The education method of "meticulous aunt" is very popular. Although the acting skills are grandiose, the children are really useful.

With children, we can deeply understand how difficult education is.

If children want to develop good behavior habits from childhood and contribute to future success, they should start from their daily lives. Preaching and preaching are not good. Everyone knows that osmosis is the best, but how to make children cooperate willingly is really a big problem.

To guide children's attitude towards things and make them polite, sensible and obedient, we must enter the children's world.

At this point, aunts or young aunts with smaller age gaps may have an advantage. After all, they don't pay so much attention to authority and image, and they can get along better with children.

Some time ago, I brushed a video of "Jingfen Aunt" with a baby. When I clicked on the homepage, I was immediately attracted.

This aunt (nephew can't pronounce "Auntie" yet, so she calls herself Xiao Yan) basks in her little nephew's daily life, and is mainly funny, which is a relaxed family comedy type, but full of educational significance.

In the video, she is more like a child than a nephew, and there is no adult shelf at all. She is a cheerful and lively drama girl.

Although her acting skills are very grandiose, after brushing a few videos, I found that her unique education method is really useful for children, and children are easy to understand and the effect is excellent.

Seeing my nephew leaving toys all over the room, my aunt didn't hurry to clean up, but rolled around and pretended to collapse and cry to attract attention.

When the nephew heard the crying, he turned away at once. At this time, his aunt quickly struck while the iron was hot: "I can't sort out these toys, I need you." When the little nephew heard that he was motivated, he immediately packed his toys.

Tell him a story patiently and tell him with the child's empathy that the big brother in the toilet is hungry and no one gives him poop. He was so sad that he wanted to "run away from home".

After a long struggle, my little nephew still sat on the toilet.

In order to eliminate children's fear of washing their hair, aunt's pores are funny, and she exaggeratedly asked her nephew, "Do you want the water baby to swim on her head?"

Does the amused baby have any other choice? Of course we have to cooperate!

In order to let the children intuitively understand how important water is, the aunt once again turned her face aside.

She pretended to be weak on the ground and asked her nephew for water to drink. After drinking the water, she jumped up at once, acting vigorously and dancing with the children.

Looking at this grandiose action, the lady next to her stepped back in fear. She thought she saw something strange.

Then she said, "Your father liked to eat these when he was a child. Now he is short and fat. His aunt never eats them. Look how slim I am. "

For this aunt's behavior, netizens have gradually changed from watching the excitement at the beginning to praising.

Especially in the video of going to the toilet, there are indeed many parents who are troubled by this. It is said that children are not willing to use the toilet yet. Although her method is a bit heavy, the effect is really good.

This is precisely because we grasp the psychological characteristics of children and express them simply, so we can get efficient understanding. What should we do?

1, relatively weak

Many parents feel that their children are too young to be trusted to do anything.

In fact, children have a strong desire for control. The more they are needed, the more confident they are.

Before the age of 6, children's sympathy is the most flooding moment. At this time, as long as you show weakness appropriately, he will not hesitate to help you. Take the opportunity to let children do what they can and cultivate independent personality.

2. Simple expression

It is said that there is a generation gap at the age of three, and sometimes parents feel that their children are disobedient. In fact, the child is not angry with you, and may really not understand.

But when my nephew heard what my aunt said, he immediately responded, saying that this simple and distinctive expression is good.

Step 3 get along on an equal footing

There are always some parents who feel that they should have dignity in front of their children, but they don't know that equality can better educate their children. When children regard their parents as companions, parents' opinions and suggestions are often more easily adopted.

Why do children always listen to their aunts? First, the age gap is not very big, you can communicate with him in his thinking language; Second, without shelves, you won't feel bound when you play together.

These are all worth learning for parents. Just try it. Anyway, the problem won't be more serious, and there may be unexpected gains ~