Can my husband go to the delivery room to accompany him when he gives birth? How should a prospective father do well in labor or accompany him?

Wen Jing Ma Jing said the original content.

When the expectant mother is pregnant with a new life, the prospective father is actually waiting for the arrival of the baby with great joy. Many prospective fathers will participate in prenatal education and spend the pregnancy with the expectant mother.

In fact, pregnancy is not a matter for expectant mothers alone. From pregnancy to the birth of the baby, many things need the participation of the prospective father, except prenatal education, avoidance preparation during delivery, companionship and encouragement during delivery, and active care after the baby is born.

Can the husband go to the delivery room to accompany the baby during delivery? Generally speaking, many hospitals now advocate expectant fathers to accompany their wives in the delivery room, because with the company of expectant fathers, expectant mothers not only have great confidence in childbirth, but also can discuss anything with expectant fathers, and they can also guide them to breathe correctly during childbirth.

Of course, the premise is that the prospective father is not dizzy and can be calm enough at the scene.

But, different places, different hospitals, about? Can the family go in to accompany the baby? There will be different regulations, and some hospitals prohibit any family members from entering the delivery room to accompany them. Therefore, if the expectant mother wants her prospective father to accompany her during childbirth, it is best to go to the hospital in advance to understand the relevant regulations of the hospital when filing.

In the hospital where my son was born, I could have a family member with me. My husband went in to accompany me, and I was nervous and scared after entering the delivery room. Coupled with the shouts of the delivery room next door, it will aggravate my nervousness and fear, but it is much better with my husband around.

What should a prospective father do from labor to the birth of a baby? After the prospective father enters the delivery room, he may listen to the pain and worry of the parturient, but he should try to be calm, because there are many things that the prospective father needs to cooperate with from the pre-delivery to the delivery room and the different stages after the baby is born.

1. Before labor

Go through the hospitalization procedures to help expectant mothers choose a relatively quiet and comfortable ward.

Many expectant mothers want the ward they lived in to be comfortable and quiet. Then the prospective father can help his wife choose a suitable ward when she is in hospital, try to choose a single room if possible, and then bring her favorite small ornaments or potted plants to make her feel at home even in the hospital.

Accompany the expectant mother to make some prenatal preparations to relieve her nervousness and strangeness.

If the expectant mother is hospitalized before the start, the prospective father can accompany the expectant mother to visit the waiting room, delivery room and ward after going through the hospitalization formalities, or try to get to know the medical staff with the expectant mother, so as to reduce the anxiety and strangeness of the expectant mother and increase the intimacy between the expectant mother and the medical staff, which is conducive to the smooth delivery.

Give positive psychological hints to expectant mothers and reduce prenatal anxiety.

A few days before labor, the prospective father should always give positive psychological hints to the expectant mother, so that the expectant mother can face the process of natural childbirth as easily as possible. Some negative words and examples are rarely directed at mom. Especially don't mention how difficult or painful it is to have children in front of expectant mothers. Saying such things will only aggravate the prenatal anxiety of expectant mothers, and even have no confidence in having children.

Step 2 be in labor

If the prospective father can enter labor, then he should comfort and encourage the expectant mother more during childbirth.

If the prospective father can enter the delivery room to accompany him, then the whole process should not interfere with the midwife's work. After all, medical staff are the most professional. What the prospective father should do is to comfort the expectant mother, encourage her when appropriate, massage or kiss her when she is in severe pain, and give her courage and confidence.

If the prospective father cannot enter labor, wait with peace of mind and cooperate with the medical staff.

It doesn't matter if the prospective father can't enter the delivery room, wait for the expectant mother to come out at the door of the delivery room. Remember, babies usually leave the delivery room before their mothers. At this time, the prospective father should not leave with the baby first, but let other relatives of the baby take care of the newborn baby first; The prospective father should stay at the door of the delivery room until the expectant mother comes out. When the expectant mother comes out of the delivery room and sees that her husband is still waiting, her heart will be touched, which is conducive to the relationship between husband and wife and postpartum recovery.

3. After delivery

Go back to the ward with your wife and let her have a good rest first.

When the prospective father accompanies his wife back to the ward, he should obey the arrangement of the medical staff, properly arrange his wife and let her have a good rest. If you have something to say, you can keep it for the time being. When the wife wakes up, say more thanks, then show her the baby and tell her who the baby looks like, so that she can feel the happiness of being a father.

Avoid paying too much attention to the baby and care more about the wife.

Many family members, including husbands, may pay more attention after the baby is born, but ignore it? Hero? The wife's feelings; After giving birth to a baby, the baby can be taken care of by his family, and the husband should mainly take care of his wife's body and mind and help her recover as soon as possible.

Anyone who welcomes a new life for the first time will feel nervous. When the expectant mother is facing childbirth, as her spiritual pillar and strong backing, if the prospective father is more nervous than the expectant mother and knows nothing about it than the expectant mother, it will definitely affect her mood and make her more uneasy. Therefore, the prospective father must learn to relax himself, participate more in his wife's pregnancy, read more books or consult experienced people, and give the expectant mother the greatest comfort and support.

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