What should children do when they see their parents' intimate behavior?

In case the intimate behavior of parents is caught by the children, it is definitely better to give a positive explanation according to the children's different ages and acceptance than to cover up, cajole and ignore them. For example, children hear the sound of "calling for bed", or inadvertently push open the bedroom door and bump into sex to ask their parents. First of all, this is a good time to instill the concept of "privacy" in children. Might as well tell the child, "This is a matter between two people. If others see it, mom and dad will be embarrassed and unhappy." Teach children to knock before entering other people's rooms, and respect other people's privacy.

If children ask their parents what they are doing, the explanation should not be too specific and direct for ignorant children, and they can answer, "That's a way for parents to express their love for each other." If a child asks, "Can I do this?", he can answer, "That's not the same as loving a baby. Only married people can do it."

If a child is eccentric and utters words like "call the bed", parents should not panic. First, ask "What else do you know?" Because the child's performance shows that parents have lagged behind in their understanding of children and sex education, they must first master the child's knowledge structure, find out the situation, and then seek the next step. If the child really knows the meaning of "calling the bed", there is no need to explain the details of sexual intercourse. He can answer "Only adults can express love in this way, and only when parents do this can they have you." You can also make a feint and leave the suspense for adolescent sex education.

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