Suddenly I was dumped by my college roommate and asked nothing. Should I persuade her or leave her alone?

Sure, don't touch her. Even if you do something wrong, she just doesn't respect you. There is no need to try to convince you. The best response to this kind of person is to ignore her and get along well with other roommates.

If you still want to play with her, try to communicate with her. If there is a cold war, both sides may have some problems. You can clearly say that you don't want to be the one who always apologizes. It may also be because of face, so roommates don't take the initiative to make up. You can also ask her to take turns apologizing to each other. If the relationship is not very good and you feel indifferent, just relax and play with other roommates.

I also have a roommate in my dormitory who doesn't talk to me for no reason, but laughs with others. At first, I was very sad, which affected my communication with others. In this case, other roommates who didn't realize it thought it was my problem. Now I know that such a person is not worth it. Since they are not worth it, there is no need to care. She has a lot of friends, and she is not bad.

You must have your temper and your ability. He was humiliated in the cold war because he (or he thought he) had a bigger temper than you. He could overwhelm you and bully you, and finally you bowed to him.

So you should also have your bottom line temper. Another point is that he believes that it will not be affected after the cold war, and he has the ability to stop all those who stand on his side. For example, if six people in your dormitory go to dinner together, they will be happy to talk and laugh with the other four people without affecting their emotions, and you will be uncomfortable and embarrassed. This is what people want.

So you should also have your ability, so that everyone is not influenced by him, as always. When you have such ability and temper, you have the initiative, and you don't have to worry about what to do, but you won't care about him directly, because he can't influence you anymore!

After all, roommates are just roommates, not friends. If you keep throwing your face, just pretend she doesn't exist. I might as well do something else when I have time. It's good to read books or something. Really, as the first floor said, you are not her mother, so there is no need to follow her.

Everyone is an independent individual and has his own unique world outlook and values. He cherishes meeting like-minded people; When he meets someone he hates, he is treated as a passerby. Respect others and respect yourself.