Talking about high emotional intelligence

1, life is your own, you don't have to frame your own life by other people's standards. If you want to please everyone and meet everyone's standards, you will eventually lose yourself. You can't please everyone, because everyone has their own different standards. Trying to make everyone like you is futile and irresponsible to yourself. Don't get lost in other people's comments, just listen to your inner voice and be yourself.

The older you get, the more uncomfortable you feel socially. Therefore, it is never wrong to master a survival skill and seriously develop a hobby of being alone.

Don't argue with anyone. If I love you, don't argue. If you don't love, it's no use arguing. Everything has an answer. It's better to let nature take its course than to worry about it.

You peel an onion, try to peel off its skin and look at its heart. Peel off the onion layer by layer, and finally find that the onion is unintentional. However, when you peel an onion, you shed tears, but the onion falls off. But if you don't want to, it's hard.

When you are tired and bitter, you should bite the bullet, because there is a family behind you that needs you. I have to bear all the difficulties alone. This is the responsibility.