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I quarreled with my mother-in-law again: don't persuade others to be kind if you don't suffer.
Always tell yourself over and over again, look at the good of others and look at the bad of others less.
However, after all, people are not saints, so how can they do it?
I worked hard all morning and made a lot of steamed buns. I don't know what to eat when I think about breakfast in the morning.
There is still a small piece of meat left unfinished, and some pies have been baked.
My mother-in-law said it was delicious.
This morning, my mother-in-law asked me what to eat. I said I didn't make buns for breakfast yesterday. Mother-in-law said, I have tasted one of your steamed bread, which is so delicious that I can't give it to Liang. I want to cook noodles.
As soon as I heard it, I was not very happy. The stuffing of steamed stuffed buns is really important, so I put more salt, otherwise my husband said it was weak.
Doesn't mean children can't eat, does it?
I got up at once, put the steamed bread in the pot and made noodle soup. My son liked it very much and ate three.
The most unbearable thing is that you have wasted a lot of effort and made good things, but in her view, these things are worthless and useless, and you always try to find something wrong and then suppress you.
My husband loves tomato and egg noodles made when I first got married. At that time, my mother-in-law would say: Is my noodles delicious or Yuan Mei's delicious?
What can my husband say? I believe he will be the same as before, and no one will offend or please him: everything is delicious.
It's been like this for so many years. When you do well, you are not recognized, and even out of jealousy, you always want to find fault. If you don't do well, it immediately means: why doesn't anyone eat your fried food? I'm afraid no one will know that you're not doing well.
Today is my father-in-law's birthday. My mother-in-law bought ribs a few days in advance.
The night before, I washed the ribs and marinated them with salt and cooking wine.
I'm sending my son to a writing class this morning, so I took out the ribs in advance, boiled them in water and stewed them in a pot.
Every time I cook, my mother-in-law will run to the kitchen with something. Tell me, this should be done, that should be done, what should be put in the stewed ribs, and what should not be put.
Yesterday morning, too, as soon as I got up, I began to assign things to me: there are many loofahs in the refrigerator, you fry a loofah at noon; What are you going to do tonight? Tomorrow is his grandfather's birthday. What are you going to put in the ribs ... endless chatting.
I was really upset and told my mother-in-law that you don't have to worry so much. How tired I am. I know what to do at home.
As soon as my mother-in-law heard this, she came back immediately: Why can't you say anything? Did you get impatient before you said a word? What do you mean I'm worried? I am as good as you, but I live an easy life and don't have to worry about anything.
Hehe, as soon as I have a rest on Saturday and Sunday, I am busier at work than usual. From morning till night, I feel that I have little leisure time, but my mother-in-law can't see it.
It is natural for you to get up early to cook and send the children. My husband sleeps until eight or nine every morning. If the son and daughter-in-law change places and the daughter-in-law sleeps until eight or nine o'clock every day, it is estimated that the sky will collapse.
This is the difference between a son and a wife.
The son will always be his own, and the daughter-in-law will always be an outsider.
As a n experienced person, I often urge in front of my mother:
Don't always follow your mother-in-law, interfere in everything, want to manage everything, love to say everything, and protect your son. You will be jealous when you see that your son has a good relationship with his wife. Don't always expect her daughter-in-law to do more and her son to do less. The food cooked by her daughter-in-law is delicious, so don't always be jealous. ...
My son is human, so is my daughter-in-law. Before marriage, who is not my mother's little princess? I'm afraid to throw it in my hand and melt it in my mouth?
Once the carefully cared-for flowers are taken away by some bastard calf, they have no original brilliant and fragrant appearance, only endless destruction.
It is true that a woman is a princess for one day and a queen for ten months.
Moving things and carrying water during pregnancy will make you be careful not to move the tire gas in your stomach.
As soon as the child fell to the ground, he immediately said, can't this work be done?
Too realistic. This is life.
When I first got married, I often collapsed. Family of origin's shadow has not been shaken off, and I will enter another bottomless abyss with no end in sight.
In those dark moments, no one knew how confused and helpless my heart was.
Occasionally tell your mother about your inner pain: the response you get is always: she is an old man, listen to her when she scolds you, and you can't argue with her. Outsiders know, but laugh at your unfilial.
Growing up, it was because of the education of such a rotten good person as my mother that I suffered a lot.
For a long time after I became an adult, I felt extremely inferior inside.
I always feel that I am inferior to others everywhere, and I have to please others everywhere; If you don't deserve a good life, don't deserve to wear good clothes and spend some money occasionally, you will feel guilty and feel unworthy.
They all say that they don't suffer others, and they don't persuade others to be good.
My mother's advice will only make me silently close my heart, and then silently bear and swallow my inner suffering. Even once I thought of divorce and suicide.
I really didn't want to listen to my mother-in-law this morning, so I thought about the skills in violent communication:
Observe first, then express your feelings, then express your needs, and finally put forward clear requirements.
I said to my mother-in-law: You have your way, and I have my way. I don't like people always imposing their ideas on me. None of us interfere with each other. I don't like your way, but I won't say it. You don't like my way, and I hope you don't say it.
My mother-in-law immediately refused: can't I make a suggestion? Can't you make a suggestion? Well, if I have money, I think it is better to live separately.
As soon as I heard my mother-in-law say this, I immediately got angry: I think so, too. I live in my own comfort.
Mother-in-law began to say endlessly: Your father and I are almost the same age now, and we are still working hard endlessly. If it weren't for you, how could we be so tired?
Moral kidnapping has begun again.
Think about dad, he is sixty years old this year. I stayed at home alone, planted 14 and 15 mu of land, and there was no shortage of vegetable gardens. Generally, I have to go to the street town site to do the work of knitting molds.
I asked my father if the floor where he went to work was high. My father said there were five or six floors when it was high. I said, are there any safety precautions? Dad said no, just pay attention to yourself.
I told my father that at such a big age, I have planted so many fields and still work on the construction site. After work, I want to wash clothes and cook by myself. How hard it is.
Dad has always been indifferent: I am still young and there is nothing wrong with my body. I can work for a few more years, when I can't move. It's even worse to stay at home and not work.
In fact, my brothers and sisters and I have advised my father not to plant so many fields and go to work on the construction site, but my father always refuses to listen.
Dad never complained in front of us, never morally kidnapped, and did anything for us.
Every time I come back from my father, I can't calm down for a long time. I feel sorry for my father, but I can't do anything.
Both parents, why is there such a big difference?
I admit that my parents-in-law have worked hard, but shouldn't my son take on more gratitude?
My daughter-in-law, an outsider, is trying to live every day. In the end, she always wants me to know that they are suffering because of me.
With what?
I came to your house alone to give birth to your son, do laundry and cook, and be filial to my parents-in-law. Do I make sense?
I told my mother-in-law that you should recite these words to your sleeping son instead of always saying them in front of me.
My mother-in-law said: I have worked with your parents all my life, and my body is fed up with all kinds of problems. In the future, I will live separately. You want to give us money, don't think it's yours?
"I can give you this house for free." I told my mother-in-law directly.
Yes, I want to open it now. If I don't have a house, I can live well alone.
Women must make themselves strong and independent, so that they can live better and be better themselves when others look down on them.
What annoys me most is my husband's habit of keeping silent.
Every time a mother-in-law quarrels with her daughter-in-law, her husband will always look like he has nothing to do with himself and remain silent forever. Afraid of offending people.
When I first got married, my father-in-law specially said to my son: When you serve a meal in the future, you must give it to your mother first. Mom is always the first, and there is only one mother. Your wife can have another one.
This sentence is deeply imprinted in my heart.
I picked up my mobile phone and questioned my husband: It is said that the good relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law depends on her husband. Are you deaf or deaf? Can't you say something to calm your feelings down?
Husband directly replied: Why don't you miss you? The tone in the morning is better than anyone else.
My husband's words made me feel chilling again.
After every quarrel, make yourself angry, without persuasion or persuasion, until you get angry.
As a mother-in-law, she asked her son to be caring and attentive, served tea and poured water, and broke into this strange world like an outsider.
I can't stop crying after writing so much.
I thought my inner wound had healed, but I didn't expect it to be torn so lightly, and it still hurts.
Anyway, we should learn to love ourselves more, accept ourselves and not blame ourselves.
The world is cold, and no one can protect you, care for you and love you except yourself.
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