Do parents need to take care of their babies when traveling?

Parents, do you want to take care of your children when traveling?

Last week, I went to Sanya, a tropical seaside tourist city in China, with a delegation from Bao Tong head office. This is the first time that we have traveled alone since Bao Tong came into being.

It's been one year and two months since I was pregnant and gave birth to a child in Bao Tong, which can be said to be particularly tiring. It happened that Bao Tong's father's company organized a trip, which made me look forward to it. I could relax. For a person who has been to more than half of China, Bao Tong's father is also looking forward to seeing the sea for the first time.

During the trip, we video with Bao Tong every day. As a result, the little guy saw that we were neither too hot nor too cold. He doesn't want to video for less than two minutes at a time, and people ignore him. So I feel that children are not particularly attached to me. I don't know if it usually gives him enough sense of security or if the little guy is satisfied with grandma's company. He doesn't need the company of his parents. I hope it is the former.

When I first signed up, I asked to take Bao Tong and my family to travel together, but they were reluctant to leave Bao Tong. After all, they never separated from birth to travel, but Bao Tong's father insisted on not taking it, for fear that the baby would not adapt to the climate and could not eat well or sleep well, so he insisted on not taking it.

In retrospect, it was a very wise decision. Looking at the travel situation of colleagues in the group with the baby, the baby fell asleep and had to be carried by adults. On a hot day, the baby is uncomfortable and the adults are in a bad mood at all. They are in no mood to travel and enjoy the beautiful scenery. It is estimated that the only expectation in their hearts is to go home quickly.

Because children are relatively young, they will not go out on their own, and they will hug each other when they take two steps. Besides, they travel all day. Compared with the regular schedule, it is difficult to guarantee their rest time when they travel. When adults wander around the scenic spots, the baby may be sleepy, but it is difficult to get out. Adults really want the baby to see the beautiful scenery in front of them, so the baby should stick to it.

Traveling without anything, just following around the scenic spots for a day is exhausting. You can imagine how tired it is to bring a baby.

There are also many interesting projects, such as swimming in the sea, diving and traveling around the island. Parents with their babies are basically afraid to play, for fear that the baby will not adapt, so mom and dad have to accompany them and wait for other group members to come back.

There are also questions about diet and climate. When traveling abroad, adults and children are relaxed, and parents who usually care about the food their babies eat have to temporarily lose their principles.

For example, group meals may not be suitable for children's appetite, but there is no other choice but to make do with it.

The amount of hot water you take out may not guarantee the daily drinking amount of children, and bottled water at room temperature may not be suitable for children. When you meet local fruits, you may give them to your baby when you want to eat them.

Over time, children eat too much food and fruit that should not be eaten at this age. The disease enters from the mouth, the stomach is not good, and it is not far from the disease.

Take the baby out in summer, and all kinds of public places are air-conditioned. If I don't pay attention, the baby is likely to catch a cold, especially when sleeping at night. Adults are tired during the day and sleep soundly at night. The temperature of the air conditioner is set incorrectly, and the baby caught a cold overnight. This cold may last for a week or half a month, and adults are not in the mood to travel well. It's really the rhythm of children and adults suffering!

On the fifth day of our trip, several children in the group had vomiting, fever and diarrhea. Some of them were taken to the local hospital for infusion overnight until they got home. One child had a fever patch on his forehead.

It's not good to have a group meal during the day, so I want to invite three or five friends out for dinner at night. Basically, you can't take your baby to see colleagues. Either the child needs someone to sleep with, or he is too tired. Eat a bowl of instant noodles and wash and sleep quickly.

Therefore, it is recommended that children under the age of three try not to bring them when they go out. Adults go out to play, relax, come back and try to create better living and economic conditions for their children, and then travel together when the children are older.

Unless you are free, the time and itinerary are arranged according to your own ideas, but this is only limited to scenic spots with good road conditions, and you can drive directly to your destination. Otherwise, wait for the children to be older and take them out to play when they are four or five years old, so that the children can keep up with their energy and strength, and they don't want to hug when they are happy. Parents should follow them to ensure the safety of their children. In this way, adults and children are happy, which achieves the purpose of traveling.