Be wronged, brother. How can you tell me if you don't help?

In my opinion, if my closest brothers and sisters don't help me in my most difficult time, I will definitely bear a grudge and have a knot in my heart. But there is no need or reason to think carefully. Although brothers and sisters are the closest family except parents, they also have their own families and pressures, and everyone has difficulties. People used to say that it is mutual affection for others to help you, and it is also mutual affection for not helping you. We should not rely too much on others, nor should we always rely on others. We should think more about our own problems and strengthen ourselves.

If your brothers and sisters don't help you in your most difficult time, will you hate it?

1. Cherish family ties

Under normal circumstances, ordinary brothers and sisters will help, even if they have no ability, they will do their best. After all, they are all family. Therefore, when you can cherish it, get along well and cherish this mutual affection. After all, few relatives can survive. Affection is selfless, blood is thicker than water, which is different from other relationships. So we should do it and cherish it.

If your brothers and sisters don't help you in your most difficult time, will you hate it?

Step 2 have a good attitude

When we are in trouble, it is understandable to ask others for help, but don't think that others should help you or take it for granted. We can't base our difficulties on others' shoulders. First of all, we should straighten our position, have a good attitude and face this difficulty calmly. Only with a good attitude can we handle everything well and make a comeback in the future.

If your brothers and sisters don't help you in your most difficult time, will you hate it?

3. No resentment

Pushkin wrote: "If life deceives you, don't be sad, don't be impatient, melancholy days need peace, believe it, happy days will come, and your heart will always look forward to the future." We only need to learn such an atmosphere, learn such a mind, and be reborn without resentment. Because complaining or holding grudges will only make you more pessimistic and will not help us solve the problem. Then why do you think so much? Get up and fight, Sao nian.