The happiness of the elderly is companionship: I play with my grandmothers.

There are old people in the family as treasures, and there are old people in the family as small. It is the traditional wish of every old man in China to enjoy his old age and have his children around his knees. However, with the increasing pressure of life and busy career, his children have little leisure to take care of the white-haired old people at home.

Accompany the elderly to do "action" instead of "heart". When we were growing up, they broke their hearts and devoted their whole lives, losing all their hair and blurring their eyes. At this time, they just need the same company as they do for us, and they need us.

I am a unique young man, and my thoughts and practices are always different from others. When I was a child, my parents earned money outside, and there were old nurses and grandparents at home. Three old people care about me the most. /kloc-I slept with my old wet nurse before I was 0/3 years old. She loved me very much. Both she and her grandfather tend to prefer sons to daughters. They always treat me better than my sister.

I often say to my grandma and grandparents, "When I grow up, I want to buy a good car and take you on a trip." I have said this wish many times, but Lao Nai didn't wait. She died peacefully in her sleep when she was in the third grade of junior high school. At that time, every night when she thought of her, she cried under the covers for a long time.

Grandpa is in poor health and cannot do without grandma's care. I have lived with my grandparents since the old nurse left. The autumn after Lao Nai's death, I went to school in Zhengzhou. When I came back from the Spring Festival, I was talking and laughing with my grandfather. Although he was not old at that time, he was already confused under the torture of illness. He often says to me, "Shuai Shuai, don't go to school and talk to grandpa at home." On the first day of school, I went to my grandfather's bedside and said to him, "Grandpa, I'm going to school. You should listen to grandma at home. " Grandpa took my hand and said, "handsome boy, don't go." I am afraid that I will never see you again after you leave. " I held back the tears in my eyes for fear that my grandfather would be sad. I said, "Nothing, Grandpa. I'll ask for leave and come back to see you in a few days. "

I went to school for more than 20 days and had strange dreams for three consecutive days. I dreamed that my grandfather reached out and pulled me, but I couldn't. You can only answer the phone in the dormitory, not make a phone call. You can only walk to the school phone booth and call home. You didn't know until you called that grandpa had died for three days. At that time, my eyes could not help but shed tears and stayed in the telephone booth.

In less than a year, my grandparents left one after another, and my heart was always uneasy for two or three years.

They are gone and can't wait for me to take them on a trip. This is my lifelong regret and guilt. Grandma has taken care of grandpa for more than ten years and has paid a lot for our big family, so she should enjoy it. Every year in Tomb-Sweeping Day, July 15, 10/day, no matter where I am, I will go home to visit my grandparents and chat with them.

Every July 15, Xijiang village will sing big plays. Although grandma doesn't know much about drama, she likes watching it. At first, I took grandma to see it by bike. Later, when I got a motorcycle, I went to see it by motorcycle. Many old people envy grandma because they all go on foot. Grandma has grandchildren to take her to see her every day. I think I want a car. I can not only take grandma to the theatre, but also take other old people with me. First of all, I can make them not walk. Second, you can be a companion with grandma.

A few years ago, my father bought a new car and gave me my old one. Now my wish can come true. I can not only go to the theatre on July 15, but also take my grandmothers to the mountains for the summer in hot weather, accompany them to places I have never been to, go for the summer, pick persimmons and so on.

Limited conditions, I can only pull four people at a time, and I can only walk with another person. This time you went, and the next time she went, the old people all liked to go out with me, but some old people were embarrassed. They said, "You seldom make money, so it's not easy. It's a shame that you dragged us to play and managed to eat. " I said to them, "You are all my elders, so it is right for me to take you to play. I am still young and earn money, but you won't have a lot of opportunities in the future. The old man often says to my grandmother, "You have a good grandson, and we are all happy for you. "

Actually, grandma can be quite embarrassed sometimes. Once, she took the old people to Longquan Valley for the summer. My grandmother said to me, "I really want to go out and have a look. It's not light that you drag your work every day. " I said to my grandmother, "As long as I can always take you outside, it is my happiness as a grandson, which is better than burning paper in front of your grave a hundred years later."

The happiness of the elderly is companionship. I hope more people can go out with the elderly and spend more time with them. The tree wants to be quiet, but the wind not only cares about the children, but it won't be a pity that the old man can't walk.

On the summer vacation of 20 18, I took my grandma, aunt, grandparents and grandparents to spend the summer vacation together. My grandparents like to go out for a walk, but they always find reasons not to go. I said to my grandfather, "Go romantically with my grandparents while you can, or you will regret it." Grandpa Joe doesn't want to go out with us every time. We have been to Weihui luoquan Village, Jinquan Temple, and seen the Millennium Ginkgo, Sigou, Yufeng, Sidaozhuang and Wulong Cave in Wulong, as well as dozens of places such as Longquan Valley, Huangluochi, Cao Zhuang and Guanling in Qi Lin. In the autumn of 2065438+2009, Grandpa Zu had a sudden cerebral hemorrhage. Fortunately, with the blessing of Bodhisattva, I recovered well later, but I can't do whatever I want as before. Once, I met my grandfather and he said to me, "Handsome boy, you have taken me to so many places before. If you know that you are sick, you should take me to more places. "

20 19 10, accompanied the leaders of various departments in Luohe city to shoot persimmons in Lougou. Grandma told me that the leaders all went to Lougou to shoot persimmons. She doesn't know where Lou Gou is. Grandma said that she also wanted to go to Lougou to pick persimmons, but her grandparents wanted to go, but they couldn't, so they went to see his sister Ma, who is also my mistress, and called my aunt. Five of us drove to Lougou Village. When picking persimmons, grandma asked me what villages were in the north and east. I said Malan village, and four old people said they had never been there. After picking persimmons, I took them to Nianshang Village, Yanshang Village, Yangxuanshan Village and Malan Village. Seeing old people happy, I don't want to mention how comfortable they are. Grandma zu's sister came out with us for the first time. She said: "I didn't expect there to be a mountain outside this mountain. There are so many villages in the east of our home. I will accompany you out more in the future. "

In the autumn of 2020, Jenny, the sister of grandparents, died of illness. I went to mourn her old man on the fifth day of the tenth lunar month, 19 went to Lougou to pick persimmons 10/8. Unexpectedly, in less than a year, yin and yang were separated, and maybe she didn't expect that she would never go outside again. In recent years, several old people have slept well at night and never woke up the next day, which is incredible.

I just want to tell you that the elderly need company. They grew up with us. We should grow old with them and take them out for a walk more often, so that there will be no regrets in this life.