Talking about the influence of noise on others

That day, I suddenly felt very sad after listening to Jonathan Lee's song The Silent Man.

"The world is so noisy,

Make the silent person look a little silly,

These people should not be underestimated.

If you give him a guitar. "

Jonathan Lee, the godfather of music, had a poor academic record in middle school and failed two high school exams in Sun Shan. Finally, I reluctantly went to a technical college far from home.

14 years old, a guitar changed his fate. Although he was often absent from class, he held the guitar and plunged into self-study music theory, intoxicated with it. Ten years later, with this guitar, he became the best musician in Chinese music to tell stories with images.

In an interview with reporters, he recalled that,

"When all the signs show that I will be a loser, I choose silence because I don't know what to say. The loser has no right to speak, and of course no one wants to listen.

I have no ability to be what others want, so I can only choose to be myself. I began to imagine myself, a Jonathan Lee that I would accept and like. This has become the most important thing in my engineering university for seven years.

Because of loneliness, I gradually became a person who had many opportunities to observe and look at others from a distance. Because there are few opportunities to join a lively group, I can concentrate more on completing my inner self. "

This passage touched my heart.

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When I just graduated, I came to a school to teach, and my heart was full of yearning. I wanted to be a class teacher at first, but it didn't matter. I am introverted and unattractive, so I was not trusted and didn't get what I wanted.

So, when other teachers play cards during recess, I try to change my homework and write comments at the end of each composition. Go to the classroom as soon as you have time and answer questions for students.

Whenever my colleagues invite me to play together on weekends, I politely refuse, because I have to go to the Institute of Education for postgraduate courses on weekends. It's normal to be teased. I won't say anything. When I am not recognized, the only thing I can do is to do what I want to do.

I don't like talking in a crowded crowd. Sometimes, I feel a little withdrawn, but also because I don't fit in, I have a lot of time and space to learn and grow for myself.

I worked in this silly silence for a year, which was highly recognized by parents and students. Another parent wrote a letter of commendation to the Education Bureau. The following year, I made an exception and became the head teacher of the graduating class.

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It is often seen that there are many excellent authors in the world. They don't contribute, don't publicize, don't run articles well, just write their own words silently. Some people write for a year or two. Countless nights, I kept writing, without asking the result, just writing, writing, writing.

In the eyes of others, they may be able to remain lonely, which is really not easy. But in their hearts, they are just guarding their pure land and enjoying it.

In this noisy era, it is almost a silly thing to write quietly, read quietly, draw quietly and be in a daze quietly.

Junichi Watanabe wrote in Insensitivity: Due to the accelerated pace of life, modern people are often vulnerable if they are too sensitive. Although insensitivity gives people a negative impression of dullness and sluggishness, it can make people not worry or be discouraged at any time. Insensitivity is like a force that won't hurt yourself. People who succeed in their respective worlds must have a wonderful insensitivity hidden in their hearts. "

Be silly. People who are determined to live the life they want in live high need this kind of stupidity.

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The five most frequently mentioned regrets are:

1. Don't have the courage to live the life you really want.

You really shouldn't work so hard.

I hope I have enough courage to express my feelings.

I should always keep in touch with my friends.

I really should make myself happier.

Before people die, the biggest regret is not how much money they have and how many people they have loved, but that they have no courage to live another life!

Be true to your heart, and don't cater to the life that others expect. Let some goodwill push you forward in your life and concentrate on doing something worth spending time on. I'd rather be stupid than smart enough to regret it all my life.

However, on the other hand, being stupid is actually someone else's opinion. Most of the time, people just talk casually, which is all for nothing.

What matters is what you think in your heart. Everyone who walks silently has his own direction in his heart.

Silence does not mean sinking. It is "the means and wisdom to win a better life" to face the setbacks and pains in life calmly and move forward firmly in your own direction.

On his 58th birthday, Jonathan Lee concluded, "I stood side by side with that helpless teenager and finally realized that every city I have experienced in my life is connected, and every footprint I have tried is connected. It took me step by step to today and made me who I am today. There is no road in life, and every step counts. "

So, in this noisy world, let me continue to be myself!

Ps: When I was a child, I liked a song: Silence is golden.

The night wind is cold, and I look back on the past alone.

This is the old me, full of anger

There is a backlog of false accusations and accusations.

Respond very harshly to rumors

I have learned my lesson and been guided by the classics.

Now I can see through it. I'm not trapped anymore.

But I think I have a score.

Not as stupid as before.

Dry your tears and walk with a brisk smile.

Somehow, you are destined to be rich or poor.

Wrong is never right, true is always true.

Whatever you say, do my duty.

Always believe that silence is golden.

There is justice in right and wrong, so be careful not to offend others.

Don't be too serious when it's cold.

Be confident in your heart and ignore sarcasm and doubts.

Laughing and cursing, being free and easy.

Teenagers behave freely.

Continue to be a free and easy person.

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