Should I tell my parents about setbacks, hardships and unhappiness outside?

"Do you want to tell your parents about the setbacks, hardships and unhappiness outside?" I feel that this problem varies from person to person. If your parents' experience, knowledge, life experience and energy are far higher than yours and can help you make the right choice, then you must tell your parents. Let them help you rationally analyze the ins and outs of things and analyze and judge the future direction of things. This will help you grow and mature in the future.

If your parents' experience, knowledge, life experience and energy are far behind you. If you talk to them, they will not only help you make suggestions, but also intensify the contradictions of things and eventually add fuel to the flames. Well, in this case, don't tell them.

How to judge which type of parents belong to? You can clearly feel it from your daily life at home.

If I put aside my advice to others, let me choose for myself. My choice is to "digest all setbacks, hardships and unhappiness" by myself. Because you're a client. You clearly know the reasons behind your setbacks, hardships and unhappiness. No one but you can fully understand your experience. Calm down and carefully analyze and sum up experiences and lessons. "What happened in the past life is the teacher of the future." After many times, you will appreciate that you dare to bear the pressure alone. This is also helpful to the cultivation of digestion and absorption ability. Help you to the glory of life!

I feel whose position this issue should be divided into. As a child, even if I live well in a foreign country, my parents' caring heart can't let go at all times. When they have nothing to do, they will doubt whether their children will be unhappy, not to mention that they will encounter setbacks or difficulties. Once they know, they will care more. So I think, from their children's point of view, don't tell parents all the setbacks and hardships outside, and don't let them think about it.

Are you going to bear it alone?

If you want to share, what is the reason?

If you don't want to share, why?

I think I will share some of them and tell them about some difficulties and setbacks I have encountered. But I will play down all this and say it is a very small thing. Family members will at least give some encouragement, or they can give some help. If help is provided, they will have a sense of accomplishment. Even if you just give some encouragement, you can feel the close connection of your family.

Moreover, the hearts of a family are linked together. When you encounter difficulties and setbacks, they can feel it. Instead of saying it, let them speculate and worry, such as downplaying it, but let them rest assured.

It's not whether you should or not, it's embarrassing.

I haven't talked to my parents much since I went to college. It's not that I don't want to talk about it, but that they don't understand. I majored in animation in college, and my parents thought it was a waste of time and money. My father dragged me to change my English major, saying that when I became a teacher in the future, my iron rice bowl would not be tiring, which sounded decent.

(2) marriageable age, they give me a blind date, and I must find an honest person. They think an honest person = a reliable family! As a result, Ma Baonan didn't want to argue with them, either because she listened to her mother or because she didn't want to be motivated and died on her salary. It's been 2 1 century, and they are still striving for stability. This is an era of self-struggle, and relying on the older generation is no longer the mainstream.

I'm 29 years old, and they think I'm always cheated. Tell them my work, and they don't know what to do, just say how my work is! The children in the neighborhood work very well! I am speechless and can't communicate at all.

It depends, after all, some things have different times, or it may be because chickens talk to ducks but ask for trouble.

For example, if your life is in danger and your future is blocked, your parents will definitely help you find a way.

But, for example, if you have a problem with others, they may not care about you or support you. You may also doubt that you are not someone else. The most troublesome thing is to come up with a bad idea, such as cutting your own meat and growing the ambition of others. It's not annoying until you adopt it, because you can't protest loudly because of your parents' kindness, which is meaningless.

No, although it will be reassuring to complain to my family, my family is very worried. Complaining still doesn't solve the fundamental problem. The most important thing is that you should face up to yourself and try to solve it. When encountering difficulties, we should face them bravely and find ways to solve them. When encountering setbacks, you should have the courage to make yourself stronger (learn more knowledge to enrich yourself). When you are in trouble, you can talk to your best friend about relaxing (if you don't want to talk about it, go climbing, have fun, go shopping with friends, do other things you like to divert your attention and start a new plan-within one year.

Children go to Wan Li Road, but mothers worry. You have hardships and setbacks, and living in this big family of society is not everything you want. Needless to say, parents can think of it. Because they have experienced it. After your parents see you, all their actions and concerns can represent their concern. I wish you all the best in the new year.

I will communicate with my parents about my setbacks and hardships outside and listen to their opinions. Maybe my parents have already experienced what I have experienced, so as an experienced person, I want to listen to my parents' opinions and suggestions. I will think carefully about where the problem lies and how to solve it.

Say what! Bitter yourself, tired yourself, and share with others with a smile.