Does your mother-in-law respect you?

Speaking of my mother-in-law, I don't feel her respect for me. But the first year of marriage, because of my respect for her. Don't refute anything she says, just let nature take its course. And let my mother-in-law speak more recklessly in front of me.

Some people say that people are afraid. But I feel that this also needs to be divided. A person with quality and cultivation will take others' admiration for you to heart. Will respect others because of their respect. And some people will think you are afraid of her because of your respect for her. So I can do whatever I want in front of you. She will think that you dare not refute or resist in front of her.

In this way, I respected my mother-in-law for a year, and I didn't get her respect. But it made me lose my image and dignity in her heart and mouth. Unbearable, I learned to refute her and began to resist her. But maybe I should have said that, knocked down my daughter-in-law and rubbed my face. My resistance had no effect.

Mother-in-law is really a carrot and stick and doesn't eat oil and salt. You are good to her, she should accept it, she won't pay at all. If you resist her, she will treat you more severely.

Even once, my only daughter, Dabao, who took care of me for a few days, was four years old and went to kindergarten, while Bao Xiao was only a few months old. It's called helping me with my children. Come home for five days every three days. Come to us and do nothing. Children can't help their colds, children can't help their traffic, and Bao Xiao can't watch. The most hateful thing is that I ate the cake left by Dabao. Get up the next morning to look for it and tell it to the children. Knowing that I ate it, I said in disgust that I was greedy. At that time, I was still breast-feeding Bao Xiao. How can I eat the rest of the cake?

In this way, after knowing my mother-in-law's personality, I have been very polite to her since then, and I am no longer respectful.