Do couples need privacy?

I think there should be privacy between husband and wife. Let’s talk about my reasons below.

First, as the husband, you should have some privacy regarding money. To put it bluntly, it is private money. This is a very important point.

In many ordinary families today, it is the wife who calls the shots. My wife has the final say when it comes to finances. If she says nothing, it will cause unnecessary family conflicts and disputes. A truly family-oriented man, in order to calm down unnecessary family conflicts, will try his best to satisfy his wife's financial management desires in terms of money. However, she must not satisfy her desire wholeheartedly. A portion of "private money" must be left aside for emergencies.

In the emergency project, the biggest part is to honor one's parents. Everyone should know that most women are petty people. Although they can also be considerate and reasonable. However, when it comes to treating parents-in-law, they are not as good as treating their own parents. Therefore, male compatriots should have a little privacy when it comes to money. Leave some "private money" behind. Used to prevent physical discomfort of parents and interpersonal relationships between friends.

Second, the second aspect of privacy is the interaction with friends of the opposite sex.

If a couple wants to grow old together, the last thing they should not reveal is the information about having friends of the opposite sex. In fact, there are no friends of the opposite sex between married men and women. To put it bluntly, they are their lovers, mistresses and the like. Anyone can say that his relationship with her is a true heterosexual friendship. In my own opinion, any privacy regarding friends of the opposite sex will be exposed in the end. You must not take any chances. To better maintain the longevity of your original marriage. The best way is to terminate this perverted heterosexual friendship. The rest, nothing else.

Three, privacy is not privacy.

A man who cares about his family must not often mention the trivial things he did before he got married in front of his wife. How was my former lover so beautiful|how talented. Just because you mention these things in front of your wife does not reflect your past glory. It can only bring distrust to your wife.

You may feel that your past has been very prosperous, but in fact, this is the beginning of the decline of your marriage. The more you bring up the past, the faster your marriage will decline.

After a good man gets married, it is best not to mention the past things in front of his wife. Don't babble in front of your wife all day long about how beautiful and talented such and such a woman is. This is consistent with the above point of view. Don't even mention the promotion and salary increase of your colleagues in the company in front of your wife.

His promotion has nothing to do with him. Why bother yourself with unnecessary troubles? It doesn't matter if it brings trouble to yourself, the most important thing is how will your wife feel after hearing this? Most women will feel groundless jealousy and complaint when they hear that their husband's colleagues get a promotion and a salary increase. Therefore, there are some things that are not private. To be a good husband, you have to keep them private.