My relationship with my mother is very bad. I'm a freshman now, and I'm going to have a winter vacation soon. What if I don't want to go home?

I want to share a story with you about my best friend. Her mother is a very strong woman. When she was in middle school, she wanted to study liberal arts. Her mother firmly opposed it, so she took a science class. At that time, she had a conflict with her classmates. Her mother immediately ran to the school and asked the head teacher, dean and principal to take a class for her, which caused a storm in the city. The college entrance examination is coming, and her mother walks her places, but the school is in Anhui and she doesn't want to go. She thought she could go to college on her own, but her mother didn't agree. Later, she went to study a major she didn't like. She always compared with me, because our academic performance was similar at that time. Many years later, she said that you were admitted because you could stay in the local area and choose your favorite major. Maybe that's when the rift with her mother began.

Her first semester after college was okay. After the second semester, she made a boyfriend, who is also from our side and is known by the hometown association. Go home together in winter and summer vacation and walk slowly together. Her mother is very dissatisfied with her boyfriend and thinks the boy's family is poor and has no future. Once she came home, she brought a lot of things, and the boy helped her take them home. She happened to meet her mother, and her mother told the boy directly that you are not welcome in our family. After that, she seldom went home.

After graduating from college, the boy chose to study abroad, and she also wanted to go. When her mother heard that she was with that boy, she flew into a rage and resolutely disagreed. After going, the boy left first and took the initiative to help her contact the school. She took the G exam and went through the formalities herself, but her family needed to issue a property certificate, but her mother didn't agree, so she missed her dream of going to America. From then on, she broke up with her mother completely and didn't go home for almost ten years, looking for it in Shanghai.

Two years ago, she got married and had children. Her mother gradually began to visit her in Shanghai for a day or two at a time, and then stayed to help her look after the children for a week or two. She finally made up with her mother, and the journey lasted for almost fifteen years. Asked why it took her so long to finally relax, she said that her mother was old and not as domineering as when she was young. Besides, she feels that many things are gradually forgotten in the process of raising children.

So I don't know why I can't get along with my mother. If I don't want to go home, I'd better go home for two days less and give my mother an excuse so that we can live a better life. In fact, blood relationship cannot be broken. One day, you will feel that whether you love it or not, family is a part of your life that you can never give up.

Son, I don't know why you have a bad relationship with your mother, but I still want to persuade you to go home! Don't tell the truth, just say my feelings! I am also a mother. /kloc-pregnant in October and gave birth to a baby. Probably because of artificial feeding, the baby fell ill at both ends for three days when he was a child. On one occasion, the hospital nurse infused the baby's forehead and inserted blood vessels several times. The painful child cried, and I shed tears with distress. Tell me something that won't make you laugh. Sometimes the child is asleep, watching him, I often put my finger under his nose to see if he is breathing! It was not so convenient then as it is now. On winter nights, I want to get up and nurse him. I don't feed my children enough, I feed them too much, and I can't digest them. I'm afraid he has to pee at night and get up several times every night. Even if he fell asleep, he habitually put his hand under his bed, for fear that he would get wet and uncomfortable! There was no use for diapers at that time.

From his hunger to babbling to toddler, to kindergarten, primary school, junior high school, high school, university, graduation, employment and so on! It can be said that the child's little growth and progress affects my heart! With a flick of a finger, only the mother knows the hardships! I think your mother will be no exception!

Let's talk about the feeling when I was a child. On February 2 1 last month, my kind and loving old mother ended her 88-year-old life. When I hold my mother's hand and touch her increasingly cold face, my heart hurts! The person who loves me the most in the world is gone! Since then, I have no father, no mother and no home! Mom is at home, mom is gone! When I saw a living person turned into a small box, I never saw her again, never heard her nagging, never felt her warmth, you know? I really want to trade the rest of my life for her! Let's go with her! Until now, I often can't help myself. It's cold, I wonder if she is cold there, too! It is raining. I wonder if she will get wet! I look forward to dreaming about her at night every day, but it's all extravagant hopes!

People often say: you don't know your parents' kindness until you raise a child! But I think we should cherish the present and the present! The Spring Festival is coming soon. I think your mother must be looking forward to your return! What is the fate of being a mother and son or a mother and daughter in this life! What's more, mother and child are connected! So there is no inextricable connection between mother and child or mother and daughter! What did you say?/Sorry?

Son, I'm telling you, your idea is completely wrong. If you don't go back for the New Year, it will be even more wrong.

As a mother, I deeply realize that raising children is not afraid of hard work and money. No matter how much money is spent, I am afraid that children will grow up, be ignorant, inconsiderate and not understand their parents' hearts!

It is common for children to rebel when they are young, but when you grow up, read more books and you should understand your parents. Their efforts are all for you.

If you are so headstrong again and break your parents' hearts, you should understand what I said. I hope you can put aside your incorrect decision and go home happily for the New Year!

I'm over 60 years old, and I have many regrets when I recall the past. It's a pity that I didn't seize the opportunity of life, develop myself well, create a relatively rich material living condition for my parents, ensure that they can live longer if they get sick early, and ensure that our brothers and sisters can spend their old age safely by their side. However, as the eldest son, I left home with my wife to make a living in Shanghai at the end of 1990s, for the sake of my mother's basic living security (my father died after timely treatment at the age of 60 due to poor economy) and for the sake of my son's qualified education. I left my 60-year-old mother alone at home. She died in 2000. Although I rushed back to see her off to the end, she was still in a coma and couldn't say goodbye. What a pity. When I was young, I had several conflicts because my personality was not at home with my mother, my career was not smooth, I got married late, but my mother let me go every time. Alas! Looking back, I feel really unfilial! Now that I'm old, it's no use regretting. According to your situation, you'd better cherish the relationship between mother and child, go home to reunite and apologize to your mother, and have a happy year! There is only mother-child affection in this life, and there is no afterlife. As the old saying goes, "a son is not idle and his mother is ugly, and a dog doesn't blame his family for being poor", "a grandfather who can be an official can die, but a mother who can't beg"! I wish you success in your studies in 2020! Good health! Happy family!

I don't know if you are a boy or a girl. Your mind is not mature at present. When you get married and have children of your own, you will blame yourself for today's thoughts. There is only one mother. One day, your mother is old and you will never see her again. My mother is gone, so I advise you with my own experience. She is the most selfless person in the world. Try it if you don't believe me. If you are bullied on the road, your mother will protect you with her life! No matter how wrong mom is, as a child, don't break her heart. Go home! I'm sure the dark clouds in my heart have cleared away.

Big companies do part-time jobs in winter vacation. I have been there before. My mother never kissed me when I was at school. The voice is unpleasant, and it is not pleasing to the eye everywhere. When I was admitted to school, I was most worried about having a holiday. We didn't have a part-time job at that time. Every time I start school, I go on my way under my mother's vicious curse. Fortunately, we were admitted to the study package distribution. This is my strong spiritual pillar. After work, I became a family and had a pair of children. I lived the life I wanted. Children, a good life is a struggle. Be a persevering person and use your own efforts and wisdom to create a better life.

You don't have a good relationship with your mother and don't want to go home during the holiday. This is not right. You should go home happily. Go home and face the problem and solve it.

1 first of all, think clearly about the reasons why you have a bad relationship with your mother. In what ways are you dissatisfied with your mother? Don't always think you are right. There is no right or wrong in many things, only suitability. You and your mother may just have different ideas and look at things from different angles. My son is a sophomore this year. I bought tickets for holidays and schools. I think it's for his own good and saves him trouble. As a result, through a recent chat, my son actually prefers to buy his own ticket. This is just a trivial matter, and there are misunderstandings, not to mention the others. Let go of negative emotions and talk to your mother, which may be just a few words to solve the problem.

2, you have to change your mind, think about the good of these mothers, take care of your three meals a day after work, wash and wash every day, and accompany you to study. Even if mom is wrong, you should forgive her. My favorite person in this world, who doesn't ask for anything in return, is my mother. I never thought that you would succeed and what she would get from it. I just want you to fly higher and farther. As long as you are happy, you are satisfied. You're only a freshman, and you probably don't understand. Only by bringing up children can we know the kindness of parents. Only when I have children, do I know that raising children is really not that simple. It's not just about feeding, it's not just about studying, it's not just about not getting sick, there are many things. Although you may not understand it now, I hope you believe that so many people have experienced it before, so don't wait until the child wants to raise it before getting close.

3.20 19 goodbye, 2020 hello. At the beginning of the new year, I wish you a happy Spring Festival.

Everyone is an adult, after all, it is the closest relationship. As a child, you should be gentle with your mother.

I remember one year I quarreled with my mother at home and ignored her for several days. When I got to school, I ignored her for almost a month, and she ignored me. Later, I thought, after all, it's my mother. Sometimes it's normal to have a bad temper and can't help it. I don't look like me. Finally, I dialed my mother's phone, and since then, these situations have rarely happened.

Another way is to sum up how to get along with your family and communicate more. No matter who is right or wrong, bring it up. Although it may not be acceptable to the other party at that time, at least it was said. Slowly, everyone may give in, change slowly, and adapt to each other in order to get along better.

Let me say something. In fact, when I was young, my relationship with my mother was very bad, and my mother despised me. Later, my mother passed away. After her death, I realized how wonderful it was to have a mother, and I couldn't get it back. The direct feeling for me is that when my mother is here, it is a complete home, but when my mother is gone, this home seems to be a bit fragmented. Later, when my father died, I felt that this family was completely disintegrated. So now I feel that no matter how parents treat themselves, they should be filial to them, so as not to regret their death in the future. After all, they are their parents and they gave us life.

You said your mother was not nice to you and didn't want to go home during the holiday. I don't think this is right. It will worry your mother. Although you two don't have a good relationship, her mother won't have second thoughts about her children. The contradiction between you is only the difference of personal views, and her mother won't hurt the child. So I suggest you go home on holiday. Even if her mother is not good to you, she doesn't necessarily miss you, not for other reasons, just to give birth to you and raise your mother.

I once wrote an article-in front of my mother, I posted it here for you to enjoy.

In front of your mother, no matter how old you are, you are a child!

20 14 On September 29th, I went to a funeral. It happened that this day two years ago was also the day of my mother's funeral. To this end, I thought a lot and remembered the scene when my mother was alive. ...

In my impression, my mother seems to be willing to take care of everything. Even when she is seriously ill, her mouth is always nagging. Although I'm in my thirties, I can't seem to do anything in front of my mother. Whether it's food, clothing, housing or traveling, my mother has to ask for the arrangement herself.

I don't pay much attention to what I wear, and I don't like to buy clothes at ordinary times, but my mother cares very much and often buys them for me unconsciously. She often says to me, "I get paid to go to work. Don't dress too grand." Needless to say, I really saved a lot of things by asking my mother to do it for me.

Although I don't care what I wear, I don't care what I eat, whether it's vegetables or fruits, as long as I want to eat, regardless of the price, I only know what I choose. Maybe it's because men don't like bargaining. What I buy is generally more expensive than what my mother bought. For this reason, my mother didn't say less about me, saying that I couldn't live and didn't know how to be careful. Besides, I have another problem, that is, I often buy new ones before the old ones are finished, so I often throw some away in vain, causing some waste. For this, my mother is not less angry with me.

In daily life, I am always a little careless. The washed clothes are often stacked together without folding, and even the luggage is sometimes folded, so I put it on the bed. My mother always helps me fold my clothes and luggage to make them behave properly. After a long time, I was afraid that my mother would overwork, so I paid more attention to it.

I remember my mother said in front of me more than once that children are always children. I didn't quite understand this sentence at that time, and I thought what she said was a bit too serious. Now, it has been two years since my mother left me. Looking back, I deeply feel that living under my mother's wings is really unique warmth and happiness in the world. Motherly love is broad and inexhaustible wealth that children can enjoy all their lives. In front of your mother, no matter how many rings you pile up, they are children, children forever. ...

Tell me about me. I am at 8 1. At that time, the countryside was very feudal and superstitious I have a brother above me, and my mother loves my brother best. It is conceivable that my life is the best for my brother. I knew when I was eight that I was not liked by my mother. At that time, I was often scolded. Of course, when my father and mother quarrel, my mother takes it out on me. When I was in junior high school, I was going to take the technical school exam, but my mother said that I had no money and I didn't need to take the exam. Then I farmed at home. When my brother was in high school, during the exam, the chicken raised at home was only one month old, so he killed the chicken, stewed him some soup and sent it to school. Later, I was introduced by my aunt in the village to work in a small restaurant in Jinan, when I was 16 years old. Come back three months after the Chinese New Year. Father doesn't like girls who work in restaurants, so he asked me to take the quilt back after the Chinese New Year. I work at a relative's house in 17, which should be 1997. At that time, it was only 200 yuan a month My mother says you can support yourself. I worked and saved 500 yuan, and then took the money to get on the bus and go to Liaocheng to buy goods. At that time, it was still dark in winter and the snow was still white. I walked alone on the road in the country. Walk for 20 minutes to the road and wait for the EVK Iveco car from Dongping. When I arrived in Liaocheng, I didn't know where to buy goods. Then follow the person with the bag and you can walk to the wholesale market.

At that time, five episodes were rushed every day. I arrived at the terrible place now. It's too far. It's half an hour's drive now. When I left home at the age of 18, you know, when 18, I was scolded by my mother, and it couldn't be worse. I cry every night. I had a lot of nightmares, and now I don't want to talk about it.

Jinan 18 years old, 1999 to 20 14 years old. Bitter and bitter, I know, being beaten, stolen and cheated are all around me. If I see this, I want to say go home. Going home is your warmest place. Even if my parents scold a few words, it's better than being cheated in society. It's all my kindness, and those so-called friends lied to you.

My story is very long, but I still want to say that you'd better go home during the winter vacation. Home is the safest.

Now that I am married and have children, I know it is not easy for my parents. I forgive my mother because she is old.