Who will you tell when you encounter troubles in your life?

When I was single, most of me would tell my friends something that bothered me! After marriage, most people will tell their husbands when they encounter troubles!

I am a person who can't sleep when I have something on my mind. I like to say something, but I don't like to hold it back! Every time I speak, no matter whether the problem is solved or not, I feel a lot smoother inside!

The saddest thing is that every time I have something bothering me, my husband can't see it, and he always wants me to tell him that I am unhappy! Then he didn't know why I was unhappy, so he kept guessing, and the reason he guessed made me feel very funny!

In fact, young people are under great pressure now. If something bothers them, tell them. Don't pretend to be strong, because telling yourself doesn't mean being weak!

Over half a year old, there are many troubles in work and life that have nowhere to tell.

At school, I can tell my parents about my troubles. At that time, I thought they were my backbone, and they would help me with my ideas and try to resolve many contradictions. When I got married, I started telling my daughter-in-law. I can solve any problem when I meet her with a flexible mind. I told all my troubles at work to my close colleagues. I will talk about my troubles and difficulties, and he will talk about his problems and methods. I think it is enough to have a bosom friend in life.

I like to hold back everything now. Tell your parents that you are old and can't stand any ups and downs. As long as they know what's wrong with me, they will call you several times a day to ask you about it. I can't stop worrying and gradually learn to hide. These are all good intentions. Tell my daughter-in-law that we are menopausal and have never sat together and chatted. Things are always quarreling and solving, and neither of us likes the other. Every little thing in life will become the fuse of "war" Tell your colleagues that no one wants to hear it. People are so old. All kinds of troubles, difficulties and unhappy things are intertwined in their minds. Who wants to listen to you? It is even more impossible to tell a child that the learning task is heavy. Sometimes I can't talk to him on the phone, and he is also very annoyed.

There is nothing to say in my heart, and I can't vent my emotions. I like a person hiding in the room, staring blankly at an object, thinking, crying for no reason. I don't know if I have depression, but I always want to go to the hospital psychology department to see a doctor.

Last week, two teenagers contacted me for hot pot. After a few drinks, they began to talk about their troubles. They are all similar things. The relationship between children's bus tickets and the elderly's support for brothers and sisters was quickly expressed. I felt very happy on my way home after the party. Looks like it's better to find someone to talk to.

No one can say anything, just like listening to music quietly and staring blankly in my small garden. To tell the truth, a precious mother like me has not been to work for several years, and it is unrealistic to talk to anyone. In addition, my friends used to have a good time at work, but they haven't kept in touch since they got married. How can they talk to others when they are in a bad mood and have no girlfriend? I live in the dormitory of my husband's company all the year round, and it takes a few minutes to drive to the company to buy food. Even less. Now only their wives are close friends, but because there is no one here, there is no place to play, and it is gray. I only come once every few months for a few days, but I've always been used to living here. I have nothing to feed chickens, birds and fish, and all kinds of flowers and vegetables. After a day, I am in my small garden when I am in a bad mood.

Life will inevitably encounter troubles. Every time I feel unhappy or encounter something very wronged and uncomfortable, I will tell my mother and my husband.

My mother and I didn't live together in primary school. I don't want to leave her to be with my grandmother. I lived in my hometown and went to school there until junior high school.

Every time I came home from school in junior high school, I kept talking around my mother, telling her everything that happened at school, even when I was eating. Most importantly, when I told my mother about my school, she listened carefully and would discuss it with me. I think my mother is particularly concerned about my feelings, so I respect her very much. I am a high school student, so I want to say less to me. I often called my mother when I was in college, and sometimes I could talk to my mother for an hour or two when I was unhappy.

Now that I am married and have children, it has become a habit to open videos with my mother every day. If I don't give it to my mother, she will come to me, and there are endless topics every day. My mother will tell me a lot of things, and sometimes she will spit on my father.

Besides, it's my husband. When I am unhappy at work, I will tell him that at first my husband will listen, then help me analyze, and then take me to buy delicious food or play to distract my unhappy mood. Soon my mood will be much better.

I really appreciate the love and care of my family. I will try my best to be excellent.

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I wish you all happiness every day and all the best.

I used to be a fragile person. I have to tell my parents all the sad and helpless things, and I will feel better after that. But then I found that my parents spent a lot of time on my affairs, and I was very comfortable, but my parents couldn't sleep all night because of their bad life. Now I think that I am really unfilial. After working for several years now, I gradually realize that everyone may encounter unpleasant things every day. It's better to digest it yourself than to cause trouble to your family. Find a quiet and open place to digest yourself, learn to think positively, or write down all your troubles, or turn your sadness into appetite, or chat with strangers and so on. These are some ways for me to ease my sadness.

Because I have been used to independence since I was a child, I will slowly digest myself when I encounter troubles. I have been very sensitive to the word "good news but not bad news" since I was a child.

My situation is the same as many left-behind children. When I was a child, my parents did business all the year round. Only my grandmother and I stayed at home and helped her share the housework since childhood. I'm tired, but I won't talk. No matter what you are unhappy about, you won't show it. Let your parents leave you alone. Also let grandma worry less.

Many people think that the friends they make when they grow up are the objects to talk about their troubles, but I don't think so. It is more appropriate for good friends to share happiness together. Instead of treating each other like trash cans, I listen to your nagging troubles and locks every day.

In fact, no matter how hard and tired I was when I was a child, I was spanked by my parents and teachers. As long as I go out with my friends, I will forget all my unhappiness naively and romantically.

After entering the society, you will meet all kinds of people and things, and there will be no shortage of troubles. I usually meet someone who annoys me, but I just make him more annoyed than me. For example, my roommate lets me sleep. If I communicate with him and go my own way, I will be twice as happy as him. After a while, I will feel more comfortable when his voice comes down.

If it's an annoyance at work, I'll talk to my good buddies and friends and brag, so that I can enlighten myself to some extent. As long as there is nothing at home, I will try not to tell my relatives about it. If I am unhappy, I will handle it alone. Don't let people worry. Everyone will experience setbacks and unpleasant troubles. As long as I practice a strong mind, nothing will happen.

To sum up, don't embarrass yourself, but others.

Who will you tell when you encounter troubles in your life?

Different ages, different genders, different troubles, different people to talk to.

A young woman may talk to her best friend or ask her parents for support. Married women are more likely to talk to their lovers, vent their emotions, seek support and relieve their troubles.

Young men are more likely to talk to their partners in order to get help and advice from their friends.

For a middle-aged man, he may not say anything, or confide in his heart when drinking with his brother. However, they don't want any comfort or guidance. As a middle-aged man, his mind is already mature, and he says nothing, because he knows that he must bear it silently, pour out, and just vent. As the pillars of the family, they often don't want to say, can't say, and don't want to say. At this age, they understand that they can trust themselves. There is no difference between saying and not saying, sometimes it is better not to say. Therefore, most middle-aged men are silent, because he knows that sometimes he said it himself and got it. . . . . .

Who will you tell when you are sad?

When you encounter troubles in your life, you are often willing to communicate with people who have had this experience. Because people who have had the same emotional experience will have the same thoughts and feelings, and will have the same topics and narratives. So when you encounter troubles, you must find someone who has encountered such troubles. For example, if your job is frustrated, you can find some jobs, which were not satisfactory before. Nowadays, popular people communicate with others and let others answer your questions. Let people show you a way out of this annoying day. For example, if you are a second-married person, you and your second-married wife have many contradictions in the second-married life world. In this case, in the face of such troubles, you will usually find that those who are married are better. Because you tell him how you feel, he will understand your situation and experience, and he will show you a sunshine avenue. Let you walk out of the smoke of marriage, dispel the troubles and sadness in your heart, and make you feel that life and marriage are still many things that people yearn for, full of expectations and fantasies. Therefore, I advise those who encounter troubles to find someone who can understand themselves. Don't look for someone sadder than you when you are sad. Don't look for the person you wronged. He is more wronged than you. Because the person you choose to tell is positive, it will affect your irritability and make you positive. You should know that the virus infection of the mind is very serious, so you must talk to those who are full of positive energy, optimism and justice, and you will get a kind of counseling to make you a more optimistic and caring person.