People who chat like this really care about you.

People who chat like this really care about you.

First, take the initiative to find you and respond positively.

People who like you, love you and care about you will definitely take the initiative to chat with you. I think of you when I am busy, and I will contact you when I am busy. The word "initiative" is very important in any relationship. The more active people are, the more they care about this relationship. It is a yearning and concern that I can't help but want to contact from the heart, rather than deliberately contacting for some purpose.

People who take the initiative to chat with you will generally respond positively to your messages. As long as you see it, reply immediately. I will chat with you as soon as I have time. If something happens, it also means that it will not disappear for no reason.

If a person never takes the initiative to strike up a conversation with you, but you strike up a conversation with him, he will generally reply, indicating that you are not important enough in his heart, and the reason for replying is only to leave room for this relationship, or only when he is free will he have time to strike up a conversation with you. People who really care about you will not wait for you to find him passively, but will definitely take the initiative to find you. He will be very happy if you go to him, even if he has something on his hand, he will stop to reply to your message.

Second, listen carefully and respond effectively.

Chatting has always been said by one person and listened to by one person. When you are talking, he will listen carefully and give you an effective response while listening. The so-called effective response is to give a response after carefully thinking about what you have said in your mind, rather than saying something perfunctory. An effective response is inseparable from listening carefully. If you don't listen carefully, you can't give an effective response. Chatting without listening carefully and responding effectively won't last long.

On the one hand, you will feel the perfunctory of the other party, thus losing the desire to express. On the other hand, he will feel impatient and find reasons to walk away. People who really care about you will listen carefully to every word you say and capture your emotions and thoughts, so as to understand your inner world and get along with you better. All the responses he gave you were from the heart, without any reluctance. Chatting with him will make you feel valued, so you are more willing to communicate with him.

Third, be honest with each other and answer questions.

People who are eloquent and can chat are really more popular. But what is more important than chatting skills is a sincere heart. Sincerity is the eternal killer. Without sincerity and knowing how to chat, it is impossible to really walk into each other's hearts. If a person, when chatting with you, always hides, answers irrelevant questions, or cleverly avoids the topic, it is obviously insincere. Without basic sincerity, no matter how long we talk, it is impossible to narrow our distance.

Some people are very scheming, trying their best to trap your words when chatting with you, but ignoring your questions. Such people, let alone further development, even ordinary friends, had better not be friends.

Because he is not sincere to you at all, even if you are sincere, he will not be honest with you. You who really care about you will be honest with you. No matter what you ask, he will answer truthfully. Answering questions honestly does not mean that he is stupid and has no talent, but that he is willing to treat you wholeheartedly.

-Summary-

Get along with the characters and chat with your heart. Whether a person really cares about you depends on the way and attitude he chats with you. Take the initiative to find you and respond positively, which shows that he likes you very much. Listen carefully and respond effectively, which shows that he attaches great importance to you. Answer the question honestly, which shows that he cares about you. By comparing the above three points, you can see whether the person you are chatting with really cares about you.