5 classic sentences in Jin Yong's novel "The Legend of the Condor Heroes"

"If you live, you carry me on your back; if you die, you carry me on your back" - Huang Rong said on Guo Jing's back after being hit by the iron palm.

Love does not mean marriage

As long as you always treat me well in your heart, I don’t care even if you marry her.

——"The Legend of the Condor Heroes" Chapter 25

Huang Rong is one of the few good girls in the world who truly understands the meaning of love. When she learned that Guo Jing, her lifelong sweetheart, actually had a fiancée, and that she was the daughter of Genghis Khan, the Great Khan of Mongolia, and had been engaged by Genghis Khan himself, tears welled up in her eyes - no matter how open-minded a person is, So sad, poor girl. However, life is full of dissatisfaction. Huang Rong, who lost her mother when she was young, is very aware of the dissatisfaction in life. Even though she is Huang Yaoshi's daughter, she also knows that she cannot always have everything she wants. She is able to distinguish between ideals and reality. Therefore, she is also able to differentiate between love and marriage. Understanding love first means not to confuse love with other things, such as friendship, marriage, and sex... Of course, these are all closely related, and it is best to be able to unify them and make them perfect. But if they cannot be unified, it is not a flaw and there is no need to force it, because they are inherently different things. True love should be something without any utilitarian purpose. Love occurs naturally and exists naturally. Love is not a prelude to marriage, nor is it for marriage. It's not true love. Even if you get married, you're still in the same bed. The result just proves that life is life, and love is still love. Getting married is easy. But it is not easy for a person to always treat you well in his heart, no matter whether he is single all his life or divorced eighteen times. Huang Rong understands this truth at a young age and has no "educational qualifications". She is really a good girl. Guo Jing later married Huang Rong

Pure Love

If he wanted to marry someone else, then I would marry someone else too. He only has me in his heart, then he is the only one in my heart.

——"The Legend of the Condor Heroes" Chapter 26

Guo Jing refused to break his promise and agreed to marry the Mongolian princess Hua Zheng, but said to Huang Rong: "Even if you take me My body was burned to ashes, but I still only have you in my heart." Huang Rong deeply understood the contradiction between "love" and "righteousness". She bravely took on this painful reality and made an equal decision with Guo Jing. There are also some people who, because they cannot be reunited with their beloved, stay alone for the rest of their lives to show their unswerving loyalty to love. Such people are certainly respectable. However, compared with Huang Rong, they did not distinguish between love and marriage. Marriage is a real life issue, an economic issue, a legal issue and even a political issue. In short, it is not a spiritual issue. Love is a free bird that cannot be restricted or controlled by anything. It does not necessarily have to rely on the foundation of marriage to be established. Therefore, when Huang Rong decided to "marry" someone else, she said that she still only had Guo Jing in her heart. Such a girl is the leader of the Cupid family. If we blindly compete for "marriage rights", status, and "discuss", wouldn't that deviate from the true connotation of love? The era of Guo Jing and Huang Rong described by Jin Yong was the Southern Song Dynasty when Neo-Confucianism emerged. In that era, there were not only anti-feudal masters like Huang Laoxie who were full of celebrities from the Wei and Jin Dynasties, but also women like Huang Rong who "husband and wife are husband and wife, love is love itself", which is really rare. Huang Rong's ideas are still leading and progressive even in the 21st century. Praising this view of love does not mean that people should seek love outside of marriage. But in our era full of "impure marriages", let us think about how to keep love pure and pure love

Old naughty boy's view of love

What is the world like? Everything is done well, and it doesn't matter if several cans of stinky urine are poured on my head every day, even if my wife doesn't want it.

——The Nineteenth Chapter of "The Legend of the Condor Heroes"

This is the "view of love" of the old naughty boy Zhou Botong. The old naughty boy was open-minded and cheerful by nature, and he was naughty and mischievous all his life. The reason why he had a big headache in this matter was because he had a romantic affair when he was young, which caused him great suffering and created a lifelong sense of psychological "frustration". From then on, he regarded the relationship between a man and a woman as terrifying as a snake or a scorpion. Not only did he give up on it, but he also advised his sworn brother Guo Jing not to take a wife, and asked Guo Jing to "run away as quickly as possible before they got married." The words of the naughty boy Zhou Botong are funny and weird, often nondescript, but they are not simple and useless nonsense.

He looks innocent and innocent like a child, but in his heart he still has a clear understanding of worldly affairs and human feelings. His avoidance and denial of love is actually a kind of confession and atonement, and a special way of expression like a "celebrity". In his heart, the feeling of love was not really lost. It's just that he was able to "empathize" and transform the pain of regret into progress in other aspects, thus gaining relief. Therefore, although he is not a real Taoist priest, he is more free and easy-going than the Quanzhen Seventh Son. Without greed or chance, he instead practiced the incomparable and unparalleled magic skills - the seventy-two-way Kong Ming Fist and the left and right fighting skills. He became the second person after Wang Chongyang to surpass the East Slant, West Poison, South Emperor and North. The best master in the world above all beggars. However, he had no intention of winning the title of No. 1 in the world. Perhaps this is really due to his "view on love" that is far away from women. However, to be honest, Zhou Botong's romantic affair cannot be called "love" in the strict sense, so he did not suffer huge and boundless emotional torture after escaping from his "lover". If he had really been soaked in the alkaline water of love, I'm afraid he wouldn't be able to practice such a superb magical skill. If you have love and a wife, can you really not practice Kung Fu to the top? If it is true that only one of the two can occupy one, then which one should you choose?

The depth of love

I won’t be able to bear it if you cherish me any more. If you are in danger, can I survive alone?

——The Eighth Chapter of "The Legend of the Condor Heroes"

Huang Rong and Guo Jing are in love with each other and have a spiritual connection with each other. Guo Jing refused to let Huang Rong take the risk together, so Huang Rong whispered these words. True love is when two people become one person, both prosper and suffer. You pity me, love me, and cherish each other, all out of an original intention that has absolutely no utilitarian purpose. Love is a kind of devotion, an unreserved investment of an individual into the "I" composed of two people. The crisis of one person is also the crisis of two people, and it is the crisis of the whole love. Therefore, people who truly love each other cannot bear to live alone in the world. Mrs. Hu Yidao in "Flying Fox in the Snow Mountain" committed suicide after her husband died. Shangguan Hong in "White Horse Roaring in the West Wind" also died with the enemy after her husband White Horse Li San was killed. This is not the so-called "martyrdom for righteousness" in feudal ethics, but the evocative "martyrdom for love." Huang Rong's words show the depth of love between her and Guo Jing. In the following life, she and Guo Jing went through hardships and hardships, experiencing joys and sorrows, until they both died for their country while guarding Xiangyang. Maybe people in ancient times and today have different views on love. Today we do not advocate that people who love each other must live and die together, but we should express our sincere respect for lovers with this spirit. In the vast sea of ????people, all living beings, when we are in danger, has anyone, maybe someone, said such words as Huang Rong? No wonder Xin Qiji sang deeply: "Who is Qian? Call me for the red scarf and green sleeves, and find the hero's tears!"