qq talks about the philosophy of life and misery

1. The more you cannot let go, the easier it is to lose; the more you want to hold on to, the faster it disappears. The more you want to possess, the more you want to possess it. The more you want to grasp it, the more you want to grasp it. The more you value something, the less you can get it; the more you care about it, the less you can catch it. Most of the things you want are not by your side. Life is always about chasing gains and losses to satisfy endless desires. Don't be attached, just let everything happen. Only by knowing how to let go can you grasp the present moment.

2. Changing your mentality means changing your life. What determines our lives is sometimes not our abilities, but our choices. There are always some shortcomings in life. Often, if you get one, you will lose the other. The most important thing in life is to know what you need. Chasing two rabbits at the same time often results in nothing!

3. Let go of what you can’t carry; look down on what you can’t afford to hurt; don’t think about what you can’t figure out; and heal what you can’t hate. . Whose tears fall in memories in the years, and whose sadness falls in the past in time. The past is like smoke, and I don’t know whose lovesickness is falling away; the memories are like a dream, and I don’t know who is falling away and whose waiting is falling away.

4. A turtle was basking in the sun on the beach. Then an eagle flew over. The turtle felt that it had a hard shell, and the eagle had nothing to do with it, so it felt confident. As a result, the eagle grabbed the turtle with its talons and flew thousands of meters into the air. When it flew over a rock, it dropped the turtle so hard that its intestines even fell out. Don't be too confident in yourself, there are more people who can deal with you than you think.

5. A belief in life that can maintain survival. No matter what you experience in life, sweet or bitter, it requires some patience and courage. No matter how deep or shallow the fate is, in these hundred years of life, no matter you What kind of mood should I use to fulfill it? In short, fate is not easy to come by. Some face encounters and some pass by. Forgive those who can forgive and let go those who can let go. In the end, a person's life depends on his heart.

6. Some long-distance relationships have survived the pain of lovesickness, gone through the test of time and place, blossomed and come together, and cherish the hard-won happiness. And more long-distance relationships broke up before they lasted long. Whether a long-distance relationship can succeed depends on a popularity limit: when two people are in love and both still have expectations, if they can work hard to get together as soon as possible, no matter which party goes to the other's city to develop, it must be done Adjustments and decisions.

7. If you give, you will be given; if you deprive yourself, you will be deprived. Trust will be trusted, doubt will be doubted. Love will be loved, hate will be hated. Life is like an echo. What you give out, you get back; what you sow, you reap; what you give, you get. How you treat people depends on how you treat them. This is a universal truth. To love others is to love yourself.

8. The road of life is not easy to walk, and everyone has ups and downs. What you have in your life will come sooner or later, don't force yourself into anything you don't have in your life. Peach blossoms, who are destined to commit crimes, love to cause trouble, but they are not free when trouble comes. The strongest will always have its own opponent, and even evil people are afraid of their enemies. Don't be a director who will harm the world, and don't be afraid of Shen Lei shaking the world. It is better to leave early when you are favored, and to accept early when you are proud. Don't worry about anything, as long as you can endure it, you'll be fine. There is no dead end in the sky, good people will be rewarded later.

9. Faced with many temptations, how many people can control themselves, and how many people will not lose themselves because of this? But then again, if you have contentment, how can you be motivated? ?The times are developing and life continues. We need to continue to work hard and pursue. If we are only satisfied with the status quo and blindly immersed in our own contentment, then what lofty ideals and pursuits are there?

< p>10. Compete more with yourself. There is no need to be jealous of others, and there is no need to envy others. Many people always regard themselves as bystanders because they envy others. The more they do this, the more they will fall into an abyss. You have to believe that as long as you do it, you can do it. Be happy for every progress you make: things do not matter big or small. Do complex things simply, do simple things seriously, do serious things repeatedly, and strive to be the best.

11. Whatever you give to others, you will sow in others and reap corresponding rewards. Give a smile and you will sow smiles and reap enthusiasm. If you give someone a cold look, you will sow cold eyes and reap indifference. When you give trust, you will sow trust and reap cooperation. If you give hatred, you will sow hatred and reap death. When you give respect, you will sow respect and gain character.

12. The leaves have fallen and the flowers have withered. They can regenerate and be beautiful next year, but can the ones that are about to pass away be left behind? Sometimes, I really love the fallen leaves and their graceful coming and going. There is a trace of mourning left in the world; I love its tolerance, its ordinary but not mediocre attitude towards life: I love its gaze looking into the distance and its smile returning to the earth.

13. We are happy because we know each other, not sad. I don’t have too high requirements for you, I just want a feeling of knowing each other. I just hope that after a few years, when you think of me, your face will be smiling and your heart will be happy. Happy to meet, happy to know each other, happy to know each other, and sweet to love each other.

14. Indifference is the indifference after having a clear understanding of worldly affairs, not arguing, not arguing, not being anxious, not being impatient, and facing life with a normal mind. The true flavor emerges from the light, and the extraordinary comes from the ordinary. An indifferent person behaves in a low-key manner, neither happy with gains nor sad with losses. An indifferent person is one who does not know the feeling of sorrow after knowing all the feeling of sorrow.

15. Requesting is like waves, endless collisions, and will eventually sink in a certain wave. Life is not just a gesture, it also requires a controlled mind to regulate oneself, not to mention rewriting life for external material things. Contentment is the root of happiness. A simple explanation of fame and wealth will win a peace of mind.

16. I cherish the life nutrients extracted from the vast sea of ????people, nourish my life, and inspire my spirit; I cherish the experience of success and the lessons of failure, sharpen my will, and strengthen my determination. Confidence; I cherish every fragment and every process of life, temper my courage and enrich my life.

17. Some things, just do them once they are done, and stop thinking about them. If you think about them again, your heart will be upset; some people, just leave as soon as they leave, so don’t miss them anymore. If you stay, you will feel better. Humble; some feelings are gone when they are gone, so don’t cherish them