My wife went back to her mother's house with a full moon child. Not only do I not understand the hardships of her and her parents to help me with my children, but I also show off in front of her befor

My wife went back to her mother's house with a full moon child. Not only do I not understand the hardships of her and her parents to help me with my children, but I also show off in front of her before I have been to their home once? I still feel more comfortable at home.

For people who just got married soon, although the newlyweds will make two people want to be together, they especially enjoy this happy and sweet time. However, once a woman gives birth to a child, it means that there may be some contradictions between two people. When a woman stays in a new home, she often feels lonely and wants to go back to her home to feel the warmth of home and stay away from this pressure. So many women always take their children back to their parents' home. In fact, they just want to find a place to release the pressure in their hearts and find a little warmth.

Second, I am always pointed at by people around me.

Many people think that when a couple has a good relationship, they must be content to stay in their own small home, and they will not always run away from home, nor will they always want to run to their parents' home. However, if a woman always takes her children to her parents' home and goes back to live in her parents' home, she will inevitably be pointed at by her neighbors and suffer various criticisms. If you are a person who cares about other people's opinions, it will inevitably become your psychological burden to encounter such boring guesses from others.

Third, there will be a gap between her feelings and her husband.

As the saying goes, marriage is better than parting. If two people who love each other are together every day, it is easy to get tired of this relationship. However, if the wife often takes her children back to her parents' home, she will become more strange and alienated because she has no chance to communicate with each other. Therefore, if the woman often takes her children back to her parents' home, it will inevitably cause some harm to the feelings of both sides.

Life is like this, full of contradictions and irreconcilable advantages and disadvantages. Many times you can't have your cake and eat it. A woman may want to go back to her mother's house and feel the feeling of being spoiled as a child, but she can't forget the new identity of her wife and mother. Therefore, to manage your own family, you should not take your children back to your parents' home too often.