Watermelon Salon

? A few days ago, I posted a picture on Moments and organized a small online salon.

? Friends in the circle expressed their opinions after seeing it. A hundred schools of thought contended and expressed their own opinions. Because I have been in a hurry, I have not been able to sort out the opinions of my friends and colleagues in time. At this moment, it is rare for me to have a quiet time and space, so I want to seriously make a summary of the Watermelon Salon of the past few days.

1. Thank you everyone for your participation! ?

? I like everyone who is the same size as me - whether it is "height", "bust", or "brain", even if it is the small "jade ring" on my fingertips "...No matter how big or small, the word "the same" is enough and acceptable!

2. I would like to talk about "Salon" in particular.

? This word is the transliteration of French salon, and its original meaning is living room. At the end of the seventeenth century and the eighteenth century, French literati and artists often accepted the hospitality of noble women and gathered in the living room to talk about literature and art. Later, the place where writers and artists gathered and discussed was called "Salon". I have always liked the atmosphere of a salon, because a group of like-minded people gather together to sip drinks, enjoy elegant music, and hold a long conversation without any restraint. It feels really wonderful! The beauty lies in the harmony and freedom of the soul.

3. Sort out everyone’s opinions.

(1) Most people agree with the first point of view (please check the circle of friends the day before for details). The reasons are nothing more than the following:

Living is more important than how you live;

Experience is more important than never having been;

Pressure, encounter We have to face it;

To adapt, the premise must be change. ?

(2) A few people agree with the second view (please check the Moments the day before yesterday for details). The reasons are as follows:

If a person's living environment was too harsh when he was a child, his psychology will be distorted; there is no need for people to change themselves to suit the environment. ?

(3) Some people think that watermelons are watermelons and people are people, and they are incomparable. For watermelons, they can grow into deformities; but for people, this is not the case. ?

4. Talk about personal experience. ?

(1) Most people see watermelons, but they talk about people. Very few people only talk about watermelons. Therefore, people are always projecting unconsciously. ?

(2) Thinking must collide. You can be silent, but your thinking cannot be silent. It needs to always be electric! At this moment, I am willing to listen to hundreds of opinions. ?

(3) Change - a topic that is always controversial. Personally, I think that when not changing will endanger your life, it is worth changing; and when it has nothing to do with life, whether to change or not depends entirely on your life values ????and self-sensitivity. You decide your life! ?

(4) Life is a topic that will always arouse people’s self-association and deep thinking. Because living is the premise of everything; how to live is an eternal topic. It's worth thinking about forever, but you'll never find the answer! ? (5) Watermelon has only life, no soul. Living is alive, and dead is dead. People have life and soul. What exists is life, and what is alive is the soul. The poet Yu Xiuhua, in a wheelchair, traveled across half of China to sleep with you, not for personality and pleasure, but for that unruly and unyielding soul!

5. Sharing of wonderful ideas:

(1) The watermelon that survives in the cracks is brave, strong, and full of life tension. Even if it is not appreciated by others, it still has It is valuable. After all, it has been in this world and worked hard to grow. Although it did not grow into what I wanted or what others liked, it added a touch of green to the cracks in the rocks. Maybe a ripe melon will grow next year. A melon seedling!?

(2) Working hard to change yourself is to become a better version of yourself, not to become unable to find yourself or become someone else.

? (3) Suddenly, it reminds me of my Baroque. Try to grow up. There will always be people who appreciate yourself. Even if there is no one, I am the most unique!

(4) Look at it from a dialectical point of view: these are two views on one thing (pessimism or optimism). Optimistic people always think of working hard to change, while pessimistic people think Even if I try hard, it's still deformed. But I never thought that after hard work, only a small part of the bottom would be deformed. What if I don’t work hard? I'm afraid I don't even have a chance to grow!

(5) Life should be hidden, life should be revealed, and life should not be intentional. (6) Every life has a reason and meaning for its existence, regardless of health or disability.

(7) Life itself has the final say whether you are alive or not.

(8) Life is for one’s own experience, not for others to comment.

(9) I squeezed out hard just to see the scenery outside the stone crevice. And, I actually saw it!

(10) Although I have some deformities, I live a rich life.