I felt uncomfortable the first time we met.

First, what if the blind date doesn't feel?

1, if this person makes you particularly disgusted, of course you can give up. If you think his conditions are ok, but you don't feel anything special, I suggest you don't give up on him immediately after the first meeting, and give yourself at least three chances. People who have had too many blind date experiences, or people who feel that they have really loved others, and people with excellent conditions will ask this question, but they can't find the feeling of love and are reluctant to give up, fearing that they will never feel it again after marriage.

In fact, dating can't find feelings. Many times, it's because I love incompetence. I once loved my wounds, so I won't love them easily. Because I don't want to hurt myself again, I won't let my guard down easily and love someone boldly. Many people who told the judge didn't feel at first, and even hated each other. When they get to know each other better, they will think each other very well and fall in love with each other. This is a natural feeling. If you take the initiative to love and understand each other's world, you will soon fall in love with each other.

3. The blind date mentality is very important. The success of blind date requires two sincere hearts to work together and make a decision calmly. Feeling is a question of whether you want it, not whether you have it. Let go of the burden, brave enough to love. You'll feel it soon. In ancient times, it was said that many couples had never met before marriage, but most of them lived happily, which has been proved by facts.

4. Blind date is just a way to get to know each other. From the point of view of a young couple, introducing friends or satisfying other long-term feelings is essentially the same, but it is of great significance to parents. Whether we can get along depends on whether we are satisfied with each other. Elders like to say that there is emotional accomplishment, but this kind of thing lies in the first sight. Besides, you will get married, and if something happens in the future, they can't be responsible for you.

5, don't rush to close the door, no bad feeling is a good feeling. Don't say no earlier. People who can make you fall in love at first sight usually don't need to go on blind dates. If you can make many people fall in love at first sight, you generally don't need to go on blind dates.

6, the ability to feel is not everyone's, talent, personality, more from experience. Give the other party a chance to relax their reception channels. For example, a man's boldness is charm, faithfulness is charm, and childishness is charm. Can you catch them? What if I really don't feel anything? I feel unnatural. What if I can't practice the day after tomorrow? Come on, then you can honestly find a down-to-earth partner to live with, and talk less about what it feels like. A marriage that can live with a partner is good enough. Feeling is an ability.

Second, can blind date be without emotional cultivation?

1, it can be cultivated, but it is more difficult. It depends on the three views of two people, whether they can fit in with each other and the tolerance to each other. But what I want to say is more difficult. First glance is very important. If you don't feel it at first sight, you can try it a second time and a third time. There will always be a bright spot! However, many people are planted at first sight, and they don't have to look at it if they don't feel it.

2. If you don't feel blind date, you can try for the second time and the third time to get a brief understanding of each other's lifestyle and working style. I think kindness and sincerity are very important. If you hate blind date, there is no need to waste time. If you just don't feel it, you can give each other another chance to get along.

Knowing your interests can let you know whether you have the same hobbies and whether you have a common language together. Knowing each other's aspirations can help us to see whether this person has a life plan and whether he has a future and potential for development. Dating, dating is essential. What should I pay attention to when dating? Dating is the best way to get to know each other quickly. There are three purposes of dating: getting to know each other, getting used to each other and trying to be sweet.

4. What if I really don't feel anything? I feel unnatural. What if I can't practice the day after tomorrow? Come on, then you can honestly find a down-to-earth partner to live with and talk less about what it feels like. A marriage that can live with a partner is good enough. Feeling is an ability.

The two people on blind date started to contact each other on a zero basis. How can you have feelings for each other without any emotional foundation? Your blind date is not Andy Lau, and you are not Gao Yuanyuan. Where did your feelings come from? Your ideal prince charming? That's just a fairy tale. I think it can also be understood from another aspect, that is, feelings. Feelings need to be cultivated, and relatively speaking, feelings also need to be cultivated. The premise of training is that both sides of blind date need to communicate, so don't rush to deny each other for the first time, try to contact and understand each other.