How difficult can life be? Tell me about your experience?

I contracted polio when I was six months old. My feet and hands are all soft. I received injections and medicine from an old Chinese doctor for five months. My right leg still cannot touch the ground. Although I went to many places for treatment. None of them worked. When I graduated from high school in 1998, I was not assigned a job. I bought a few computers to open an Internet cafe, but they were stolen. When I opened a lottery shop, I refused to repay hundreds of thousands to others. In the past two years, I lost hundreds of thousands more, and I suddenly ran out of money. But the help and care given to me by my relatives and friends makes me live in the warm love. I am confident to overcome all difficulties!

Regarding this topic, I would like to share some of my own opinions, please give me some advice;

The difficulty of life has different standards for everyone, and some people If they have a sense of awe or fear of suffering itself, in this case, they will measure suffering relatively lightly, such as simply not having enough to eat, suffering some injuries, etc.; Personally speaking, I think life The most difficult thing is to have doubts about life and living. In this case, you will have no idea where to start, just like a duckweed, just going up and down. In fact, everyone has the same thing and is full of hope for their own lives. This is the most basic thing. , but once you question it, it means that your entire original world has been overturned, and this reshaping period will be very difficult;

Wish you happiness!

Seeing this topic reminds me of myself many years ago. I was really terrible at that time. The story has to start with me transferring to the city...

I remember when I graduated from elementary school, my parents took me to the city where they were doing business. I grew up living with my grandma in the countryside. Yes, when I was in junior high school, my parents decided to take me back to live with them because they thought the middle school in the city was good.

I am relatively introverted and don’t communicate much with others. Especially when I went to the new school, I became even more introverted because I couldn’t speak Mandarin at that time. They all communicated in Mandarin, so I Very embarrassing. But that’s not the real reason why I became autistic.

At that time, because I transferred there, I needed to take an exam before I could go to school. But I got 30 points in the English test. (My failure in the English test was mostly because I only came into contact with English in the fourth grade when I was studying in a rural area, and the teacher who taught us English was the only one I had ever finished high school with. But the teacher is not very good at English and only knows a few spoken words, so our English class is basically either he will say a sentence in English for us to pronounce in class, such as: hao are you , good moon... this kind of thing; either you just showed up in class and said you read the book by yourself, and the situation didn't get better until the second semester of fifth grade, because the countryside brought us volunteer teachers. Teacher. This gave everyone a real English lesson.) So the school postponed me to the fifth grade of the primary school.

This made me sad, so I planned to stop going to school, but my dad didn’t agree. He said that if I stopped going to school, he would let me cook at home for three years, and then he would kill me. Talk about this. Then I had no choice but to go to school. But I didn’t expect that those two years of elementary school would change me beyond recognition.

After I went to school, our *** seven transfer students were divided into classes. There were five classes in fifth grade. The director took us to select the class teachers. After a while Only two other classmates and I were left, and I was chosen by the head teacher who pushed me into the abyss. The first thing he said to me that day was: Why is a girl so bad at Chinese! What's the use of having such a high score in math? She said this very angry, because after seeing our results, the director said in front of us that she didn't want to accept any of them. After the director's persuasion, she chose the one with the higher score among the three of us. of me. I remember that day very clearly, after the director left. The abyss class teacher walked into the class without even looking at me. I didn't pay much attention at the time and just followed him in. But the teacher in charge of Shenyuan didn't care about me at all and just started talking about her class. I cautiously huddled in the corner of the classroom door. The classmates in the class looked at me as if they were watching monkeys. Only when the classmates whispered about me did the teacher in charge of Abyss pretend to see me. She asked me what my name was? I nervously said my name to her in my lame Mandarin form that I had practiced secretly hundreds of times and thought it was Mandarin. I thought he would let me introduce myself to my classmates.

I also quickly recited the introductory words that I had memorized countless times in my mind with excitement and nervousness. As a result, the head teacher of Abyss did not let me introduce him. He also said that there were no empty tables and chairs in his class. Let me sit in the back and listen to the class first, and then move a table and chairs after class. My face was very hot and red at the time. I lowered my head and walked quickly to the back. This was when a boy said that his deskmate had taken leave today and didn't come. The class teacher in Abyss said "Oh" and asked me to sit on an empty seat. .

But I never thought that my nightmare was about to begin...

At the worst time, I couldn't even urinate.

In fact, I used to think everything was fine, but then, some time before the high school entrance examination, my grades felt like they had been declining. The teacher said that I should improve them, but I felt that they were just trying to push back the gains. I looked at my previous grades. The classmates behind me all ran in front of me, and the distance became farther and farther. It was really sad. Every English class we have has a test, and I think I did pretty well, but as soon as the paper was handed out, I made a lot of mistakes. My eyes would get wet in almost every English class, and I had to work hard in order not to let anyone know. Hold back the tears, I am very tired, I feel like tomorrow will never be better...

Every experience is different, and so are the difficulties. If it does not involve life-threatening things, no matter how difficult it is, We all have a past. As long as we grit our teeth and persevere and have full confidence, we will definitely come out. During this process, remember: Just don’t break the law! Because it’s very difficult to get involved in a lawsuit.

There is no difficulty that can be described as "the best". As long as you live without pain, itching, coldness or hunger, you are enjoying it. It's just that people's desire to compare is too strong, and everything depends on money and power, so They forget who they are, causing life to be full of difficulties and misery.

People are absolutely different. Some can fight smoothly, some can fight in curves, and some can't fight no matter how hard they fight. This is all related to the "equipment" they are born with, and also related to the mission.

I sold cigarettes when I was in school. I was the richest student in the school. I dropped out of school when I was sixteen. Because I loved driving, I became a driver. When I was eighteen, I bought a Cummins and drove around the country. Freight, founded a cement prefabricated factory at the age of 21, sold oil, opened a disco, etc., all of them succeeded first and then failed. Previous failures were always attributed to my lack of rigor and lack of awareness and ability to avoid various risks. Later I discovered that I actually fell into a trap of fate that I shouldn’t have fallen into. After failing, I went to drive for others to make a living, and I struck again when I had the chance.

I work in too many industries. I don’t dare to go out when I’m in trouble. I don’t dare to open the door when someone knocks on the door because I owe a lot of people money. I'm so hungry that I can't even blink my eyes too much. Many times I only have one pack of cheap instant noodles a day, and I can't afford electricity. The power is cut off at every turn. Coal for heating and cooking in winter only costs ten yuan. The solution is to freeze it. It was also at that time that we were divorced and our children were only two years old and could only be taken care of by our parents. However, my parents had been fighting and fighting all their lives. They were separated and never got along. They loved each other the most and hated each other the most. One small quarrel every month, one major quarrel every year, either suicide or self-mutilation, and finally developed into two major quarrels, three major quarrels a year. My mother has a stronger personality, and my father is also more stubborn. I feel that I came to this world for my parents. If I can solve their problems, I can solve the problems of many people in this world, but it is not easy. Enlightenment, prayer , knelt down, and was still slandered, abused, and cursed by his mother in every possible way. My relatives and friends all avoid me and use me as a negative example, but who would have known that the money I earned every month by driving for others would be used to pay off debts in a hurry just by looking at it. The original intention of starting a business is just to let my parents and family live a better life. If I become rich, I will help people who are struggling like me.

It took seven years to pay off thirty years of debt. Some of them had been given up long ago, so I paid them back in full. Then we started Internet cafes and restaurants, which made money again, and then we started mining, but failed again due to policy issues, and it was not small. Speaking of which, it’s really funny. Destiny is locked in with me, but it doesn’t allow me to have a slightly bigger development. Even if it thinks highly of me, I have decided to continue to fight against it, but this kind of hardships and twists, The ups and downs are really unbearable for ordinary people. Unlike me, I have long been accustomed to failure. On the contrary, the more I fail, the stronger I become. I mean psychologically strong, and I will not let the difficulties in front of me disturb my soul.

In my world, nothing is the biggest difficulty. Many people say that being a truck driver is very hard and dangerous, which is very true. At that time, the traffic and road conditions were not good, and even the pager was not available. They haven't been launched yet, and the facilities are not very good. You know that you may overturn and fall off a cliff, but you have to move forward, not backwards, not U-turns.

It was originally a matter of a few sentences, but ended up saying so much. In short, I don’t know what is the biggest difficulty. Looking back on half my life, except for my elderly parents, all other difficulties can be described as insignificant. As long as the body is not hurting, itching, cold, or hungry, and the soul is not disturbed by all kinds of distractions, it is very good, very enjoyable, and very happy. Currently, we are in debt of about 3 million, and we are starting a business in Guangzhou alone. Are you ready for your destiny? I'm going to start fighting with you again.

Life is a long road, full of hardships and obstacles. Only suffering can temper our will.

I am who I am, fireworks with different colors. The difficulty of life does not depend on whether others think it is bitter, but whether you think you have lived a different life. He broke his teeth and swallowed them in his stomach.

After getting married, I was pregnant with my first child. I had a cold and had no money to treat it. As a result, I got viral particles all over my body. The child fell out on his own. There are many similar situations. The suffering is endless. Fortunately, my son has grown up now. , the most painful and tiring times are over. I don’t want to recall those hard days! All because of one word: poor!