fingers are too wide, the time is too thin, and life is really short. If you understand, please cherish it! If you don’t understand, feel free to do it.

23. Stay with whomever you feel comfortable with. It’s all the same. When you’re tired, stay away. I'd rather be alone than go against my will. I'd rather complain than be particular. If you enter my heart, you will be treated like a king; if you don’t enter my heart, you will not bother to deal with it. The past is thick and light, and the color is as clear as light. After years of sorrow and joy, it is as pure as a mirror and has become still. The gaps between fingers are too wide and the time is too short. If you understand, please cherish it!

24. Everyone in the world can be perfunctory, but they must not let themselves down.

25. When you got angry yesterday and scratched my butt, it really hurt. I also know that it was wrong for me to answer the phone for so long from my male colleagues, but it’s not like you don’t know what they are like. I don't often chat with them. In that circle, I still have to deal with them sometimes, no matter how uninterested I am. I hope you've figured it out and can stop caring so much.

26. Those who have deceived me, please stop being perfunctory. Now that you have been discovered by me, the more you explain, the more it is a cover-up; now that you have been exposed by me, the more you cover up, the more something is wrong. I also have my own thoughts, and I won’t let you coax and lie to me!

27. Don’t want to please anyone anymore. Stay with whomever you feel comfortable with, including friends. When you are tired, stay away. It is far less satisfying to please others than to please yourself. I would rather be alone than go against my will. I would rather have regrets than give in. Whoever can enter my heart, I treat as a king. I don’t bother to deal with those who don’t enter my heart. The past is thick and light, and the color is as clear as light. After years of sorrow and joy, it is as pure as a mirror and has become still. --To myself.

28. Many times, if you don’t say anything and I don’t say anything, I just change things and forget about it. I’m especially afraid that when I take the initiative to contact someone and what I want to say, I’ll get rid of it for a long time. When he didn't get a response or get a few words after a long time, he lost the mood to continue talking.

29. Not all ums and ums are called companionship. Perfunctory words will only make you feel lonelier.

30. While chatting with others, I really want to go. I took a shower. I was afraid that people would think I was perfunctory, so I didn’t dare to say that I was taking a shower, so I said let’s not talk about it for now and I went to do the laundry.

31. Some things just happen when they happen. Even if you apologize, all I can do is to be as cooperative as possible and deal with it. There will be no substantial changes or any previous accommodation. Casual, talk about anything.

32. The most trusted person can be deceived once or twice. Can I still trust you in the future? When I had no choice but to end up on the street, you showed off your beautiful clothing, food, housing and transportation to the outside world every day, and made me wait for your perfunctory time and again.

Thirty-three, I slowly realized that in this life, a person must be able to withstand lies, tolerate perfunctory, deceive, and forget promises. Persistence may not mean victory, and giving up may not mean surrender. Instead of hitting the wall gorgeously, it is better to turn around gracefully. Give yourself a roundabout space, learn to think, learn to wait, and learn to adjust.

There are many times in life when we need not only persistence, but also the freedom and ease of looking back and smiling.

Thirty-four. As expected, people are selfish and only think about themselves when doing things. Those who don’t seem selfish are actually good to you just by the way. They are not really that good. This is what I like. The reason why you do everything yourself is because who knows whether others are really helping you or just pretending to be perfunctory but are really kind to you. You have to be twice as kind to others. After all, this is the basis for making close friends. Learn to be grateful.

35. Not everyone will be willing to listen to your perfunctory words to retain someone. You can't express your true feelings directly in one paragraph or one sentence. Although starting over is enough to retain someone, there is only one chance of love.

37. For some things, you must learn to be busy but not messy; for some emotions, you must know how to let go without getting hurt; for some situations, you must stick to them without staining them; for some choices, you must follow morality first. If you don’t regret the past, don’t worry about the future, don’t deal with the present, and don’t give up your daily efforts, your life will definitely exude splendor and brilliance.

Thirty-eight, life is like this. If you are wonderful, there will be people around you who are as good as cow hair. If you are down and out, making all kinds of perfunctory and empty promises, you will only have yourself. Life is too realistic, you have to rely on yourself. Live your life well and let those who are trying to trick others stay away

39. Sooner or later, friends will see through your actions if they are too purposeful. If you are not sincere, sooner or later others will be too lazy to deal with it. Wait for you to suddenly realize it. , why can't they think of me for such a good thing? That must be because you are too bloated. Face and God are separated, already bye-bye. A perfunctory classic: I feel like you are perfunctory about what I say.

1. It doesn’t matter. Anyway, if you feel sad, just walk away perfunctorily. I hope the despair and helplessness will fly away

2. I am afraid of loneliness. I am afraid. I'm afraid of suspicion, I'm afraid of abandonment, I'm afraid of losing, I'm afraid of not being strong, I'm afraid of betrayal

3. Emotions are just perfunctory.

4. I feel that there is a distance between us. You are no longer so clinging to me. You are just perfunctory, prevarication, and become indifferent to me. Maybe you already like to cling to others. If one day I quietly leave and let go, please don't blame me, it's because I'm tired! You really make me feel insecure now, maybe letting go is the best choice! You don’t love me, and you don’t reject me either. It’s so painful for me to love stupidly by myself!

5. If one day you don’t love me anymore, will you choose to continue to deal with it, or will you make a clean break?

6. You may tell others that it is not necessary, but your attitude is to deal with me. I was extremely disgusted at the time! The purpose is not to lose money, but to speak out and respect it! But if something can be solved with money, it doesn’t matter.

7. I prefer simple rejection to perfunctory treatment.

8. Gradually, she no longer expects you. She says that you treat silence as a perfunctory smile. She is 17 years old and is too superficial. Her eyes are red, but it doesn’t matter that the tears in your heart are a joke

9 , I would rather be alone than go against my will. I would rather have regrets than give in. Whoever can enter my heart, I treat as a king. I don’t bother to deal with people who don’t like me. No matter how tempting life may be, I am determined like this.

10. [I can’t stand lies, perfunctory, and deception. If you can’t accept me, please stay away from me. ] ---? Meng Tongtong

11. After hearing too many perfunctory words, I feel that my life is so unnecessary.

12. Behind the strong ability to deal with the pain is an incomplete heart.

13. Oh, love is perfunctory; friendship is hypocritical; family affection is disappointing; everything is a lie! ! ! ! ! 1

14. When the oath has become a lie, why should I care about the moment. When love words have turned into lies, why should I force myself to deal with them.

15. A sentence goes from being jerky to being proficient, a song goes from being passionately sung to being perfunctory;

16. If all the women or men in the world want is just a playmate or a lover, That's perfunctory. It's easy to find someone based on your age, height, weight, monthly salary, and zodiac sign.

17. What you say is so cruel and hard-spoken that you have more than 10,000 reasons to silence the other party. But these more than 10,000 reasons cannot stop you. You are always blamed at night. entangled.

18. My love for you has never been perfunctory, and my feelings for you have never been deceived. Those heart-wrenching, uneasy, and broken shadows make me at a loss!

19. I’ve had enough of cynicism, enough of waiting, enough of perfunctoryness, enough of distrust, enough of everything I can do

20. I’m coming to you on my own initiative. , because I like you so much, I no longer take the initiative to look for you, because every reply you make is so perfunctory. It’s not that I don’t like you anymore, it’s just that I don’t dare to like you that way anymore.

21. You said that you have always been there and never changed, but I think this is perfunctory on your part.

22. The so-called oath is just a perfunctory statement made by a young and ignorant person.

23. When you feel ignored, perfunctory, and helpless, learn to smile calmly, and what should come will always come! Be bearish on gains and losses, if you are serious, you will lose! Tell yourself that the most embarrassing thing in life is overestimating your position in other people's hearts!

24. After being with the man I’ve had a crush on for three years, I finally realized that the so-called happiness in my eyes was just perfunctory

25. Sometimes it’s like falling asleep, falling asleep, falling asleep like this, don’t When you wake up, at least you don't have to deal with it, worry about it, or feel sad

26. When the promise has become a lie, why bother caring about the moment. When words of love have turned into lies, why bother trying to deal with them.

27. When a woman tells you that she is sick, she wants you to take care of her and accompany her instead of having you perfunctorily tell her to drink more water and drink your sister’s water. ’s classic saying

When negative emotions come, avoid all the people close to you, don’t let them get close, don’t talk to them, or even don’t want to see them. I always want to hide, feeling that no one can understand, understand or forgive me. Gradually I choose not to say many things, and what I can say is often perfunctory. Later, I was told by others that I had become heartless and impersonal. I couldn't help it. There were moments when I collapsed and I couldn't control myself, let alone take care of the feelings of so many people.

Classic stories about being perfunctory by others

1. Those who don’t perfunctory themselves will not be perfunctory by others. A quality life should first have the ability to make life better and better for itself and those around it.

2. Do any transaction... It's OK to do it perfunctory, but if others see it... then it's over, and there will be no repeat customers.

3. Talking I always clamor to find a partner, but I have never taken the initiative. Maybe I am afraid that my sincere efforts will be perfunctory by others, or I am afraid of losing. It doesn’t matter how late it is if I finally meet someone.

4. It is really not easy to like someone. We have been together on and off for two and a half years, and when I heard that she found the person she thought was right, I was not full of blessings. He just said a few perfunctory words lightly. But it's more sad. It's as if something you like has been taken away by someone else, and you feel empty inside. As soon as you close your eyes, you will think that you and someone else have finally come together. I am very unwilling. But I will still wish you well and hope he can treat you well. Haha, I will also let you go slowly. Let you step out of my world. Goodbye to the you of two and a half years.

5. The older a person grows, the more he must learn to distribute. Give one part to yourself, two parts to your companionship, three parts to your family, and four parts to the things you love. Don’t dictate others’ worlds, and don’t be easily influenced by others. And, never be shy about the things you love and the people around you.

6. The period when I realized I was a waste was when I was looking for a job. In the past, I was praised to the heavens by the occasional perfunctory compliments from others, and I felt that I was truly a heavenly being. It's fine now. I fell down and turned into mud. He is a useless person with no sparkle at all.

7. I am so depressed that I am always the one caught in the middle and receive the blame. It’s not that I’m too demanding, it’s that the things I do are too perfunctory and are called “for our own good”. I do all the work and pay for them. In the end, I ended up being known as being taken care of by others. Nowhere to speak of desolation!

8. When a boyfriend takes a photo of his girlfriend, he has selfish motives and just wants to deal with it casually. If the photo is too beautiful, it would be bad if others take notice. But my girlfriend was thinking, the photo shoot was so perfunctory. If someone else discovered my beauty with care and took photos of me seriously, then I would go with him. I can't live without such good skills.

9. Why don’t I have birthday updates? ! ah? ! Don’t I want to lose face? I want to be given a perfunctory blessing from others!

10. I am indeed not good enough. When I am looked down upon by others or when I am showing off, the best way I can express myself is silence + a perfunctory smile? Is this appropriate? Or respond generously and say something better than her? It’s really difficult

11. Even if I don’t contact you, I still miss you! Every initiative is always rewarded with a perfunctory reply, and a sincere heart is treated as capital trampled by others. Over time, no matter how hot the heart is, it will become cold. The past is just a memory! It's always good to get together, never to get together. In the end, love turned into unwillingness, sadness, longing turned into upset, and taking the initiative turned into being a bitch

12. Disappointment, really disappointing, I can't tolerate the person I hold in the palm of my hand being cheated by others like this. , was deceived by others, treated him in the guise of loving him, and sucked his blood.

13. My brain hurts from listening to the lectures, and I can’t stand all kinds of things. But I can't change anything. I don’t want to affect others with my mood, and I don’t want to be affected by others. I don’t want to chat with you at all, and all I say is perfunctory. Have you ever thought about what I want? I've been stupid for a day. Maybe that's me you see. The heavier the weight in my heart, the more I value many things. Your life is made up of many members. I don't care how you view these roles or assign them. I can't stop it, maybe I haven't experienced what you have experienced. I don’t know what I feel, and I don’t know what will happen next. I hope happiness and sadness are mutual. I don’t know who to talk to to say these things. It’s too negative and no one is willing to listen. In the circle of friends, I want to talk about it and my family members will see it. I couldn't sleep every night because I was suffering from internal injuries.

14. In fact, my mood has reached its lowest point, and I let out a long sigh. I had a stomachache all night today, and I didn’t eat dinner. Even if it was mild, I would feel extremely ironic. After hearing the little monkey’s voice, I seemed to have relaxed a little, and got up to cook some perfunctory noodles. Girls are constantly being shown off and pressured to learn how to cook. It seems like it has become a skill that will result in points being deducted. But late at night, I comforted myself that at least I wouldn’t starve to death when I was alone. Whether I have a boyfriend or not has nothing to do with whether I can cook? I feel like I have completely entered a state of helplessness and helplessness, so I keep trying to get rid of the status quo, anyway, but it doesn't work. I don’t know how to encourage myself. I have had nightmares for a week in a row. I hope to wake up soon.

15. Leaving you is the last thing I want to do, but since it is necessary, so be it. Sometimes think about it, when the world you once thought fell apart in front of your eyes, when you said All your words become lies in other people's mouths, when your words of "I love you" are said to be perfunctory by others, when you can't explain what you have experienced, when you know that you have indeed experienced much more than others, When all you can do is silence, when you see the other person looking like yourself a few years ago, I want to know if that kind of helplessness is what I am experiencing now? When your existence is controlled by others, when your value is determined by others, congratulations, you are experiencing my fears.

16. A perfunctory opening of a new glue stick. My mood at night was affected by other people's words. After writing my account (ri), I suddenly thought about it. Isn’t life just one difficulty after another and solutions one after another? I'm learning to accept it!

17. The point is, from the bottom of my heart, I don’t think that weddings are a waste of money, tiring, have to deal with elders, may be teased by others, and don’t know what you’re getting. You have money to buy, buy, eat. Isn’t it good to eat, play, and have a drink?

18. I don’t know why, when people ask me what my future ideals are, I will always be perfunctory and prevaricate. I don’t want to tell others what I want to do in the future. , there are many things I want to do, but I am afraid that I will be laughed at by others, so I don’t want to boast too much. After all, dreams are my own business. I always put on a playful smile just to cover up my inner pressure. Just click on the numbers, why bother making it known to everyone?

19. Life is always so unsatisfactory. Maybe a small thing will make people confused for a long time, maybe they have paid a lot but still have nothing. You are still doubted and perfunctory by others, maybe others have too high demands on you and cannot bear the expectations, but this is life.

Be yourself and be a happy person. Even if the whole world is gone, I still have my pride and my future!

20. Time flies. Some people choose to go to Beijing, some choose to go back to their hometown, and some choose to stay where they are. Many people and things they encounter along the way have become out-of-print movies that cannot be played back, things they regret. There are too many, I want to give everything I have to change what if, being rejected again and again has worn away my courage. What makes me sad is not the result but the process of being perfunctory. I was laughed at by others when I was still willing to believe in others. Slowly I slowly learned to cater to you and became shallow. Don’t say that I have changed next time we meet, because I don’t like myself like this either. Only love and time can tolerate everything.

21. All experiences are limited edition. If you don’t communicate with others less, you will be unsociable. If you indulge in learning, you will become stupid. It’s all nonsense. Just play and learn. Go to school. Don't have to worry, just show your sincerity, don't be afraid of being misunderstood by others, don't need to be imaginative, think about so many things that don't exist, don't be perfunctory, speak when you have something to say, and stay silent if you don't have something to say, it's natural. You don’t have to do what you have to do, you don’t have to copy other people’s trajectories, you can’t learn from others, live your own style, there are not so many reasons, because this is who I am.

22. I’m not interesting at all. I’m very serious. I just hate it when things I take seriously are ignored by others. So many times I don’t want to do things with my heart and nothing comes of it.

23. We all don’t like to be perfunctory by others, but sometimes others’ perfunctory behavior is indeed a sign of their intolerance towards you.

24. In fact, I really hate being ignored by others. Even the reasons are very perfunctory. It is urgent and I am very busy. Just send others away, waiting to be called upon as if they have nothing to do.

25. I really don’t like to please others or make good friends with others for a certain purpose. I always think that the most comfortable relationship is always the beauty that comes naturally. Unfortunately, nowadays, true friends often only have heart-to-heart relationships, and fake friends I can really help you. Being in a relationship with such a utilitarian attitude makes me feel that I have been labeled a lot by others, and I am also trapped in other people's value systems and judgments. This feels like I have failed others. Being perfunctory also wasted my childhood.

26. I don’t know what I will face when I am in my thirties and have regained my courage. I really want to cry, but I have to endure it. I can’t give in. pressure. But I remembered that my most cherished relationship of more than ten years was lost to someone else... When I went to Shanghai before, Huhu told me to go to bed, but I stayed with her until two o'clock to talk, saying that I would cry when I received the book she sent me. , said that she would catch up on the TV series she watched, and then she would get sick when she came back. I need to take good care of him. Love is understanding, tolerance and compassion.

27. When I see the courseware I made being presented in a perfunctory way, I feel like my own child was beaten by someone else. . . I couldn't listen for a moment.

28. The most fearful thing is that when you ask for help, the result is always disappointing. I'm afraid that when I ask for help, what I get will be hypocritical superficial perfunctory treatment. I look like I have no future and others will see through everything. It makes me really disgusted with myself! ! !

29. The warning I have always given myself is: Never owe anyone anything. Never take advantage of others, never take advantage of others, never let others control you. So people like us are very tired, so we hate people who take advantage of our characteristics to take advantage of the situation. I don’t like to be pitied by others, because those who are pitied must accept the perfunctory treatment with a hint of disgust in the mercy. Go to the ball. Talk about my mood: I suppressed loneliness and youth, but exaggerated happiness

1. When I broke up, the other party asked me, do I still love her? I answered: First it was love, but now it is hate.

2. Life is like this, never rehearse or replay.

3. - A trace of tenderness fell into drunkenness, and the sensual breeze sang with true feelings tonight.

4. Only when you are by your side can you be considered to have it, and to love until you are used to it is considered to be long-lasting.

5. Those things we thought we would never forget are forgotten by us in the process of remembering them year after year.

6. If one day I suddenly contact you with very strange content, remember to save me

7. Happiness is an action, what you give is just a concept.

8. No matter how bad your eyesight is, you can always see the person you like from afar at a glance

9. Don’t let the person who likes you feel heartbroken. Cry for you once.

10. How long has it been since you saw the little snail crawling slowly on the windowsill after the rain?

11. I am waiting for you because you have never hurt me.

12. Don’t wish me happiness after leaving. What qualifications do you have to wish me happiness...

13. You perfunctory loneliness and youth, but exaggerate happiness.

14. Don’t try to get close to me, there is nothing in my heart except him.

15. Time flies so fast. You fall in love with someone else in the blink of an eye