My boyfriend is in the army, five years older than me. I have been dating him for almost four months, but I am still young. ...

I wonder which army your boyfriend is in. People's Armed Police Liberation Army? But one thing, people who come out of the army are very serious about their feelings and rarely talk about it. I also came out of the army and just changed jobs this year. He should cherish you. Moreover, cadres who are not allowed to use mobile phones in the army may not have time to reply to text messages every day when they are busy or in meetings, so you should understand that he supports him to do his own thing and reassure him. And the men who come out of the army are very responsible for taking care of people, so you should cherish them.