I doubt my ability to work. What should I do?

Every one of us will have a time when we are not confident, and we will be dissatisfied with our present situation. Many things are often not what we think, and often make us very dissatisfied. Sometimes I feel that I have worked hard, but there are still many things we can't do well. Honey, you should know that we are not gods. We're just ordinary people. Everyone has shortcomings, and we can't be perfect. It's not that we are not competent enough, not that we are not good enough, but that reality only allows us to do so. Therefore, we should not underestimate ourselves easily, nor doubt our abilities easily. We should always be confident and beautiful people.

I used to be a very, very insecure person, not as beautiful as others, not as good as others, and not as good as other girls, so I became more and more inferior and less confident. Before going to college, everyone mainly looked at academic performance at school, so I want to study hard and surpass others in academic performance. In this way, others will not think that I am useless and hate me for looking down on me, but will have some worship for me because of my good academic performance and will not hate me for looking down on me. I also know that I am not confident and should not be like this, so I just want to study hard now. It doesn't matter what other people think. Only by being admitted to a good university can I have the capital to make myself more confident, so I study hard.

Later, I went to college. At first, my blood was boiling, thinking that I could give full play to my talents and abilities in college and make myself stronger and more confident. After the military training, students' union and major societies began to recruit new students. I also went to some interviews with confidence, and every interview went smoothly, so I became more and more confident. I felt that I was in a particularly good state at that time, and I felt that my infinite ability would be stimulated. I may be unfamiliar at first, so I am confident. Later, after we all got to know each other, I began to lose confidence. I didn't dare to talk much. I'm afraid of saying something wrong, afraid of saying something wrong, afraid of not doing anything again. I am afraid that my ability is not enough and I am not doing well enough.

Because of my lack of self-confidence, my performance in the organization became less and less positive, so I finally failed the fourth round of interview. After this series of things, I began to reflect on my situation. I know that everyone is inferior to others, but at the same time, we also have some advantages, so we have no reason to doubt our ability. The less confident we are, the worse we do things. On the contrary, the more confident you are, the more you believe in yourself, the more confident you are when you do things, and the better you can do things. Therefore, we should not always doubt ourselves. We should not always be afraid to do it because we are afraid of our lack of ability. We must be brave. It doesn't matter if we don't do it well, at least we can learn how to do it better.