"Sister-in-law, the fruit in the refrigerator is broken. Let me throw it away for you. " "Don't you dare, I just bought it yesterday." what do you think?

Since my sister-in-law married into our family, everything has been in my sister's charge. I suddenly became an outsider in this family. No matter what I do, my sister-in-law always says that I don't understand this and that. It seems that she is the only one in the world who understands. I'm 20 years old and I'm not a little girl, but my sister-in-law thinks I'm too young to do anything without her permission. I really can't figure it out. Don't I have the right to make my own decisions?

There are only four rooms at home, one for parents and one for elder sister. Anyway, I'm getting married, and I'll stay in anyone's room in the future. I think so, too. As long as I stayed at my parents' house for one night, I never worried about such things when I was a child, but after my sister-in-law came in, I realized that it was not that I was content, but that there were people in charge at home, so you should think more about some things.

I actually don't want to go home after work every day. I want to rent a house outside, but my sister-in-law says I waste money and I can't live at home. My mother doesn't want me to live outside and says it's not good for me to be a girl. I can't help it I don't want to make my mother sad, so I have to stay at home. My brother works outside all the year round, and my sister-in-law is in charge at home. What annoys me most is that my sister-in-law has to take care of my salary every month, which makes me very unhappy.

I told my sister-in-law, I said I can pay for my family's living expenses, but can I not take all my salary? Sister-in-law said she was worried that I would spend money indiscriminately. She gives me 500 yuan pocket money every month and saves the rest for me. I told my sister-in-law that I am an adult and will not spend money indiscriminately. My sister-in-law said no, I can't give you money until you get married, and my mother is easy-going.

Actually, my sister-in-law is very frugal. I can think of her saving a little on me and herself, but I hope she won't save on my parents. After all, when they are old, they need to keep up with nutrition and eat healthily, so we can rest assured as children. But my sister-in-law is a housekeeper, but she is reluctant to part with her parents. I often tell her that you can spend more money on my salary and buy some nutrition for my parents.

Sister-in-law said she knew, and then bought some side dishes. Sometimes I really want to talk to my brother, but because of their husband-wife relationship, I don't want to say too much. I took the initiative to cook for my parents during several breaks, which may be too rich. My sister-in-law saw it and said I didn't know how to save. I said I didn't rest, I bought it myself, and I won't ask you for reimbursement. My sister-in-law didn't speak. After dinner, I'm going to put the leftovers in.

When I saw that some apples in the refrigerator were broken, because I always asked my sister-in-law what I was doing at home, I said to her, "Sister-in-law, the fruit in the refrigerator is broken. Let me throw it away for you!" ! Before I finished my words, I heard my sister-in-law say loudly, "Don't you dare, I bought it yesterday." I was frightened by my sister-in-law's voice. I said I wouldn't throw it. Are you so loud? Sister-in-law said, you don't know the importance of money if you don't care.

I feel bad when I hear this. I don't understand that my sister-in-law cares so much about money. After all, fruits can't be put in the refrigerator when they are broken. Besides, eating it will upset me. Will I throw it wrong?

Conclusion: Your sister-in-law may have the habit of saving. At this time, you should not force her to confront her. You should tell her some truth and let her know what to save and what not to save. Although saving is a virtue, you need to consider that saving is harmful to your health. Don't quarrel with your sister-in-law. You can talk to her calmly, which should be effective.