Both husband and wife are very busy at work. Can grandparents always take care of their children?

First of all, you can't guarantee the time you spend with your children, and you can't change the way the elderly love their children. Because of the way and scale of managing children, it is inevitable to have opinions with the elderly.

Secondly, if you can't reach a tacit understanding with the elderly in management style, children will feel at a loss at first in your different management styles from the elderly, and then loopholes may appear.

In fact, around many primary schools, some primary schools have small dining tables. Children are allowed to sit at small dining tables at noon and after school in the afternoon. Many primary schools have after-school care. After hosting, there are various interest classes, which can completely let children participate in the activities of interest classes. Of course, it is difficult for parents to do this. I have to get up early every morning to cook for my children and send them to school. I am very tired when I come back at night, but I still have to arrange dinner for my children and help them with their homework. However, being a parent is not an easy task. Being able to participate in children's growth is a few years in a child's life.

Of course, with the help of the elderly, it will reduce a lot of burdens, and you can still eat delicious meals when you go home. Children's transportation, eating and drinking, safety and other issues are also the most reassuring. If we can reach a * * * understanding with the elderly on the issue of managing children, that is the best thing. For example, there is a big framework, which is managed by the elderly, and the elderly should not interfere too much.

In short, parents should have their own principles when treating children.

You have to make a personal choice. Because first of all, your child will be busier than kindergarten after attending primary school. We can eat at school at noon in kindergarten, but not in primary school. Primary schools have to go home for dinner, and parents have to pick them up before they can leave school. If the elderly are willing to take care of their children's lives, they can still help a lot. There are no old people, and my husband and wife have to go to work, so they don't have much time to pick up the children, otherwise they are racing against time every day.