The daughter wants to find a younger brother and chases after her father’s beer belly. Her mother laughs: Come on, daddy.

According to national statistics on newborns, in the past few years since the two-child policy was opened, half of the newborns were the second child in the family.

Generally speaking, when it comes to inducing children, the elders in the family urge the younger ones to have children quickly, but there are exceptions. There is a child who is the only child in the family. She is probably "envious" when she sees other people having younger siblings, so she follows her father every day to urge him to have a younger brother.

Many of Xiaoling’s neighbors and friends have two children at home, which makes Xiaoling’s daughter very envious. She also wants to have brothers and sisters, so that there will be people to play with, otherwise she will be alone. People are so lonely. She really wants a younger brother in her heart, wants to take care of her younger brother, and wants to be a good sister.

One day, Xiao Ling’s daughter told Xiao Ling that she wanted to have a brother or sister. Xiao Ling smiled and said no, so her daughter said that she wanted one. Xiao Ling and her daughter said that a younger brother could have one.

Her daughter immediately asked when the baby brother would be born. Mom, if you don’t know, I will go find dad. Xiao Ling told her daughter that it would be useless to find dad. Xiao Ling’s daughter immediately said that it would be useful. My brother is already in my father's belly.

Xiao Ling’s daughter has been urging her mother to give her a younger brother, but she feels that her mother has promised for many days but the younger brother still has not come out, and her father’s belly has become bigger.

She felt that the little brother must be in her father’s belly, so she often asked her father when the little brother would come out. I often kiss my father’s belly and tell him, brother, you need to come out quickly, my sister is waiting for you, you know.

Every time his daughter comes to ask her father when her brother will come out or kisses and touches her father’s belly and talks to her, the father always looks at his daughter with a look of helplessness and cannot explain to his daughter. I decided that my brother was in my father's belly. Whenever this happens, Xiao Ling always smiles happily and tells her daughter that her father has twins in his belly.

Later, the daughter also found that her brother was moving in her father’s belly. She was so happy and thought it was amazing.

Because my daughter is only five years old, she doesn’t know that her father can’t have children. She only knows that her belly is big and there will be a baby inside, so she stares at her father’s belly every day.

As long as she is at home, she will take her father with her and touch his belly. If she sees her father's belly moving, she will also ask her if he feels it. At this time, the father always looked at his daughter with a look on his face.

Netizens saw this little girl’s behavior and thought she was very cute. They were still wondering what she would do if her father could not give birth to a brother. Fortunately for this child, she really wanted a younger brother. Some children are particularly resistant when they hear about having a younger brother. Moreover, a sibling-sister family needs to pay attention to many more things than other two-child families.

1. You are older than your younger brother, do you want him to know?

In fact, this sentence is very harmful, and it is not allowed to be said to families with two children. With a second child, if the parents criticize the eldest child indiscriminately, it will make him feel that the parents are partial, and it will also make the second child become "pampered", which is not good for both children.

2. Your brother has to carry on the family line, and everything in the house belongs to him.

This old-fashioned concept is completely wrong and very unfair to your sister. They are also their own children, but because their younger brother is a boy, they have to let their elder sister give way to him in every way, and let her sister wrong her.

It is normal for brothers and sisters to help each other, but sisters cannot blindly make sacrifices for their brothers.

3. It is useless for girls to study, as long as they marry a good husband in the future.

Parents should treat their children fairly, regardless of gender. If you instill in a girl from an early age that it doesn’t matter how good you are at studying, only your brother’s studying is useful, then this girl will easily have low self-esteem. When she grows up, she will be at a disadvantage whether it is finding a boyfriend or other aspects.

Summary:

A mother who can give birth to two children is very brave, and her family conditions are not too bad. Her husband must love her very much, otherwise how could she be willing to undergo another pregnancy? of pain.

But when preparing to have a second child, parents should test the attitude of the old lady first. In reality, there are many examples of the eldest child not liking the second child and hitting the second child.

If the eldest child is not very welcoming to the birth of the second child, then parents must first do a good job in the eldest son's ideological work and let him slowly accept that he will have a younger brother and fall in love with this younger brother.

If the eldest brother really wants to have younger siblings, everyone will be happy.