Brother-in-law is married, let's buy a house with money. What should I do?

Hello, everyone. My name is Wang Dan. I am 30 years old. I have been married for seven years. I married my husband soon after I graduated from college. We went to college together. We have been together since college. It can be said that our relationship is very good. When we got married, my parents said they wanted 30 thousand bride price, but his family was poor. His parents farm at home, and a younger brother is in college. He has almost no income and can only take care of his own life. So he discussed with me and exempted the bride price. I had to tell my parents that they loved us deeply, so I said forget it. As long as you live well in the future, the bride price is not important. My husband was also very moved. He said he would treat my parents and me well in the future, so that we could get married. After we got married, we came to the city together and rented a house in the city. We all found our own jobs. The first two years were very hard, eating. My husband and I are both very motivated, so our salary is getting higher and higher. My husband has also become a department manager, and my parents feel embarrassed, saying that I have a good eye and I am very happy myself.

This kind of life lasted for a year. I found out that I was pregnant, and then my husband asked me not to go to work and wait for the baby to be born at home. In the meantime, we also bought our own house. Although I have to pay the mortgage, my life is getting better and better, and I have also lived in a new house. At this time, my husband said that he would pick up his parents, and I agreed. With the birth of the baby, the family is also lively, but contradictions have also emerged, as well as his parents' lives. I like to eat overnight meals and I don't pay attention to hygiene at all. My baby is often sick because of unsanitary habits. My mother-in-law became unhappy after I said a few words, saying that I was too aggressive and that they had come like this before and were unhealthy. I said that there were many bacteria in the past, and it was always right to pay attention, but they didn't listen and still went their own way. My husband followed them and asked me to let me. Last month, my husband's younger brother, that is, his brother-in-law, came to live in our house with his girlfriend. There are three rooms in our house. I want to live in it, so let them live. After all, they are my husband's younger brothers. They said they would look for a job in the city, but a month passed and they didn't go out to look for any job. They just stay at home every day, go out to play when they are free, and go home when they are busy. Nothing happens. I don't know, but my mother-in-law is very kind to them and won't let them do any housework, and so is my brother-in-law's girlfriend. Just like at home, I took all the snacks and fruits I bought casually and didn't pick them up after eating. It's smoky at home every day. In such an environment, it's strange that children don't get sick. I just told my husband that it wouldn't work and told them to find a job and move out quickly. So many people are crowded here.

No, my mother-in-law took me aside the other day and told me that my brother-in-law was getting married and wanted to buy a suite in the city. They asked us to give money, saying that the down payment should be 200 thousand, so let us take it first and pay it back later. I said they weren't even married, and they couldn't support themselves. They still want to buy a house. What do they want to pay back when they buy a mortgage? And this 200,000 yuan is what we are required to pay. Did our money come from the flood? It's hard enough for people who already have a big family to get us to pay for a house. This is also a fact. When we got married, we didn't say anything about buying us a house. Why pay for it? My mother-in-law, too. They really said such things. My mother-in-law said I didn't agree, and that the whole family didn't help. I said it was urgent not to save the poor. How can my brother get married and buy a house and let him pay for it? My husband and I discussed that we should not take money out to buy a house for our younger brother, saying that he is not young, and he will get married and settle down after buying a house, so that they will have a foothold in the city and face when they go home. I said, if they want to get married and buy a house, why don't they earn it themselves and let us pay for it, so that they will have face when they go home. We have suffered a lot to get here today. Let me spend all my money to buy them a house. I don't agree with ten thousand people. We have quarreled many times about this matter. My mother-in-law often says that I am not sensible. My husband told me about it again today. Let's have a look.

Guys, is there something wrong with my attitude? Brother-in-law married to buy a house, don't we pay, we don't pay is wrong, which have this truth, we didn't say let them pay to buy a house, I just an attitude, resolute can't give, see how they are, everyone said I did something wrong?