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I helped a boy I didn’t know and didn’t like in front of my boyfriend, and the boy went

First of all, you have to take the initiative.

Think of the consequences in everything you do

Confession is actually a sign of immaturity. The normal sequence should be: Is it your daughter? What will happen to me as a friend, not what will happen to me after you become my girlfriend.

I saw such an example on the Internet. I don’t know if it is true, but it is still worth mentioning.

A master chased a girl and was very successful. In the end, both of them were close. The girl asked the guy anxiously, "Why don't you let me be your girlfriend?"

Generally, girls like responsible men. Women pay great attention to the first impression. They must be mature. Think about it, which woman would fall in love with a naive person.

Mature A man will have the courage to face his responsibilities.

Be more proactive when you are with her, but keep it moderate. Girls are very timid, so don’t scare her.

Be steady and assertive, do everything in a panic but not panic. Have a man's temperament and demeanor. Be sympathetic, especially to small animals and the like. (Women like this kind of man) < /p>

You also need to have self-confidence. Without self-confidence, you will not be able to do anything well. If you encounter something worrying in life, you should be optimistic in front of it (the prerequisite is to let her know that you have encountered it) and let her know that you have encountered it. Let her see how strong you are.

Don't say "I love you" to her often. The meaning will change if you say it too much. Don't say "forever".

< p>Because many women do not believe in eternity. My girlfriend does.

If you are sincere and work hard, then she will definitely come to you.

If If she is worth chasing, just take action.

I have found some ways to chase girls and see if they help you.

The more times you touch women , the easier it is for her to fall in love with you>

After touching a woman, it is easier to enhance mutual intimacy (physical contact is the best way to close the distance with a woman, but how can you leave no trace (Touching a woman requires excellent skills). If you have the opportunity to touch her knees or hands, that's perfect. But don't do this if you are meeting on a first date. In coffee shops and restaurants, you'd better choose side-by-side seats (that's the chance). If you choose face-to-face seats, you won't have the chance to touch each other.

Female body aspects The left side (roughly the left side, but for a left-handed woman it is the right side) is an unusual area. It is easy to feel that the left side is even more sensitive for women.

Therefore, it is best to keep the woman on your left. If you use your left hand to hug her from behind, she will fall into your arms. Then look forward to further good results.

Popular men always keep a distance from non-ideal women, but for women they admire, they have ways to keep them away. Put her next to her. Women will definitely be curious about attractive men (curiosity is a fatal injury to women). This curiosity can be used in interesting conversations and fresh intelligence information. Above. If you are not popular, even if the other person is very curious, he will just try to avoid you when he sees you. He will always feel lonely around an unpopular man, and he hopes to be in a lively atmosphere at all times. If you want to be a popular man, you must have self-confidence (being confident but not arrogant is the only way to pursue a girlfriend, remember!), and good interpersonal relationships. I believe that in this way, good girls will belong to you.

I finally have the opportunity to ask her out, but I don’t know what gift to bring. It is best to bring a flower on this occasion, so that you may be able to give her a gift. Pin the flowers on your chest (giving gifts is a skill, but it is unwise to put flowers on the chest of an "unfamiliar" woman) or in your hair, which will naturally create an opportunity for each other to kiss each other. As for dining, , you may have to be a little more cautious the first time, but after the second time, you can choose food for two to enhance mutual intimacy. If you and her can eat big mouthfuls, then your relationship will be more than just Friends, but lovers.

After the other person becomes your girlfriend, there are many people who They are worried that their relationship cannot go any further. In fact, if these people are not too careless, they often let opportunities to enhance their feelings slip away quietly. Among female groups, they attach great importance to boys who want to help women get their coats, because they take off their coats. At the moment when you put on your coat, if there is a man present, it is easy for a woman to have the illusion of a couple. When taking a taxi, if you can say: Put the things that are easy to forget with me, that is to put yourself with her. The distance between them has narrowed. But if these behaviors are used improperly, it will be self-defeating.

Mystery is very important to women .Compared to men introduced by others or met at work, men who meet by chance are more attractive to women. If this accidental situation happens repeatedly, women will definitely believe in the existence of fate. But you can create Can you guess the second chance? In fact, this is something that everyone can do. If you hope to meet a girl no matter what, you can check her commute route and other related matters in detail. Then think about it It is much easier to get a second chance. Only by accepting the female gaze can you be a successful man. Women always pay attention to the true nature of men. Therefore, when they understand that the true face of a man is not the type they like, they will most likely take the opportunity. Escape. It would be best to make some changes to suit her preferences. And a particularly good memory is a female characteristic. Some men have forgotten a sentence, but women remember it very clearly, so you must remember what you are saying about it. Everything she said

In terms of giving gifts, if your girlfriend likes small items, you can give her rings, watches or small flowers. If she likes large items, you can give her large dolls or Large and numerous bouquets can win her favor. Generally speaking, most people who like small items are more mature people, because these items can be placed within the scope of their control, so most of them will not act as they please. .Women who like big dolls are probably a little childish, so when she is happy, she may pester her boyfriend. However, it is also possible that after she gets tired of hugging the doll, she no longer wants to hug you. In this regard, she likes small items. Although women who are women will cost you more, they seem to be easier to cultivate long-term love.

If you give in to women’s words or attitudes too much, you will definitely fail>

Women are both cute and scary animals. The main difference between women and men is that women have two-sided personalities. They look quite soft on the surface, but they are On the inside, it can be said to be a dominatrix. Men who are not good at pursuing women will easily succumb to this kind of fear. Men who are not used to facing such women will submit to women's words or smiles and become independent. .

Women can be roughly divided into two types. One is that they are obsessed with men who can put themselves above others. , and the other is obsessed with men who are always disparaging about themselves. Men who are not good at understanding women always beautify women, so they are less able to put forward objective opinions to the point. On the contrary, if they are good at interacting with women In the past, a man would not blush or gasp even when he said something unpleasant, and there would often be some good opportunities around him.

It is of course best if men and women have the same personalities. There are often two people in the world who are called a "natural match". In addition to having many commonalities before they met, when they are together, **Living together,

There are many similarities. In fact, if men and women can complement each other, it is a very good combination. Among women who are bosses, they often express themselves in order to prove their income. Show your strong side to others. If your female partner is this type, you might as well find an opportunity to act coquettishly in return. For a woman with strong self-esteem, it is easier to capture her heart. So, What you say and do are basically the same. The most important thing is to satisfy her self-esteem, so sometimes you might as well play the role of a slave of love. When getting along with these women, you just need to remember the principle of never going against her, and then pursue It will be unexpectedly easy for them, and they will be an ideal partner.

Do not be too deliberate when doing this kind of gentle behavior. You have to seize the opportunity and do it in a very calm manner. If you can show a friendly smile to the puppy or kitten, or show affection to the little flowers and grass, it is very important. At this time, she will definitely miss you. If you have such feelings for these little things, your feelings for women are even more unquestionable. At the same time, she will definitely be convinced that you are a very gentle man. In this way, you are already half successful.

<海 The sunset is the best combination to seduce women>

Since ancient times, women have longed for water (yes, the best place for a date is the sunset at the beach!!).

In most romantic songs, there seems to be no setting in the middle of the day, and no one will not be immersed in sentimentality just because they see the sunset on the seaside. A relationship must first be immersed in sentimentality and feel a Only when people are alone and lonely can they experience the taste of emotion. If a woman agrees with this situation, then she will also agree to this emotion.

Some people think that girls are easily deceived, but is this really true? In fact, when girls face the prince charming in their hearts, they will be willing to be deceived. So in When a well-dressed man appears in front of them, these girls will probably gamble their luck according to their own wishes. So the most important thing is that you have to give the other party some dreams. At the beginning, your attitude when approaching her or The promise cannot be changed. To put it more clearly, give her a dream. If you continue to let her keep her dream, your relationship will be deeper.

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If your girlfriend yawns slightly during a date, it is not that she is tired but it is a hint to you that she is tired of you (be careful with this paragraph, it is very pertinent) , it is important to know whether a woman is impatient with you, or if she slightly signals you to pay attention to the time on the watch, etc., it means that she already wants to go home. If her intention is stronger, she may show When a woman comes out and looks around without looking at you, you probably no longer exist in her heart. When a woman is with the man she likes, she often does not care about the surrounding environment. If you say these There is nothing excessive about a woman being a [self-centered] woman, but if a woman sets her sights on other things, you should be mentally prepared to end the relationship at any time. If a woman says Many women like to add the word "disgusting" after a sentence when "men are really annoying". However, in this usage, there are two noteworthy different meanings hidden. Generally speaking, "disgusting" is used to express it. It often occurs when men and women are relatively close to each other. If they are not very close, the other person may give you a contemptuous look in silence. Therefore, if a woman is willing to speak to you, in relative comparison, your intimacy will In order to increase the intimacy between you, you have to show your masculinity to her as soon as possible, but if a man makes a woman feel unclean, she is likely to be deterred.

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What kind of person is she? If she is a person who can talk continuously, it will be easy for people to doubt what is going on in her head. What are you pretending to be? Human beings always want others to take a look at themselves, so both men and women will always organize their appearance appropriately, but appearance alone is not complete enough, so through conversation, you can also make others more aware. Know yourself a little. Women whose voices change rapidly will show their inner excitement as they speak, and their soft-spoken intonations are also a type that can make people enjoy themselves. But for women whose voices sound like a scream Women, you have to pay special attention. She may be extremely jealous. On the contrary, women with lower voice quality may be more masculine.

Recently, you can often see some women wearing Walkmans on the bus. In fact, these women who use headphones to plug their hearing are actually partly trying to escape loneliness, allowing themselves to escape to music and immerse themselves in it. In the music world, there are also some women who are willing to take off their headphones for men, but this requires considerable vigilance, because this is one of the forms of a self-centered person.

A report once pointed out that women are attracted to (--be careful with the first impression, many people die at this point!!) beards The evaluation of men is higher than that of men without beards. Appearance, posture, and clothing are all important factors in determining the first impression, so if these first impressions are not used, it will not be good. Usually appearance gives people the first impression. A deep impression will be made

is embedded in the other person's heart, so the first impression is very important. If a man can pay attention to his clothing and attitude in daily life, he will be more successful in love.

How to chase someone you already have Flower of the Lord?

Once a girl has a boyfriend and makes a commitment, she will not easily accept love from others.

But if you fall in love with a girl who has a boyfriend, you should What should I do with you?

Don’t be rash and woo her rashly, you will definitely be rejected. Because she doesn’t know you very well and won’t give up the love she already has for you. You should treat her well. Care about her meticulously, appear as a normal friend of the opposite sex, and play with her. As time goes by, she will think you are a good boy. Don't let her have the opportunity to reject you, and don't ask for anything from her. Let her know that you care about her. Be affectionate, but don't say it explicitly.

Then, when your relationship (for her, friendship) develops to a certain stage, find an opportunity (it can be when she just fell out with her boyfriend). Be subtle. Write a letter or talk once.

At this time, she may still refuse, but if you find that she does not hate you, go ahead and continue. She will compare and choose you over her previous boyfriend. .

This is the whole process, but before that, you must compare yourself with her boyfriend. If you think you are not as good as the above method, it will be ineffective

A complete guide to chasing girls

(1) Chasing girls who are silent and arrogant

It seems quite tricky at first. In fact, this kind of girls are cold on the outside but fanatical on the inside. They generally like boys who are a little wilder. If you are that kind of gentle boy, but your appearance is not good, the possibility is relatively small, it is better to choose another beautiful woman. If others comment on you as "so cool!", then you have great hope! If you are not rejected for the first time, then you must not waste the opportunity! They may be extremely disrespectful to you at first. . You must not be discouraged at this time.

You must persist, even to the point of shamelessness. Inviting you to watch movies, dancing, skating, and going to the study room where she often goes are all good strategies. You must find more opportunities to express yourself, a lot (of course, I love you, I have to leave it to the last, haha)... For this type of girl, your true feelings are very attractive.

It usually takes a long time to chase this kind of girl. If you are about to graduate or leave school now, it seems that it is better not to start. So as not to waste...hehe. But after you catch her, she will usually give up and you will think that you are the happiest BF in the world! Haha.

(2) Chasing romantic and fantasy girls

If you really fall in love with such a girl, let me remind you first - you will have to taste the ups and downs! This Breeding girls seem to pursue spirituality more than material things, but in fact it's just the opposite. Romance requires money to create. If you don't have enough financial resources, I hope you will think more carefully. Since she likes romance, flowers, chocolates, and more, you can best touch her heartstrings by giving her gifts.

If you want to catch this kind of girl, don’t be stingy with your money. Except for the moon in the sky, and on the ground except... (What? I can't remember) As long as she wants it, you should try your best to get it without hesitation. And the usual roses, snacks, and even the subtle details show the spirit... In short, if you want to chase a girl like this, you must develop the ability to read girls' minds. Don’t forget to bribe the roommates and classmates around girls.

They will tell you a lot of useful information. As for your own dress, you must put a lot of thought into it, and don't be rustic all day long. (After you catch up with a girl, you can safely show your true colors, because in her eyes you are no longer a bitch. Haha)

When you want to play with her, you should also go to romantic places, such as Spring outings, dance parties, watching love feature films... She will gradually become inseparable from your care and attention, haha! Although such a girl costs you a lot of money, she will also bring you a lot of beautiful things. Fun, as long as you really like it, you can still live a happy life.

(3) Pursue gentle and considerate girls

This kind of girl is a giving type. Once she becomes your GF, she will take good care of you, be gentle and approachable, and make you feel the warmth and reliability of love.

If you can catch this kind of girl, theoretically you will become the most comfortable man in your life. This type of girl should be easier to chase (and suitable for all types of boys), as long as she doesn't hate you and you are worthy of her. Now let us discuss the question of means.

First of all, you should pay more attention to her in life and study. She doesn't need any material things, but needs a kind of care from the heart, which will appear in front of her when she needs help. (A reminder: You must observe more in order to find good opportunities to take action.) Of course, if you are a romantic person, sending flowers and gifts during festivals is foolproof.

You can send some friendly things at the beginning, and wait until you feel you can express it (for example, when she starts to look at you differently from others or seems a little at a loss in front of you). Sending roses! If you don’t plan to be so extravagant, you can reveal some in your daily chats after self-study. When the time is right, suddenly say something like "It feels so good to be with you". If she doesn't avoid it, you Just strike while the iron is hot and say what you've wanted to say for a long time. The best time is at night: people’s defense capabilities are weaker at night. If she starts to avoid you, don't force her. You can continue to care for her silently until she is moved.

BTW: If you don’t have many opportunities to interact with her, and you have already set your sights on her when she doesn’t know you, you can pretend to be acquaintance by chance through the same friends between you and her. , and then deepen the impression through a few more "encounters" in the same study room, and then you can start. Don't think that this kind of girl is honest and will be safe once you catch her. In fact, it depends on the individual. If you don't want her to leave you for an extended period of time, if you really can't, write letters and type frequently.

(4) Chasing lively and cute girls

This kind of girl seems to like a lot of people. And in a new environment, BoyFriend is often the first one. Not because they are easy to chase, but because they often have to be in the active position. If you like this kind of girl, it will be very easy if she also likes you. If you have more contact with her, and occasionally express your affection for her, she will move closer to your goal at the same time as you. If she doesn't like you (or worse, she likes someone else), don't be discouraged. As long as you still have a chance, go for it (of course you don't have to if you are just average towards her). You can have a friendship with her first and try to develop the same hobbies as her. During this period, your humor and open-mindedness are very important, so that she will still think of you on the way back. If the person she likes is not interested in her, then you can take your time until she takes the initiative towards you more than she does that person.

At this time you can adopt obvious strategies to make her truly become your GirlFriend. If she and he like each other, and if you think she is worthy of your charge of stealing someone's love, you can still have a final blow before they confide in each other. At this time, opportunity is very important.

You have to observe carefully, and when they have conflicts or misunderstandings, take advantage of the situation (it doesn’t seem too... haha), be the first to win, and victory may belong to them in the end. You! (Usually girls don’t have other ideas after they catch her, haha) This kind of girl may be liked by unsuspecting people after she has a boyfriend. You have to notify her in time, "Please! She already belongs to me!", and the result should be is relatively optimistic.

1. What kind of first impression should be left on MM (Time: just started to contact MM)

1. I think the most important thing is to let MM see you. ambition.

The greatest charm of a man is a successful career. Young people do not work long hours and cannot be considered "successful". At this time, you have to make your sister think that you are a motivated person.

You can talk nonsense about other things, but this question cannot be vague. You must tell mm that you are full of confidence in the future, that you are not satisfied with the status quo, and that you already have long-term plans. In short, your future Not a dream.

2. Be confident and responsible

Don’t be like a child. Girls are lazy and hope they can find someone to rely on. You have to show your confidence and responsibility. Heart comes. It is better to have a wrong choice than no choice at all.

3. Don’t be too serious, but don’t be too casual either.

Be serious where you should be serious, and laugh when you should be ridiculous.

Girls all like men who are a little cynical, so don't appear to care about everything, as that would be too dull.

4. Look more mature

A man who is calm and unhurried in situations has a fatal attraction to his sister.

2. How to have further contact with mm (time: the beginning of chasing)

1. The most important thing at this stage is not to be anxious, not to make things so clear, let People can tell at a glance that you are chasing them. Think about it, most people will not fall in love with you at first glance, but they will also not hate you at first glance. They are all ordinary people's children (unless you look like Chow Yun-fat, Andy Lau or Kevin Costner). Favorability needs to be easy. It is achieved through the continuous increase of understanding, so the key to the problem is the opportunity for further development you want.

Think about it from a girl’s perspective: If you rush over to find someone so directly, the girl must be under psychological pressure. If I find out that I don't like you after being in contact for a while, wouldn't it be like playing tricks on you? So if you come out with a determined attitude from the beginning, you will basically be put back immediately.

2. Start with a low profile

First of all, you must position the relationship as a "friend". It is originally an "ordinary friend". If you want to become a "good friend", it is okay if you have good taste. Ask the other person to become a "confidante" or something like that, but never say "chasing you".

Think about it, if you don't mention "chasing" at all, then the girl will have less chance to "reject" you - how can she reject you if you don't pursue her? !

This can reduce the psychological pressure on girls and enable you to have a smooth relationship. Don't imagine that you will agree to marry you after only three days of knowing each other. You need to fully communicate and understand each other. Feelings do not arise out of thin air.

3. Don’t be too impatient in the process of dating.

Be relaxed and don’t pester others all day long. You will get tired of anyone who treats you like this. A good friend of mine told me that the key to chasing a girl is eight words - "hot and cold, playing hard to get" (this is the culmination of many years of hard work by my classmate).

Of course they won’t think well of you if you keep pestering them all day long. If you cool off for a day or two, girls will remember the benefits of your presence.

Also, don’t have the ambition of “I won’t marry you unless you want me”. It’s not good if the price is too low. Sometimes you can use some tricks.

4. Create opportunities appropriately

As mentioned earlier, don’t make things immediately turn into “you are chasing someone else”, and you need to get the opportunity to get close to girls. It all depends on your creativity.

You can collect intelligence and find ways to turn waiting around into an encounter; you can also pretend to be casual and find the most sufficient reasons to invite the other person to do something with you.

In short, this is the most technical place. If it really doesn’t work, you can ask your seniors for advice.

5. Don’t: It is impolite to give gifts to others casually.

Some people are eager to chase girls and like to give things to others frequently. However, they don’t know that this is the most taboo thing for chasing girls. As the saying goes, "No reward for no work." If you give things to others like this, you are putting pressure on them. People will feel that they owe you something, so they will find a way to pay you back. If they can't pay you back, they will find a way not to associate with you. So as not to always owe you favors. If you want to show your sincerity, you might as well ask a girl to spend money together, such as finding a good restaurant to eat, or finding an expensive place to play together. Girls can naturally see that you spend a lot of money, but after all, money is Two people spent it together instead of turning it into something to take home.

3. What exactly is a “girlfriend”?

1. "Girlfriend" is a fact, not a promise

When you start dating a girl, you change from "ordinary friends" to "good friends", and then to To "a very, very good friend who talks about everything", you "accidentally" held her hand on a sunny afternoon; to "the moon above the willows", you suddenly attacked and kissed her. At this time, she is already your girlfriend. Whether she admits it or not, she already thinks that you are her boyfriend.

I know that the wisest person didn’t even ask “Will you be my girlfriend” until we went to bed? In the end, the girl got anxious and said, “Why don’t you ask me to be your girlfriend? ”

So, don’t rush to pierce the window paper. The more hazy the situation is, the better it is for you.

2. What is "confession"?

As mentioned before, confession is actually just a formality. The correct sequence should be: Only when you have actually become your girlfriend can you confess your love to someone, and it will be a matter of course. Many people don't understand this issue and always think that someone agrees to be their girlfriend first and then does whatever they want. I can only say that he is very, very "innocent" and also very, very "stupid".

3. Is there ever a time when you “have no choice but to express your feelings”?

Yes, for example, a third party appears, or the relationship between you and the girl is not mature but the two of you may be separated for a period of time.

The confession at this time is an immature confession, and the risk is very high. It is similar to the serious situation when playing Go. The lagging side is forced to release the "winner's hand", and if it wins, it wins. If you lose, you can only say "Unlucky people are born".

4. Don’t say the word "love" easily

I often see "bold confessions". To be honest, I really think this is a very immature performance. "Love" is a sacred word, which means pursuit, commitment, and even a kind of responsibility.

Men who say "love" casually are irresponsible.

4. Civilized love cannot be forced.

1. Not every girl can be pursued.

There will always be many people chasing good girls. It is impossible. When everyone's wish comes true, there will always be losers. For example, even if you study hard and master the most advanced principles of chasing girls, you still can't catch up with any of the twins.

Think about the problem from another angle. A rural nanny who has not graduated from elementary school, no matter how nice she is to you, earns 600 per month and gives you a gift of 700 (), and is willing to "act like a cow or a horse" for you. You won't fall in love with her either. If she cries and pesters you every day, you will definitely feel annoyed.

So love needs a material foundation, or at least a balance.

2. Chasing girls is a serious social activity

Don’t annoy others and leave a way out for yourself. Why should a man worry about not having a wife? Some girls are indeed snobbish (a minority). If you are not convinced, you can work hard and use facts to prove that "she was blind at the time." Never mislead others or yourself.

Finally, don’t look cynical in front of mm. Being cynical sometimes means “you are a failure”

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