I feel very dependent on my boyfriend all the time, and I am very nervous. Always afraid of emotional changes, always have inexplicable ideas.

I understand your state. In this case, my suggestions are as follows:

First of all, we should concentrate on our own work and try our best to do it well no matter what kind of work we are engaged in. Therefore, we need to devote more energy to gain a certain sense of accomplishment in our personal work, which will bring us confidence and self-reliance and help us reduce our dependence on others.

Second, cultivate your hobbies, and don't focus entirely on your boyfriend, which will make your emotions out of control. The source of your happiness is yourself, not others. In this way, you will relax yourself and each other at the same time.

Thirdly, have regular activities with your boyfriend, whether it is outing, playing games, chatting, etc. Regular interaction between two people will be more attractive than boring sticking together every day, which will enhance the freshness of getting along.

In short, a woman must be herself before becoming a lover, wife and mother. Come on!